Penis Size Obsession

Definitely true.

 

well I have been told I have a little dick, but I know I am not little, she was just being the bitch I knew her to be, not only that she came back and continues to come back. I don't understand how it isn't an issue if females try to use it as a weapon.. some chicks are just fucking dumb.

 

Bitches know that guys are paranoid about this issue. She was just using it to her advantage.

 

funny cause I never cry about my cock being small.

 

well, my wife has said that I'm not the biggest she has had, but she does say I know how to use it. I have had a girl friend that she couldn't orgasm until I was inside her and she went wild

 

Well, being an 18 year old with no actual experience with sex whatsoever, here’s how I see this issue. This might be a long post.

Guys are generally more competitive, humans generally are fascinated by large things, the penis could be seen as a defining aspect of a man, so a bigger penis could mean “more of a man.” The origin of the penis size obsession is what I am the most curious about and have never really thought of all that much. All I know is, it started somewhere, and it is perpetuated, affecting the masses of males worldwide in some way or another.

Let’s just assume one day a caveman found that his abnormally large penis is great for knocking out the wooly mammoth, and he convinces all of the other cavefolk that big penises are basically the greatest thing since the invention of the wheel and fire. So from this point on, all of humanity has this preference for a giant penis as it is passed down from generation to generation, then with the advent of media, the notion of bigger = better proliferates, and here we are.
So, as a male living in society today, the importance of the size of my penis is not because some caveman had good luck beating the daylights out of mammoths, but because someone told me that my size is important over and over again, ingraining it in me.
During my pre-pubescent years, my penis was just a thing that I had, and I was good friends with it. Everything was cool. Then I get into junior high, and now the mayhem starts. Friends begin talking about sexual topics, and I’ve heard some claims of a guy’s penis extending up to his bellybutton. (I’m basically done growing now and mine can’t do this when fully reclined, these are 12-13 year olds I’m talking about.) I’ve also had a few instances where a guy has told me that my penis was small. He had no evidence to back this up, he just said it as an insult. I heard a girl who knew what the “average” size was (5 inches) small, making that humilating gesture with her thumb and index finger. So from these early years I was already geared towards the idea that a large penis is a good and desirable thing. I hoped mine was going to get big like everyone else’s apparently already was.
So then I inevitably get into porn. There are SOME penises in the 6 inch range, but not many. Most are 8”, circumsized, straight as an arrow, and as big around as an ok sign made with your middle finger and thumb. This is also about the same time that I started reading around on forums such as this one, and obtained a huge amount of anecdotal information about the truth of penis size. The majority of the information would have me believe that the size isn’t really all that important, between 5-7 inches is ideal. So because of this I always knew that male pornstars were hired because of their gear, and I knew that they did not represent the majority of men, but must have affected how I see penis size in proportion to the rest of my bodyjust because I’ve only seen two other actual erect penises in my life, and thousands on a screen. I am 6 feet tall, and my penis is a little over 6” long, and I think it looks tiny on me. I’m not ashamed of the number, but it just LOOKS small on me because I’m so used to seeing a third arm hanging off of men.
Then the scary stuff starts. This did not happen daily, but occasionally I would overhear girls talking about the subject, always hearing it heading off in directions that I didn’t want to hear. Big dicks rule, they’re better, size DOES matter, etc. This created a dissonance between what I hear and what I read. In the back of my mind I’m thinking, “Ok, so maybe penis size isn’t the be all and end all of life, but girls STILL like them big, and mine isn’t all that big and there’s nothing that I can do about it!”
So at this point I think that size does matter, and that guys with big penises just plain are superior to guys with smaller ones, which is a crushing idea to someone who already has a fairly low self image and is basically the opposite of the “alpha male” that I’m told I’m supposed to be. I assumed that I had the smallest penis out of every guy in the room, no matter where I was. This includes rooms full of 14 year olds with their 7” dongs that I grew up with in junior high. Even if a large size is just a preference, it is still a preference. That means it is better. To this day I still don’t know how guys with less than 5” get by. I bet there has been suicides caused by insecurities related to penis size. A huge deal is made out of how big a guy’s penis should be.
While I’m not all that much older now, I feel wiser, and I think any penis-size related insecurities that I still have will be mostly gone if I have sex. After only two positive female opinions on my size I felt much, much better about it. I also realized that penis size preference is a subjective thing, there is no one ideal size. So I have become reasonably comfortable with my size, but I’m still trying to erase what “The Man” or “Corporate America” or “The Media” or whatever has ingrained this whole “bigger is better” notion. So I think I’ll pull through the battle of penis size alright and just learn to be 100% comfortable with what I have because there’s nothing wrong with it. This issue is a bit of a dead horse, but every day more and more guys are being introduced to the concept that a big penis is a good thing because the concept is perpetuated.

If anyone actually took the time to read all of that, thanks a lot. Any feedback would be greatly appreciated.

 

It's all self-esteem.
Just stop caring about it.

 

Thank you for saying it for me.

Are you obsessed with not being obsessed?

 

So how often are you beating the dead horse?

 

I think beating the horse made it smaller

 

I'm hung like a dead horse.

 

Ok, I have a so called porn dick, and i'm telling you for the record, I wish i was more normal size. I feel like it's been a headache all my life.

 

its probably a headache for someone giving you head and trying to deep throat because you have suck an elephant tallywhacker

 

I've never been obsessed with penis size. I'm 15, and about seven inches, give or take. I have time to still grow, and even if I don't, I'm pretty sure what I have now will be just fine. Unless you have a micropenis, you shouldn't be worried about the size, but more or less what you're doing during sex.

 

My internet penis is friggin huge

 

Then pay me a visit in the allotted time.

 

Bump.

If I had the power to make this a sticky thread, I would. Every time I see yet ANOTHER new penis size thread, it pisses me off again. Not only are way too many guys unbelievably obsessed and paranoid about this subject, but they also don't know how to use a forum search feature.
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Maybe if we give the search feature a button that looks like a large penis...

 

Maybe one of the penis size threads should be a sticky. Young guys are always going to obsess on this. But you're right, we don't need 100 threads that say the same thing.

 

Life probably works better that way.

The small ones must do the job because "natural selection" lets humanity keep making more.

 

I don't think it's obsession or paranoia as it is more fun sometimes ... talking about this ... it provides for a spicy conversation ... It's the only hidden sexual part we guys have as opposed to more sexual parts ladies have.

So, it's natural to talk about it more in these a-sexual times ...