Obviously I'm a bit biased on this subject since I'm gay but I am truely interested in why you feel like this. It's OK to feel uncomfortable around gay people, I feel extremely undercomfortable at big gay events, especially when people throw their sexuality in your face. What are you referring to as in wanting too much? Marriage? I think that marriage is defined as man and woman, but gays and people who choose not to marry ("common law marriages") should have the same rights like visitation and decision making when their partner is in the hospital, tax stuff and every other little thing straight couples have yet take for granted. How does feeling uncomfortable make you a criminal? Its absolutely 100 percent fine to be uncomfortable, especially because gays arn't the norm. It's only not ok when violence enters the picture, but violence is not ok regardless of the persons sexuality/race/whatever. Sorry if this is long winded, I'm not trying to change your feelings on the topic. I'm really trying to understand why people hate homosexuals so I can better understand when my friends are beaten after leaving a bar, or I'm told I'm "a fucking dyke" or that I'm going to hell by total strangers and my own family.
I dislike ignorant little children with no pubic hair on internet forums spouting hate filled shit about people or things they have no real experience with (gay people, people with different coloured skin etc). It sounds pathetic when arguments can't be backed up and they just repeat the same old tired cliches with no grounding in experience, only what other people tell them to think. People who are unwilling to learn: Everyone has something to teach and and everyone has something to learn. If you live your life walking around convinced that you're right 24/7 and everyone else is wrong you'll die ignorant. Chain shops. Buy local. Unnecessary car journeys: Walk or ride a bike you lazy fkers. Or take a bus. What passes for 'food' these days: microwaves, ready meals, food pumped with cancer causing chemicals and preservatives made soley for profit and with no care or love put into it.
nah, you see its different for girls. very different... guys are just messed up, and now theres all these posters everywhere with these men that look almost like women and you just feel sickened. and say theres one like that sitting next to you, you can tell hes thinking like oh another homophobic prick. i dont see why expressing your oppinion is such a big deal, like how someone says something offensive and straight away its a crime, no one is forcing them to listen to it, and its theyre choice to be that so its no one elses fault. im not talking about just standard homosexuals, im talking about fucked up ones, face surgery/sex surgery/ a man talking like a sluty bitch and wearing pink bangels and all that. i think its horrible
you have no clue, why cant you for one second just think past the stereotipical teen? are you that upset about your childhood?
and the saying your skin doesnt define you is pretty funny, because my oppinion on blacks is what i have seen and see everyday. i expressed it before in my posts. u cant force me to love them by saying down with racism and shit like that. hey, im not going out side and screaming KILLZ ALL ZE NIGGAZZZ. im just saying i dislike them. thats not blind racism, its just seeing the truth for what it is. i would never commit genocide, im just expressing my oppinion.
oh and i think many more people share my views, but are just afraid of expressing them fearing of being singled out, having people think bad of them and being called racists.
Of course. I really don't think racism or sexism or anything has lessened much over time, people are just afraid to speak how they feel people they will be attacked. I think being far left is just as bad as being far right. People feel what they feel. If I were to attack someone for disliking gays is just the same as someone attacking me for being gay. People are going to believe what they want, and the only way to change that is showing they that yes there are sucessful black people, yes there are gay men that blend into the rest of society and arn't flamboyant. Flaming others for their beliefs is wrong, regardless of what they believe. "Say theres one like that sitting next to you, you can tell hes thinking like oh another homophobic prick. " Again, you can't get angry at him for thinking that. That's the same as you disliking blacks. The gay man probably had a negative experience in his life that forever changed his perspective of heterosexual males.
But how can someone's skin colour define whether you like them or not? That's as dumb as saying you don't like someone because of the brand of shoes they're wearing or the colour of their hair. Only last night me and my friend were sitting on a bench in town, drinking a bottle of wine when a matey comes over and we thought 'here we go'. Big hench black guy, cap, chain, all the gear, looked like a proper rudeboy and we (prejudgingly) thought he was going to come over on the blag. Asks if he can sit with us, we say yeah, he pulls out a big spliff then we end up hanging out with him for like 2 hours. Talking philosophy, politics, women, life whatever. He came here from Somalia 15 years ago, speaks perfect english, went to school here, had seen wars, had his house blown up, all sorts of mad shit. Now if I'd seen him walking down the street I would have thought he was a bit sketchy, I've been conditioned to be like that. Fact of the matter is he was more tolerant and understanding than a lot of 'hippies' I know. You're seriously not going to like him?, such a nice guy, just because of the colour of his skin then you're in need of help. Mate, when you turn 18 sign up with VSO and go and do 6 months digging a well voluntarily in Uganda then come back and tell me you don't like black people. You have no clue and I can excuse that, you're young, you'll learn but seriously dude that kind of thinking is not on. I'm not trying to be the PC brigade here it's just simple fact.
not all, because ion everything there are exceptions. but you see i make my mind up about majority, so say 80% of pitbulls were fucked in the head, 10% werent sure and 10% was fine, i would still say that im afraid and hate pitbuls because theyre fucked in the head. i hate how many of them dont have jobs and just stay on benefits with like 3 kids spending the money my mum pays and i will have to pay when im older. thats just my oppinion. theres always exceptions
More white crackers scrounging the benefit system/dole in this country than any others I'm afraid. Just like the immigrant myth... Immigrants work a lot harder than the lazy British people. Fact. Like I say, go volunteer in somewhere really poverty stricken in Africa then come and tell me you don't like 80% of black people.
Ok i'm gunna have a go.. I hate people who claim that black people/gay people/ any kind of person "demand too much". What is too much? We're alive and we all have the right to live freely and happily without restraints no matter the colour of our skin or who we find attractive. I hate people who dont like people because of who they find attractive. I hate mr.greenxxx cause i dont know wether i like him, sometimes i do, sometimes i want to break his neck. I hate people who will express an opinion without even thinking if it makes sense and/or isn't going to offend people. I hate rude boys. Now i dont mean i hate all people who wear tracksuits and flat peeks, i dont mind them, i get on with chavs and i know a good number of them. What i'm talking about is your dirty tracksuit wearing, knife carrying, gold teeth possesssing, rob anybody, i dont give a fuck attitude rude boy. They are a scourge on society. I hate everybody who doesn't think like me, because if everybody thought like me this world wouldn't be so absolutely 100% fucked..... I hate spending so much money on weed, but i do it anyway... I hate the absolute utter cunts who robbed my workplace the other day. They are the type of scumbag, shit on your shoe, rudeboys i was talking about ^^ I think that about does it. I fucking hate John Reid, Tony Blair, George Bush, Condoleezza Rice, Dick Cheny, Donald Rumsfeld, Mohammed Bagher Ghalibaf, Vladimir Putin, Michael Howard....and many many more.
yes true, but im not talking about immigrants in general. im just saying i dont see anyuse to protect them from something they bough upon themselves
If I understand you correctly (and I don't think I do) you're saying refugees/immigrants 'bought it upon themselves'??? Sorry had to go back to this one... Girls are ok because you jack off to fake lesbian pornos but if it's two guys it's messed up? How's it different? edit: Or is it because you have a gay girl here in your face and you haven't got the balls to say anything homophobic to her? Free speech is the right to say 2 + 2 = 4. To say 2 + 2 = 5 isn't anything to do with free speech, it's a fallacy. Have some consistency.
its different to me because gay girls go for other girls. gay guys go for other guys. im a guy, theres the difference. gosh i feel uncomfortable- im not planning on opening up gas chambers. also i just talked about my opinion of stereotipical blacks, i never attacked or killed anyone, if my oppinion hurts you people so much then maybe you should go out in the real world, u can pretend that im wrong for show, the point is i bough up the subject. now im getting crucified for it. fuck that
Peace - Not trying to flame you, sorry I'll lay off it a bit. You say I should go out in the real world. Have you ever worked with children with HIV/AIDS who were alive when you started a project and dead by the end of it 7 months later? Have you had to try to help farmers stop using child labour when their crops are failing already? Have you seen people's lives completely destroyed because the people in the next village have a different religion? Have you seen kids YOUR AGE with assault rifles roaming in gangs?? Have you seen children who's only entertainment is sifting through piles of rubbish and seeing what they can find? You're sitting there, in your mums house, on her internet connection, eating her food, telling me 80% of black people are bad and that I should go out in the real world? You need to grow up mate and I'm saying no more on the subject. Like I said: you go and volunteer in africa and then come tell me about 'stereotypical blacks'. I'm out.
Contrary to the theme of this thread... I don't hate anyone or anything. I believe that harboring hatred is like drinking poison every day and hoping someone else would die. I love how different people are. Even the ridiculously self-absorbed people...they are like a form of entertainment.