no mention of the kids why are you wasting time here ...you should be spending every spare minute with them
That was kinda ignorant. My kids arent my entire life. Plus i only have them half time and i dont til tues. Split custody
Hello. :seeya: It's true though, kids suck. Ignorance is bliss though, right? My life's pretty bliss without kids. Though something you write is strange. Your kids aren't your entire life. Now that's something I don't hear often. Normally I'd hear the exact opposite. That kids are the entire life of a parent.
some of you guys have no life and are highly judgemental. I owe none of you an explanation but ill say it anyways. I did nothing without my kids for 5 years. I finally started to realize im a person too. And i need to do things for me. But i guess that means i dont love my kids? Has anyone who said that even ever have a kid? Dont be dbags. And dont judge other ppl. My kids are my world but not my whole world. Grow up.
Actually it's a renown fact, that I'm the best daughter of ther four. #1 here. And my sisters will tell you the same thing too. I just have a lot more in common with my daddy than they do. conversely, the Other three get along better with my mother than I do...
Sorry to hear the diagnosis is bad, but it's good to hear from you again. I think the last I read was that you had stage III cancer that had spread to your skull. It's a tough diagnosis to deal with, but you seem to have a good perspective on things. I'm not sure what you meant about karma, but I thought I'd offer some perspective on it that I've heard. Which is that karma is connected to everything that happens to you, but is usually not the direct cause. We pretty much all have a store of karma, both good and bad. We pay off some sometimes, we collect a reward sometimes. A good person can have a bad life, and a bad person can have a good life, but eventually the karma balances. Usually good or bad things can happen to anyone, but sometimes the force of one's karma becomes so strong that certain outcomes are inevitable. So for the record, I don't think that your having cancer has been caused by karma, if that's what you were saying. You may in fact be one of the least deserving people of that in the world. But pretty much anything can happen to anyone, up to a point. I hope that we can give you some support while you go through this.
Thank you sweetness. Its nice when some ppl on hf actually stand by being kind and why most of us signed up here for. Ok here is what i believe about karma. First you are 100% right but ill put it a diff way from my own viewpoint. Bad things happen to good people. Because we are human and that is life. However if you really really work on treating others well, you will get knocked down eventually but itll be easier to get up. In a tangible sense...thr more ppl you help and treat well the higher the chance someone will treat you well when you are down. Its math pretty much. And then even if that doesnt happen you can look at yourself and smile. =) and thanks. Im gonna try to survive. I go for another ultrasound today.
hey everyone. I came on here to say im being admitted to hospital. If anyone wants to know whats going on (i do have some good friends here) u can text...idk i cant give their number here. Ill msg a friend here w her number. Bye.
I don't know you at all, but I am very sad to read this thread. I wish the best for you and a miracle for you.....I care.
i was trying to find some of her old threads for you but its hard to look through that old stuff one was epic she had like maybe 15 posts talking/fighting with herself before anyone else got a post in
That must have been before my time then? I know some people talk at a person and not with a person. I experienced that.....someone would talk for hours and tell me not to say anything until they were finished talking....and it would go on for hours and hours......and if I tried to say anything in response....they would get angry....so I would sit there glassy eyed.....and nodding my head and falling asleep....lol Some people have much to get off of their minds sometimes, is all....I think. I hope I don't do that in writing here at times.