Older men..

the 31 year old boyfriend? nope it wasnt good i know, robyn is good tough!

 

I'm worried about our little resident Viking. Hope she lets us know she's OK.

 

Ahaha, but yet you're mine now

 

WOW-this thread is still cranking along-very kool but so are you SARA!
Hugs The Wiz and Rider

 

same here sara...same here...
so, i don't mind dating older man.
but you've probably noticed that already, i haven't been exactly shy or careful with that information, lol.
just wanted to let you know that i feel the same way.
for the same reasons.

 

wow is this thread seriously still here haha i had totally forgotten about it..
but thanks for the concern guys, it means a lot *hugs*
I'm ok though, that date went seriously wrong.. but i'm just trying not to think about it. I don't really want to tell anyone about what happened, only 3 people know and they are all very very close to me. I'm just trying to forget about the whole thing and move on..

and lakshen, i'm yours forever babe love you

 

how about an 18 year old?? *nudge nudge*

 

i think that means she's taken grobe...

 

darn

 

cant blame a guy for trying

 

This is an amazing thread. At times it made me tingle with how open-minded a lot of you are. Ageism... YES that is so so so funny. In the past couple years I've been doing the whole 'belief-system Identify and Eradicate' thing. So it's exciting and refreshing to hear open minds.

Yup, I have been seriously attracted to many men much, much older than me. I hardly think about most guys that are my age.

I suspect it is about emotional maturity. My intuition tells me right on which guys are trying to use me, and which guys have depth. Besides, I'm simply not all that attracted to guys who are assholes. Well, I am attracted at a distance, but when they come close I get so nervous all I can feel is anxiety. It takes an emotionally mature, centered and assertive man to make me blush and weaken my knees. It's just that usually, they come in 30+ year-old bodies.

Listen Sara, it sounds like you ran into some trouble. Here's my love, babe, and may you find the right partner/lover

I also wish to express my longing for a group of people... I know that some of you at hipforums are more outgoing than others, and thus it's easier to pick you out as ones that I'd love to chill with, but this is my fantasy of this moment:

To have a yurt (you all know what that is? it's basically a permanent tent, round, lots of light, cool acoustics, trippyhippy atmosphere) and have a hipfamily there, with people like monosphere and hippyfreak--basically all of you who are loving and open. I know there are many more who are a little more shy than those I've mentioned, and I'd love to have you there too
mmm all different ages, all different faces and mixes of feminity and masculinity, all loving..
ahhhh
*warm hugs to you all*

 

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haha this thread just keeps popping up

well yeah.. kinda.. i don't know.. lets just say that i am

haha you wish baby! =) lol

thanks white_ginger. i know what you mean, i've always liked older guys better so i really really can't stand ageism!
that idea about the yurt is great by the way! i would absolutely love doing that.. but without soaringeagle.. people who know me know why..
but doing that with a bunch of happy hippy people sounds great!

 

hun I feel ya, I've always been attracted to older men, but yeah you are 15 so please be careful he might be alittle disturbed. if you were over 18 I think it's cool but you're still alittle young I hope you can read people right.

 

yeah i know. i won't be going after men that much older till i'm old enough..
i've kinda learned my lesson there...

 

well good, you worry me girl, I can tell you are so sweet and caring at heart and I would hate for some man to destroy that in you, but when you are older, believe me older men are exciting.

 

aww that's so sweet *hugs*

but i won't let them hurt me again..
i admit that i've made my mistakes with older men, but that's all in the past and i know better now... so you don't have to worry sweety

 

what doesn't kill you makes you stronger and I believe that with all my heart, I think making mistakes are fine as long as you grow from them and it sounds like you did so bravo sara girl, you sound very mature and wise for your age. you can tell when younger people have gone threw things to make them grow up faster, I did and I can tell you did. pm me sometime, I'd love to talk to ya.

 

yeah i believe that too. i've been through some real shit over the years but i believe that everything happens for a reason. so the fact that i've been through all that gives me the chance to help others that are going through the same thing, and i'm thankful for that.

and yeah i definitely will *hugs*

 

hey y'all just wanted to make a comment in support of older men. i've dated a couple older guys that were substantially older than i and came away with no negative feelings about an age difference and now i've been dating a guy who's 53 and i'm 28, for about a year now. we have a wonderful relationship. he is one of the most understanding, respectful, beautiful creatures that i know. we have plenty in common, love to dance together, sing songs, play music, give and receive massages, take walks, explore nature, contemplate life, discuss issues. i don't think he will be the one that i choose for my partner because his plate is already so full with his own family that he doesn't have enough time/energy to become a full-time participant in ours, but we emjoy eachother's company very very much whenever we can. we help eachother, take care of eachother and give eachother companionship. and, btw, he is the best lover i've ever had....older men seem to get better with practice on all aspects, that is if they are the type of man to grow and not remain immature all their lives...there are those too. had to put in my 2 cents...this has been an very interesting read on this thread.