Older men and younger girls

I dont even know the soty behind the murder.
But I think he shot a guy. From behind.
I mean, atleast be man enough and shoot the guy face to face.

 

Yeah, then he'd bethe perfect man for your cousin.

 

Of course
If you're gonna kill, kill properly.

 

yeah, that makes him a bit more badass of a murder. +1 on coolness factor

 

the circumstances of the murder definitely determine how concerned you should be. did he kill an albanian or something to only get two years? regardless, it seems highly unlikely that he kills her even if she dumps him cruelly.

I don't think you should tell on her, though. you'll betray her confidence, she will resent you for it, for a long time probably, and chances are it helps nothing. teenagers have a way of doing what they want to do and getting away with it.

 

Well yeah, he's a perfect catch. I started the thread only cause I'm jelaous. I should have gotten him first !!!!

 

No, it wasnt an Albanian. If it was, he wouldnt have served 2 years at all.


But you're right. I wont tell. If she's stupid enough to fuck him, she should deal with the consequences.

 

ahah that's so weird. why would she want to fuck a guy like that... i dont even think murders would be good lovers....theyd like...thrust 3 times grunt and roll over.

bitch get me a sandwich

 

or just stick to what they're familiar with and say "bend over."

 

Yes!!

If he doesn't have enough self-control to keep from killing someone, what do you think he's going to do if she tries to tell him no?

 

I woulda said let her figure it out....

"But been in jail for murder", changes my perspective completely, and I think you should tell her mother.

 

I dunno...They'd both hate me if I told.
So I figure I'll just let her do whatever she wants. Hey, its her life.

 

I agree 100% with Lode. Normally I'd say let her make her own mistakes (which this obviously is, and a creepy one), but this guy is bad news. I'd tell.

 

The murder thing bothers me....so I would probably let it be known in a sly way. A 10 year old father? Hmmm I haven't even seen that here in the land of babies having babies.

I once dated a man 16 years my senior. He annoyed the hell out of me after a few days so I started ignoring him. I even let him read a class project of mine......he about shit himself when he realized he was driving when I was just learning to walk.

It was a good learning experience for me. My parents would've killed him if they had known. I have an 11 year age difference limit according to my parents....only because they have an 11 year difference.

I think she will find out that the age difference can and more than likely will be a pain. Greg talked to me about stuff that I didn't care about at the time. He bored me to tears.....and he talked down to me all the time because he thought his age made him so much wiser.

 

No bragging, but I am right about like 90% of the time.

Tell her mom!

 

I read some of this replies so forgive me if this has been said...
Can't you talk to her one on one about how you feel about this guy and how you are concerned for her... Telling her parents probably won't accomplish much, it will probably just make her mad and maybe she'd end up running away with him or what-have-you...

 

this post makes the most sense by far.

also you could..try to get to know the guy? your cousin obviously sees something good in him.

it is pretty weird in my personal opinion, but that's mostly just prejudice.

 

I've met him a couple of times. I have no desire to meet him again.
He's an asshole. Everyone can see that.

 

Prejudice? The guys a murderer. That's not pre judging alright. That's judging.

 

introduce her to somebody more her age.. then maybe she'll dump the old guy..