OK to compliment fellow nudists' bodies?

I am not a nudist but even I think a comment like that is not appropriate .

 

It doesn't seem very classy, or polite. To compliment someone's overall nude body can be appreciated, but I certainly wouldn't compliment, or make comments about, the genitalia of a naked woman I'd just met, married or not.

 

I have found that in a nudist environment that kind of thing is really not proper etiquette. I have never seen or heard anything like that. but at a swinger resort all bets are off.

 

True,having been to one of them.

 

For me, I'd say it's against the etiquette and a little bit rude. As an unwritten rule, most nudist don't comment on other people's bodies or even stare at people body parts excessively long! Of course though, if you get to know someone and it came up in passing in a conversation, usually that's ok but not blurting out how big a guys junk is on introduction! I think it would be akin to a guy walking up to a girl and saying "Nice tits love". While it's technically still a compliment, it's not the done thing.

 

Exactly the right attitude and way to handle compliments.

 

Solid no.

For me, the idea of commenting on the body of a naturist/nudist is the antithesis of what the lifestyle/hobby is all about. Possibly even in the “wildly inappropriate” category.

Naturists like myself aren’t even all that interested in talking to anyone while nude as it’s all about interaction with the elements. Social nudists, on the other hand, are into the body acceptance narrative. So, in either instance, it is introducing an unwanted system of rating/ranking nude bodies that is not welcome in either circle.

You either react to all naked bodies equally or you don’t.

 

Something said, at the moment its just words with no intent, should have been forgotten long ago.

 

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A nudist friend of ours once complimented my ex-wife on her "beautiful round butt."
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My wife at the time was talking about her body-acceptance issues. So he decided to vocalize "positive reinforcement" by expressing his appreciation for the area of her body she deemed "problematic." And it put a big smile on her face and it reinforced her confidence being naked amongst friends.

Context is everything. That probably not have played out as well had it been vocalized randomly by a complete stranger.

 

At a nudist resort, my wife complimented another male on his appendage and asked "how big does that thing get?"

He is a show-er and I am a grow-er and it really offended me and I was embarrassed on front of the others.

In the end, he said he doesn't get any bigger and I was probably of similar size once erect, but I was really taken aback by my wife's comment and actions.

We didn't have a great night that night, and it has been an issue for us since...

 

My wife has said similar things to a guy, I don't really mind at all. She looks at all the dicks at the club, even points out the very nice ones to me.

 

My wife isn't having sex with me any more - so it bothered me and has me thinking I'm not good/big enough for her any longer.

 

She wants some sex for sure

 

I know - just not from me...

 

It's no different than clothed. First how well you know them and how you say it. Are in my opinion the most important. Of course, you are always taking a chance ion how that person perceives your comment. They can graciously accept it as nothing more than a complement or take it as an insult or a sexual hit. AGAIN, this really can happen nude or clothed! It feels even scarier these days to even try and complement someone! I typically say something very vague if anything at all. Like "You are looking very handsome/pretty today" But only to someone I know and NEVER to a stranger.

Personally, if you knew me and I knew you and you said "your penis looks bigger today" or something I would not mind it a bit. It would be no different than talking about my weight or hair. Which leads me to the sexes where men seem to take complements much better.

 

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It wasn't Desire, but we do go there too. It was at Desert Sun Resort in Palm Springs (nudist resort).

We both LOVE Desre Pearl and will be there in January of '24. It will probably be like it has in the past, where I give her what she wants, and I may get some crumbs tossed my way. I typically hang out on the beach hanging out with others, while she sits on the quiet side of the pool on a bed reading.