ok, really wierd wuestion...

I had sex when I was 14 or 15, and I'm just fine.

 

yeah sex is great. go for it.

be safe.

 

girls start raggin' these days much earlier than in the past. generally, anyway. i think the average age now is somewhere before/around 10? not to make the typical veg.statement, BUT i've heard that early menarche is related to the added hormones in milk (or rather, the hormones given to the cows that are passed on into their milk). i might not be right about that, though, so don't quote me on it.

there's a positive correlation between girls who reach menarche early, and girls who begin dating earlier, having intercourse at a younger age, having less self-confidence than other girls their age, feeling greater dissatisfaction with their bodies than their peers, making lower grades, expressing anti-social behavior, having more emotional problems, and feeling isolated from other girls their age.

because of the correlation with not feeling a strong connection with other girls their age, they generally make friends with older girls. this makes them more likely to start smoking and drinking at a younger age, as well as having sex at a younger age.
on a more positive note, because these girls had to deal with so much shit at such a young age, by adulthood they generally have high levels of cognative and coping skills.

granted, this is just a correlation. that doesn't mean that every girl who starts raggin' at an early age is a self-loathing, promiscuous alcoholic chain-smoker, who drops out of high-school due to low grades.

i hope thats somehow helpful.

 

oh.. i'd also like to mention that when you start having sex at a younger age, it's generally less likely that it's safe sex.

a lot of pharmacies (at least in the md-va area) refuse to sell condoms to kids who are that young. since these young girls are not old enough to drive, it's more difficult (especially in rural areas where the stores are beyond biking-distance) to buy condoms, or go to a free clinic/planned parenthood to snag some free ones.

also, it's more difficult for these girls to get on the pill. if they're able to discuss it with their parents (which a lot of girls that age aren't mature enough to do) that can make a huge impact on all of this, though. supportive parents are crucial here.

 

I had my first experaince when i was 13(of course i used protection)

 

"I had my first experaince when i was 13(of course i used protection)"

Good for you!

I remember a few years ago, hanging out at a friends house. While we were out getting food, his little sister got laid for the first time. She was 13 at the time, too. We came back and found out what happened, and my friend made me go talk to her, since I'm a girl. I asked her if she used protection, and she was like, "yeah, we used a condom... we filled it with water first, to check for leaks and everything!" bahhh! I explained why that was a horrible idea and such. I was shocked to see just how little this girl knew. I'm so glad that you were smart about it.

Excellent work! May your future be bursting with wonderful orgasms and free of stds.

 

thank you

 

I was 14 and although it wasn't a great idea...it was what it was and I did it.

I lived through it.

 

well i think you might end up to be a hooker. haha

 

I think most girls have to be atleast 9 years old to even be menstruating, so I'd say any earlier than that and she'd be an anomoly of nature. But, yeah, people who have sex at any age younger than about 15 generally have some crazy issues before hand, or end up with psychosis like symptoms afterward. I was 16, and it still fucked me up. I didn't like the idea of meaningless sex and honestly I don't think "serious" can exist before the age of 19 or 20. Before that it's just a very weak infatuation mixed with lust that lasts at the very most 2 years, and most of those 2 year relationships involve 2 very clingy people who are emotionally void and/or dead inside. That kind of thing is scary. The older and older and more existential (I say realistic)I become, I begin to think that "serious" or "true love" is just a joke maybe true love can exist, but if that's so, I certainly think it can fade in short-order. I'd say it was just infatuation, though. You date someone for a good 3 years at most, and that last year is just pathetic. You have nothing to say, you hate the other person's voice and face, you loath everything about them, but you don't want to end something so "long lasting" for what ever reason. Human nature is a very real thing. Guys (I'm not a woman, so I wouldn't know the converse) need something new after a fairly short period - short being at the most 2 or 3 years. This is my experience, although maybe my friends and I are simply shallow. Take your pick.

 

Nothing really. I don't see what could happen other than losing your virginity at a rather early age.