Ok people... lets be honest! What do you really want?

I was just reading the post by zilla939... and thinking you have such an amazing way of describing your relationship. It sounds like you've found it... you've found that soul to soul connection that so many people are searching for. That's wonderful. As I was reading, I was reflecting on a friend I've made a friend who I feel those same things with. Our friendship is growing everyday, and I believe that it will become an incredible love, that goes far beyond definition or relationship rules. Just love. It takes time.

 

Tange that is beautiful that you are finding yourself and the balance... just float along and you will drift into the perfect relationship... being positive and carefree without being careless is key. music will get you through anything. it seems like you are among the awake and aware. if you're ever in austin, call me and we'll grab a bite.

 

boba fett with a foot fetish

:love:

 

A harem...

 

Bump, lets revive this thread. I liked where it was going before I dropped off the face of the planet for a year.

 

A guy who still does stupid romantic stuff 1, 5, 20 100 years into the realtionship. Who cares about me unconditionally. Who picks up the slack when I'm not able too. Who thinks I'm perfect even though I'm not.

 

I really didnt know what kind of guy i wanted until I met a person on Hip. All the guys Ive went out with, were all wrong. they always use to get mad when i gave them a smart ass comment jokingly and got offended by it. I'd get mad at them because none of them excepted my personality. Thats when they walked away or I did. So i labeled out the sentimental guys, I labeled out the rebels cause i got tired of them showing off, i labeled out the clingers because i cant have a guy hanging on me all the time. So i thought, what exactly do i want?

When i met this guy on here, he was so perfect for me because hes not a clinger, or a rebel. Its so nice having a convo with him cause hes so easy to get along with. Hes not mushy or into hard drugs like the rebels and he doesnt show off. When he gives himself compliments (most of the time its sarcasm) I always have a smart ass side comment to give him. and what does he do? gives one right back to me. I love it too! lol it totally shocked me that he did that. I thought he was going to call me a bitch but later found out that he enjoyed me being a smart ass bitch sometimes and i always enjoy him being an smart ass asshole. we butt heads but its nothing serious just battle it out til one gives up. After 2 months of talking, I found myself being a romantic to him, which i havent done that in a long long time. and hes just as romantic to my point where hes not a mushy lovey guy. he says the right things that ive been looking for all this time. Hes more of a do-er and i like that cause he keeps himself busy and dont get bored all the time.
I think and dream a lot and i dont like having a guy hanging all over me all the time. He supports my dream and go along with my thoughts or wants in life and he has dreams of his too and i support him 100%

So after all that, I realized what I want in a guy, a do-er, a smartass such as myself, sense of humor, ambitious, a romantic when its time to be, constantly battling mind games with me knowing its not going to lead into one big fight, taking my smart ass comments and givin them back to me, such as putting me in my place. I love that and i do love everything about him. I do hope to travel with him someday because it'll be my biggest moment and adventure with him that i'll always remember

 

At this very point of my life, I need to take a rest from relationships, enjoy my freedom and beautiful single status for a good while, then might be involved again if I met a girl who can turn 'my mind' on, given that I also like her as looks. However what really couns is this magical spark; if it occurred then I am in! Do I make any sense?

 

I want my life to be functional and beautiful with her. I want to want her and desire her and be better because I am with her. I want to transcend selfishness or worry and be happy in her always. I want love.

 

I need a lot of passion, intense passion, a lot of intimacy, I need a ton of attention and affection, and I need to be able to be a total bitch and have him tell me to get over it instead of asking what's wrong. I need a man who is open and who can take control and who isn't intimidated when I take control. I have found a man who is all of this and so much more, after being friends since we were 13 we're together and this is it. He has seen me at my worst, worse than my own mother has ever seen me and it makes him love me more. And the sex is amazing. I've never had sex the way I have with him. I never wanted kids before, and now I want them so that someday he can be a father to someone and treat them as amazingly as he treats me.

 

I want her to be self assured and confident. Confidence is a huge turn on, no matter they look like. I dont want to constantly have to be giving them my approval to do/wear stuff. They should be confident enough alone, as they are being with someone.

I want her to tell me when Im being a dickhead, and be able to tell her the same thing, without it turning into an international incident. I want her to be open about what she wants for the future.

Finally, I want her to not be into trying to change me. Everyone has flaws: If you cant tolerate your partner's flaws, and if they annoy you enough to make you want to change them, you shouldnt be with them. Likewise, the only person she should want to change for is herself.

 

Someone that makes my heart beat faster anytime she is near.

 

Hell.this is easy , all I want is for someone to love me as much as I love them.......thats all

 

profound words. are you a poet?

love can be described by some of the words you mentioned above...inescapable, unavoidable, anxious, passionate, etc.. but love, to me, is knowing. just knowing that it's right. it's like all the crazy emotions in your life: fears, anxieties, passions, etc. are aligned simultaneously into a perfect line. for once, life just seems to make sense. you know your purpose and you fill fulfilled.

 

I want to meet someone who has the same ideas i do about Peace, love and life. Someone who does not care about material things in life. A person who wants to change the world with me. Someone who will push me to be the best i can be. Im guess im searching form my Yoko.

 

A girl with a blowjob fetish?

 

I'm pretty new here and was browsing the different forums; this one kind of struck me so I figured I'd throw my own ideas out there...

I want a woman who is adventurous, spontaneous, and just a little bit crazy. She should be open-minded and a great conversationalist. I'd love to be able to talk for hours about any subject. I want a girl who loves the outdoors, whether it be hiking trails or spending an afternoon at the beach. Someone who appreciates the smaller pieces of life but still respects the big picture. I would want her to be intelligent and creative, someone with a love of art (whether it be film, painting, writing, drawing...). She needs to love children (and accept the fact that I have one) and, probably most important, she needs loving. I want to be able to look into her eyes and know that we were meant to be. I don't know...I'm sorry if this is somewhat discombobulated...I'm posting this from work and it's tough to concentrate with all the distractions.

 

A poet? Not intentionally, but I speak from my heart and soul. Some might consider it poetry, I consider it truth.

 

I want unconditional love. i want someone to be there for me and il be there for them. i want an understanding, patient, creative, positive, honest lover. I want to feel completely right in his arms, have the world stand still while still being able to breathe easy.

Love amazes me, the whole idea of it. I want a relationship where the beginning is not the only exciting part, knowing your right together and that everything finally fits.

Where are you love??

 

I'm right here