Ok people... lets be honest! What do you really want?

I want my soul mate to be my best friend first.

He should be really funny, not too romantic, but will still take my hand while walking. I want him to argue with me but give up and hug me tightly. I want him to understand what he is doing, dont jump into it. I want him to give a quick look at me but it'll be the longest best look. When i tell him to leave me alone, he should still hold me tighter.

mornings i want him to give me little wake up kisses and ask to have sex with him right now...but nicely lol. I want him to talk with my family and not be in the background, i want him to be egared to do stuff and not be embarrased about it, i want him to be competitive but not brag about it, and number 1....i dont want him to "let me win"

 

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Well, I like someone who is free, someone who can harmonise with me, someone who will be there for me, a girl that will tell me everything about her, see us as one,a good person full with love, positive energy and so on...or simply positive person

 

I want somebody who makes me a priority, not an option. Somebody who will say whatever pops into his mind (unless its hurtful.), who can't keep his hands off of me, will never be bored, even when we're just lounging...and he has to like cuddling. I love hugs and kisses.

 

I want a girl who is first and foremost comfortable with who they are, and loves themselves! I'm really getting sick and tired of people not accepting themselves for who they are and not what society wants them to be. I want a girl who is easy going, and has a wonderful laugh, and a smile that lights up her eyes. A great smile goes a long way with me. Has to have a great sense of humour. she has to be able to have fun without drugs, and alcohol. I'm not totally against either, but if you need drugs and alocohol to have fun, then thats a bit too much. I drink on occasion, and I smoke weed, but I don't need them to have a good time. I would like a girl who is not controling, but she needs to be able to stand up for herself, and know what she wants, and not affraid to ask for it. Just not in a controlling "get me that now" attitude lol someone who is caring, and respectful as well. These are most of the things I would like to have in a female comapinion but have not found that special someone yet...one day maybe...one day...
Edit: oh and I'd like for them to be best friends with them, its hard for me to find people I click with, not sure why, but I just don't click with many people. It may be the shy guy in me, I dunno.

 

You rock! If I had a girl like you I'd deffinately make you a priority

 

I would like someone who would like to be around me, make reason just to come over to see me, who tells me sweet things, give me hugs and kisses just cause, to relax with each other and have fun, enjoy making love to me, to be able to talk to each other about anything, to hold me at night and cuddle me. I have one person in mind.He does some of these thing. I LOVE HIM WITH ALL MY HEART. His feeling are not the same as mine right now. As of now I spend my time alone crying and alone.

 

awww, thanks. Very sweet.

 

No clue. I've honestly never met a girl that impressed me. Maybe that's just because I've never bothered to get to know one well enough to know whether they're cool though.

 

I want someone who loves herself and believes she's a good person. I also want her to let me love her, and appreciate my love. I want her to let me be her hero, instead of just some dude she hangs out with.

 

I like someone who is willing to be with me, that accepts who i am coz sometimes im a bit stubborn. Has a great sense of humor, nice smile, sweet gentleman, someone who listens and understands me. Motivates me..

Some people thinks that its only my fantasy there's no such perfect person that you can find all the good stuff you want. But i have mannage to find this person, he became my boyfriend for quite sometime, i was head over heels with him. Everything i want is all in him i couldnt ask for more,, it was almost perfect but i found myself not being happy with this person, that i have to let him go i feel that there's something missing.

Im married now for 3 years. I married a husband who is almost an exact opposite of my dream man, but i found myself much happier than being with a perfect man, weird but i've learned alot from this experience. Its not finding the right person, its learning to love the person you found..

 

I want a girl who understands me, accepts who i am and what choices i make... And will always be up for some sex.

 

monogamy sucks.....give me an unending series of sexual adventures.

 

I want a girl that I will never run out of things to talk about with. And I just simply want to be held. Idk.

 

:jester: the first four letter word can be a killer and a savor the duaility of all mind kind rest on its every breath , love is passion, compassion understanding, antispating , waiting, careing sharing challenging hurtfull creul shamefull unforgiving love it is a four letter word the best one i know

 

:& if u cant find the love u want then love the ones your with



john lennon

 

Passion, love for both him and me both, someone who doesnt get down on themself all the time, open-minded ~ free ~ caring, optimistic, beautiful on the inside and out and who can understand me...a traveller, a non-cheater or woman beater ~ among other things

 

This is always hard, cause I think what people *really* want tends to change with age. It's obviously not the same for everyone, but for a lot of people, sex matters more than love -- or at least what you think of as love -- early on. Later, sex often still matters, but having someone around who supports you & isn't going to leave anytime soon (and, ideally, "loves" you, depending on how you define that) can mean a lot more. And no, it isn't all just about getting old & fat & unappealing; at some point a lot of people just realize that life is actually longer than they expected, & they want someone else to talk to along the way.

 

i have been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years, and we were best friends long before that. we have grown so much together, emotionally, mentally, sexually, and spiritually. we are able to be so incredibly open and honest with eachother that we have been able to delve deep into our own minds and have a very complex understanding of our consciousness... and we write incredible music together. i love him so deeply, even though he pisses me off sometimes. i piss him off too. it's great!! best of all, i look into his eyes and i see the universe smiling back at me. when we bask in the wise silence, we transcend. love takes me there, if you know what i'm saying, and through him i realize the perfection of all things and the beauty of being.

 

Since I Just got out of a 3 year relationship where my boyfriend and I weren't very compatible, I've done a lot of thinking about this subject in the last little while. Even though there was no shortage of love between us and a friendship that seemed to get us through all the roughest times, I can look back now and see why I was unhappy or "itching" to get out during a lot of our relationship.
I have started a new life, an open, "hippy" focused kind of life, a life where I can slip much more comfortably into my own skin. A life where I surround and submerge myself in the things that make me feel "zen" and alive, and content. In begining this new phase, I've realized the importance of personal freedom and true compatibility. The most important thing to me is that HE is the same "kind" of person I am. That we can debate and disagree but that our fundamental beliefs are the same. That we believe the same things about life, relationships, people, that we can appreciate the same kinds of things. He needs to have a very open mind, be a sexually free person, enjoy and appreciate music, writing of all kinds, art, in a real way. That he is interested in things... anything... just has a mind that is open to absorbing all kinds of new information and constant learning. I have such a strong passion and interest in psychology, so someone who can share that with me, teach me things, learn with me would be great. Someone who isn't judgmental and always open to new and different things and people. Someone who understands that life is not black and white, that is has many gray areas. Someone who can put me in my place when I need to be, can tell it like it is. He has to have a great sense of humor, humor is such a key ingredient to a happy life in my eyes. I also believe that being humble is one of the most important qualities necessary to make it through life successfully. Someone who is a genuinely humble person has the key to my heart. If I had to pick the three most important qualities, they would be Kindness (true kindness that is reflected in everything he does) Humor and a very opened mind.