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Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by maybejusthappy, Jun 25, 2005.

  1. kissMeImPolish

    kissMeImPolish Member

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    yeah i agree with you, I mean everyone's made mistakes and stuff now all she wants is a constructive talk and advice for dealing with the situation. You guys and girls calling her names for what she has done should go play with marbles instead.
    greg
     
  2. headymoechick

    headymoechick I have no idea

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    make sure you get the morning after pill NOW! It can only work after 72 hours after intercourse. Go anywhere you can, tell your parents if you have to. It's going to be a lot easier to tell them you need emergency contraception rather than telling them you got pregnant. Go to the doctor's or the emergency room.

    Make sure you make an appointment for yourself to get everything checked regarding STD's. don't ignore it.

    I wont' call you any names, but I do hope you learned a lesson. Overprotection is not an excuse to go out and let guys use you as a pump. There is no one to blame but yourself and I hope next time you respect yourself a bit more. Or at least use condoms.
     
  3. peacelovebarefeet

    peacelovebarefeet BuRniN oNe...

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    hey, i just wanted to tell you i hope everything is going to be okay, ive had some scares like that too (not the exact same situation, but i understand) and if you need someone to talk to thats around your age, just PM me...

    good luck sister!
     
  4. apollo

    apollo Member

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    maybe next time try not to fuck 4 guys in one night.... a little less slutty can go a long way.

    and i don't need no comments telling me to be "more open-minded" . . . i am open-minded, but it doesnt mean you have to be fucking stupid and a slut to boot... what kind of values/morals have your parents instilled in you?
     
  5. Davino

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    You should call the cops on the guys that "ran a train", as the other post so eloquently noted. That kind of shit is wrong wrong wrong! Get the morning after pill and go see a shrink and an MD and get yourself together sister.
     
  6. IronGoth

    IronGoth Newbie

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    I'd be just as down on the guys, too.
     
  7. Ursula Buendia

    Ursula Buendia Member

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    Ask those guys if they've used condoms.
    Good luck!
     
  8. xthevalkyriex

    xthevalkyriex Member

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    It can take up to 6 months for HIV and other STDs to show up. Get tested in 3 months and then again 3 months later. And ALWAYS have condoms on hand. I personally don't see anything wrong with experimenting sexually, but it's IMPERATIVE that you protect yourself each and EVERY time!
     
  9. PurpleGel

    PurpleGel Senior Member

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    until you get all your tests in (at least 6 months for sure) make sure you warn the next bunch of guys that you may be infected. somebody else gave good advice to ask these guys if they used condoms; of course, that depends on whether or not you can remember who they were. good luck, again.
     
  10. Davino

    Davino Member

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    Jesus, hopefully she won't have "a next bunch" of guys....
     
  11. stonr

    stonr Member

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    yup.
     
  12. maybejusthappy

    maybejusthappy Member

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    I got the morning after pill and took the first one. Scheduled a test for some STDs,too.

    Thank you so much to those trying to help. I needed it.
     
  13. huangyongzhe

    huangyongzhe Member

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    i am 21,and never do love,what a shame:(
     
  14. RetroGroove_Grrl

    RetroGroove_Grrl I'm a big girl now

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    I'm proud of ya babe. At least you had the guts to ask, lots of people dont.

    I hope everything is okay for you hon, just be more careful next time. I know what its like having over protective parents... but just remeber it doesnt last foreve, and there is so much life to live in freedom to come, you dont want to ruin that now before you've had the chance to get started, on a bunch of waster of your time fellas.
     

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