Obsessive Gf

Discussion in 'Relationships' started by TheTruthAndPeaceSeeker, Oct 14, 2010.

  1. vigilanteherbalist2

    vigilanteherbalist2 Senior Member

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    so her reaction to the break up would be his fault?
     
  2. Wiseman

    Wiseman Senior Member

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  3. Justin_Hale

    Justin_Hale ( •_•)⌐■-■ ...(⌐■_■)

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    Her wanting out of the relationship would be best. Him dumping her could be bad (for her, and him possibly).

    People can be hard hit by a break up in so many ways, male or female when emotions run to the max.

    People do sometimes kill themselves over a break up.
     
  4. vigilanteherbalist2

    vigilanteherbalist2 Senior Member

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    so, you don't think he is wronging her by not wanting to be with her and mainpulating her into breaking it off?
    however she reacts, as long as he is being turthful, is not his fault.
    what if for some reason she figured out he didn't want to be with her or was manipulating her?
     
  5. newbie-one

    newbie-one one with the newbiverse

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    I would suggest calling one of the suicide hotlines

    if you are in the us

    National Suicide Prevention Lifeline
    Phone: 800.273.8255
    Who They Help: Families, concerned individuals
    1-800-273 TALK
    www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org/


    National Suicide Hopeline
    Phone: 800.784.2433
    Who They Help: Families, concerned individuals


    or this one, which is especially for teenagers

    samariteens 800 252 8336

    It's a tough situation. Getting her to the help that she needs would be a good deed. Also, getting her to help maybe the best way for you to get out of the relationship. If she is in the hospital, in therapy, or on meds, she is less likely to stalk/flip out on you. If she is in a crisis, she is more likely to cling to you.

    Good luck!
     
  6. Justin_Hale

    Justin_Hale ( •_•)⌐■-■ ...(⌐■_■)

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    He may very well want a relationship with her, but she may be acting strange and scarring him. He might have found the one, but doesn't know it yet.

    I have no idea what's going on with her, but it reminded me of an old wound so I gave my opinion based on the OP's story.

    People need to be aware of others feelings, and think hard before stomping on them. A simple break up may be a lifelong heartbreak to some.

    People can and do go mental over the slightest things.
     
  7. Hedgeclipper

    Hedgeclipper Qiluprneeels Nixw

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    Yeah I had one of those. She didn't understand the concept of how many times you can bust a nut in a day. Anyways, I broke up with her and she dropve around to my friends houses yelling and screaming and ate a bunch of seroquel and I now don't have constant sex, but I'm a lot happier...
     
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