Obsessed with my hands and hers' ?

I think you are so right about it being a kinky thing, like the two women at once thing!

When you put it that way I suppose he isn't all that different from most men, and I guess I do get off easy by just having to let him look at us compare hands

I just wish I didn't tell my friend about his hand thing because if we did compare hands in front of him I KNOW she would get far too much enjoyment in knowing that she is so great with her great big hands! I swear she has been painting her nails a lot more lately.

 

I have thought this myself, I think most men have something that about the female anatomy that really turns them on. I guess it seems strange to think of hands as a sexual object. If we were talking about breasts than he would be completely normal.

 

^ agreed, I don't think it's really too much of a problem, as long as it doesn't bother you too much
everyone has their own preferences, no matter how strange they may get, that's all they are

 

this thread reminds me of the character in 'even cowgirls get the blues' with the huge thumbs.

 

I know the movie, the character you are talking about is played by Uma Thurman. Uma actually has gigantic hands... even without the fake long thumbs. Check them out next time, they are huge!

 

One of the things that really bothers me about the hand thing is that they are such a visible feauture.... I guess if we lived in place where everyone wears gloves it would be a little easier!