Nudity at Home

I'm still confused about how you can masturbate while thinking about having sex with your son, and not want to do it in real life. Seems like if seeing his erection excites so much that you get wet from looking at it and that you masturbate thinking about sex with him, actually having sex with him would be even more exciting, especially because of the taboo factor.

Just out of curiosity, when you masturbate thinking about your son's penis, do you have an orgasm, or does the masturbation thinking about your son feel better than the sex with your husband, or about the same.

Also, do you think your daughter gets sexually excited about seeing her brother's erection?

 

I think the primary limiter is the degree to which one would allow themselves to act out their fantasy. I admit that if you add the right ingredients, ones preference for good looks, hormones and the right situation, shake them up a bit you can have the makings of a real sexually charged situation. Not much different from those strictly residing in the clothed world. On the topic of being descriptive when posting; I have been to some other nudist oriented websites and they were very dry. So much so that I thought they should have a disclaimer telling the reader to use sunscreen and lotions. I know this a preference on my part, mostly because I am a very visual person. The descriptiveness adds to the enjoyment and flavor of the conversation. Our family for instance is one that is very open. For instance, my daughters 15 and 12 have been shown by their mother how to pleasure themselves. The oldest asked about it because the topic was part of the curriculum at school last year. She showed them and the mystery was removed by explaining that it is one of the most natural things to do and that we all do it. As a result, my wife and I have seen, mostly the oldest, having a go at it while at the computer or while watching television. The other night while our youngest was away at her friends for a sleep over, the three of us watched a movie with adult themes. During the most active scenes I saw my daughter pleasuring herself. Now the recliners are about 6 to 7 feet apart so you can see that there was no touching that took place nor would I let there be. Stimulating, well hell yes. I discretely started to pleasure myself as well. Nothing hidden because to do so would indicate that it is something to be ashamed of, hide, don’t let anyone see. The movie was enjoyed and that was that.

 

It will probably ba a while before I post again as my cousin was given a very grim prognosis on Saturday. She has been undergoing radiation therapy for the last two years for breast cancer. about 5 weeks ago she started having complications, pain in the side and not holding food down that turned out to be pancreatitis and a stint was placed in the duct. continued down turns in general health has placed us where we are today. Regulated dosages of morphine is being given for pain and feeding is via intravenous. She is 43 with a 4 year old little boy. Please, everyone enjoy every ounce of life in all the forms there are. Let your senses run wild. Do the foolish tings now and enjoy every damn moment. And most of all tell those you are close to that you love them. Thanks for accepting me with all my odd quarks of which I have plenty. All the best.

 

I forgot to ask what you meant when you said your son "reacted a bit" when you bent over in front of him to pick up an empty box. Did he say something like "whoa!" or "oh!" or exactly how did he react?

Also, since you said you masturbated while fantasizing about him pumping away inside your pussy, how would you feel if he masturbated while thinking of the same thing? Would you like the fact that me might be doing that? Or if he was fantasizing about sex with his sister, how would you feel about that? Just curious, that's why I'm asking.

 

Quite a story ma'am. I was wondering if I could talk to you about family nudity and things of the sort, I don't want to post my email unless I have an okay from you, so please reply soon. Thank you... from a fellow nudist

 

Hi, Xiaoyan same as my previous post. I'd love to get a chance to talk to you, so please if you wouldn't mind sharing with me, post a reply to this so I can give you my email

 

Well, I wonder how your daughter handles seeing your son's erection. Since it excites you, I wonder if it does the same thing for her, or not. Has she ever said that it makes her uncomfortable seeing her brother's erection?

Like I said, I would think nudity among opposite sex siblings would be a problem once they hit puberty, because of the chance that the arousal might tempt the brother, or sister, or perhaps even both, into practicing sexual techniques on each other. Don't you have any concern about that?

 

This is what you think would happen if your family had been nudist. IN reality this is probibly, what would hapen if your family suddenly decided to become nudists in the middle of your adolesence. If you had seen your sister naked since you were little kids, you would view it as normal and not connect it to sex at all.

 

The answer to your question is quite simple, imagine fantisizing about doing Paris Hilton. It may turn you on if you think shes hot. But you would not acaully do it if you got the chance, because you would not want an STD.

 

Well then, how do you explain the original poster's and gabby12's sons getting erections seeing their sisters naked? Or the original poster and gabby12 getting sexually aroused seeing their son's erections? Both of these families have been nudists all their lives and they got sexually aroused. So what I said makes sense. If erections and arousal are not tied to sex, then what are they tied to?

 

My kids, like my husband and I are most often nude around the house. My son occasionally gets an erection when our 18 yr old daughter is nude around him. However I don't think that there is anything wrong with it. He is a teenage boy with hormones, and he has no sexual attractions to his sister. He is comfortable naked and seeing his sister naked, but occasionally his hormones take over and gets an erection. So to answer the quote, his erections are tied to hormones, not to sexual attractions to his sister.

 

Not wearing clothes around your kids and being naked together is one thing-completely normal and healthy, in my eyes

SEX involving kids (even if theyre "just watching") is completely WRONG and Im going to be blunt here and probably unpopular-youre giving the whole thing a bad name. Why oh why does sex have to come into this, let alone paedophilia? Come on...youre telling me you masturbate around your kids and teach them to do it themselves and thats all hunky dory? Also, ive read your other posts. Yep, you look like a sicko. Ruining the whole thingtheres always at least one

 

People thought this poster was not only sane, but perfectly healthy and respectable!? Oh my lord, do me a fucking favour will you!? Bunch of nutters, Im talking SERIOUS PROBLEMS here. Get your fucking heads looked at...when on Earth did having no bits of cloth on your body come to...this?

 

Yes, this is pretty messed up line of thinking. I think you're objectifying your son and not seeing him as a real live person. It's fine to notice you're son is attractive, but whoa there! You should be proud of him. Not lustful.

It doesn't matter if your son gets a hard on. I was once a young guy and I can tell you that the hormone level at that age is just crazy. You can sneeze and get an erection. Plus you don't have any experience to give you the wisdom on what to do in those situations. You don't have that excuse. Be the parent and draw the line. Your son will follow your lead.

 

Yes, when my son has an erection while nude, I am attracted to it, but it doesn't make me lustful of him in any way.

 

I didn't have on children, but i did grow up in a family with some nudist orientation. We didn't live in the nude obligatory, but did spend nudist holidays and it was usual to see someone of the family naked in daily life now and then. My brother was two years older than me and during holidays I used to hang around with a boy one year older from a buddy family. So I know well about the "problem" in the origin post. In fact I think it'n not a real problem. Boys of 14 / 15 get their hormones boiled up, an this causes some visible effects (maybe you son of 16 is a bit late).

My brother always tried to hide it from my parents, but with me around he was open. Well I was his little sister who had to adore him (he thinks this still today, more than 20 years later..). At this time I found it interesting, but not attracting in a sexual way. Like you examine a dead insect or so. I guess, as it was my brother, there was no sexual interest anyway.

The other boy just went through the hormone problem when we did spend another holiday stay together at one of Croatia's biggest nudist camping. First he wanted to stay around the caravan to keep his "problem" private, but after some days we began to stroll over the camp again like we usually did the years before, with or without his penis sticking out. This time, it was a mix of curiosity and some few erotic for me, but it wasn't my brother, so I guess it was ok. He was just looking good after he got tanned.

What I want to say: This happens, and we should be able to admit it as part of our life. For the boys probably it's important not to get disciplined, as long as they behave adequate. For the girls it's a chance to learn something new by seeing and feeling.

But this not necessarily leads to sex! An in my eyes the masturbation thing some mentioned is something completely different. I guess I wouldn't like to have seen my father masturbate on the living room sofa during the family tv program. I'm not against masturbation, but every thing has it's place and time (one year later I did a lot of m. with the camping boy, but never in front of our parents, usually we did in my little tent or in the cliffs above the sea shore).

The attraction some of you feel to their naked sons may be just feelings of pride having such a nice healthy boy. All works fine, even the generative organ … so your genes will be saved. Maybe this thinking is deep inside us all.

 

My brother always tried to hide it from my parents, but with me around he was open. Well I was his little sister who had to adore him (he thinks this still today, more than 20 years later..). At this time I found it interesting, but not attracting in a sexual way. Like you examine a dead insect or so. I guess, as it was my brother, there was no sexual interest anyway.

What I want to say: This happens, and we should be able to admit it as part of our life. For the boys probably it's important not to get disciplined, as long as they behave adequate. For the girls it's a chance to learn something new by seeing and feeling.


So are you saying that you touched and examined your brother's erection, or did you only do that with the boy who was a friend of the family?

 

What exactly does that mean that you are attracted to his erection, but not lustful of him? Does that mean you simply like looking at his erection?
And how does your daughter feel about her brother getting an erection from seeing her nude?

 

> So are you saying that you touched and examined your brother's erection, or did you only do that with the boy who was a friend of the family?

Hi Man,

you are curious ;-)

I guess i had this through with my brother before. When do children usually do these "doctor games"? I don't know exactly if i never tuches him during the hormone rage, but i guess there was no need for "examination" then.

Other thing with the boy at the camp. We did stay together there during holidays for a row of years before and were real good friends. So of course you tend to find out about the changings going on. For example how feel my little sprouting berasts, how feels his hardon, how feels it if the other touches you etc. But we both knew how to behave in a nudist camp, so we had our places for to learn. This was all very innocent! It might sound more spectaculos than it was. Just checking out what happens with the other, and in the next minute going on with swimming, diving, climbing trees etc. The real "serious" things didn't start before the next summer, and as it was the last holidays i did spend with my parents, it was the end of our "relation" too.

 

aaw that's beautiful!