Nudity at Home

Or just say that's a sensitive area and ask her not to touch it.

 

If she grabs your foot, hand, hair, or whatever else how would you respond? Why is this situation any different? At 10 months, she doesn't understand right from wrong and is simply exploring her world. Easiest solution: Distract her. No need to say anything, or do any thing other than provide her a distraction.

Many years ago my (then) four year old daughter noticed my package when she came to sit with me on the bed. She reach over, grabbed my penis through my underwear and asked "is that your pee-pee?" I simply said yes. She acknowledged my answer and moved on to other things. No need for deep answers.

Later on you'll need to teach her about personal space, but not at 10 months.

 

my brother,(he's 16) gets a boner around me sometimes......I'm petty sure mom and dad have noticed but they haven't said anything to him. it kinda creeped me out at first, but it doesn't bother me now. he let me watch him masturbate once, it didn't seem like a big deal at the time, but...was that wrong of us? it just happened that one time, he was already doing it when I walked in on him so it's not like he was masturbating to me.

 

Xiaoyan, you mentioned getting a bit excited when your son has a full erection... My family and I are nudists (sometimes) and I feel the same way when my 17 yr old son gets an erection. In fact, the feeling tends to come on very strong, especially lately. A few days ago, I just couldn't shake how visually stimulating his body and especially his penis was. We were all nude and he was walking around some of the time with a full out hard cock. I mean, he is rather well endowed (about 8 inches) and it is very healthy looking - nice, thick and veiny... I can't help but feel aroused (to say the least).

His sister is 15 and I can imagine what she might feel as well, being young and curious with plenty hormones. Her appeal when nude is nice too, so I figure that may be why he gets so excited. As well, I have noticed him look at me while excited. Its just hard to not notice how sexual it can be. He looks like a Playgirl model walking around nude and I can't ignore the fact that I get horny, sometimes very horny. I have masturbated a few times already with a fantasy of him just full on pumping me. Sometimes I get an urge to do subtle, seductive things around him like as bending and such.

Yesterday, he had his erection going for a bit and it subsided. By then, I was already excited, and began to get a little wet. He was walking into the large kitchen area and all around with his flacid but thick and long cock swinging around, occassionaly bouncing off his thighs. I was beside myself, but acted as normal as possible. He later stopped in the kitchen and got a glass of water, I then crouched down slowly to grab an empty box on the kitchen floor a ways in front of him. My vagina of course spread open a bit and you could actually hear its moisture! I don't know if he heard it, but he definitely saw my legs spread and my vagina open. He reacted a bit and left not long after. Minutes later I noticed his beautiful cock was nice and hard again. I went into my bedroom to finish some laundry and masturbate thinking of his penis pumping in and out of me. He may have went his seperate way do do the same.

My husband and I have a fairly good sex life and I would not want to fuck my son, but the fantasy and thoughts can be satisfying. Is this bad? I'll try not to fall into any seductive games or heavy thoughts but its hard not to naturally respond to him physically. Sorry if I got to detailed, but that's the only way for me to share. I find it erotic to be able to share this. Thanks, and I guess my short response to your post would be that I can understand how your son's erection can excite you.

 

these are the posts that I don't understand: "naturists" and "nudists" like to say nudity doesn't equal sex, then you see multiple posts about mothers getting sexuallyy aroused when they see their son's erections, or guys popping erections as soon as they see naked chicks, etc., so which is it?

I ask b/c I'm a hot springs devotee who hears the same things at hot springs--guys always claim they are just there for peace and relaxation, but they do seem to react differently to the non-clothed women, esp. if they're attractive and/ or young.

It would really seem that you cannot separate sexuality from nudity if merely viewing naked people stimulates arousal--why pretend that you are participating in a "healthy" alternative lifestyle when you really just want to get off looking at nude people?

 

Very interesting post. I don't really see anything wrong with it. I guess as long as the kids don't start acting out on each other. But that is unlikely because they're not hung up on nudity and sex. Erections happen. And as for Mom being interested in son in a vague way that's really no big deal either. Hey, he's your baby and he's growing up. I'm sure your husband finds your daughter attractive too. But he is unlikely to do anything sexual. That's his little girl. His roll is to protect all...

 

Good for you Gabby12 ! I think you are showing that you are very human and appreciate the human body. I know that in the nudist community any kind of arousal is looked down on and that being nude can desensitize a person. This is fine and well but I think we also need to acknowledge that libido is a function of normal life. My wife and I have been nudists for about 5 years and we have two daughters 15 and 12. As a father and husband I find my wife very attractive and get aroused seeing her. My daughters are very beautiful in all respects and yes they excite me as well. I would never permit myself to act out any thoughts I may entertain regarding my children but I can't deny it is very stimulating to watch them. It is refreshing to hear Gabby12's honesty . Heres a toast to ya for being honest and human ! All the best.

 

I'm glad to see that some people are so honest about their feelings. I tried to be as honest about mine as possible.

It is true that being nude often desinsitizes us to a certain extent to getting aroused immediately when we see a nude body. But it doesn't do this completely, as nudity will always have a sexual element to it. I think it is rather difficult for a woman to see an erect penis, regardless of who it belongs to, without getting a little aroused. I even got aroused (sometimes very) when I saw other women nude years ago in the public baths in China, and I'm straight.

I think the human body is beautiful, nudity is beautiful, and I personally hate clothes. I like nudity for it's own sake, not because I'm looking for something sexual in it-I don't need to look, it's there anyway. I think if a woman claims that she never gets excited when she sees a handsome family member with a frequent erection, she's probably lying. We discovered last year that my brother and his wife are also nudists, and we have been nude with them a number of times. My brother and I had never seen each other nude before, and he would frequently have an erection when he would be close to me. I would be blatantly lying if I said that his erection wasn't beautiful or it didn't excite me.

You see, women can be extremely horny and it isn't externally visible, so I think it's wrong to discriminate against men because we can see that they are excited. And it's also just stupid for us to think we have to claim that we don't admire a man (even a family member's) erection or that we're not excited by it.

I think we should just relax and admit that we're all human, and not try to inject political correctness into being nudists. That's my opinion, anyway.

 

I don't think that you can separate nudity from sexuality... Sex is made pleasurable for a reason. Whether you feel it is for procreation or for the divine. Our bodies are naturally appealing to the opposite sex and to the same sex.

I don't find it absurd to think that a mother would be attracted to her son in that fashion or likewise. Think about the brother deer who was bore and raised by his mother doe and in a year or 2 he may be the dominant buck who winds mating with his own mother and this prolly happens all over natures kingdom. Nature has its ways and so does the spirit.

What dictates to us that it may be wrong is rules and laws to govern the masses, made by "civilized" men and women as a method of control. Some bible yielding clergy telling you that you are damned for what you think and what you do, all the while he buggers the alter boys.

Human sexuality has been ripped from our very existence, made to be perverse, the body made to be shameful and we are taught to hide it because it is dirty.

Sexuality is just one thing that makes us human...or not human. The concept is shared by many species, but you don't see the deer being ruled under the guise of civility...

 

sometimes, i am nude at home, but only, if iamm alone... if my family is at home, i wear some shorts or something like that.

 

If my family had been nudists, I think I woulda had erections from seeing my sisters naked, even the one who had a weight problem. Also, I think eventually I would have tried to have sex with them, because the sight of them naked woulda gottten me so aroused that I woulda tried something. For example, I am a real "ass man," and if my sisters had been walking around the house naked with their asses jiggling, I woulda tried grabbing and kissing their asses and try to persuade them to let me have anal sex with them.

Also, did you admit in this post that when you see your son's erection, and you have your own kind of 'erection," your vagina sometimes gets wet when you see his erection? Does this make you think about having sex with your son?

 

Oddly enough, my first post here is about folks who only have one post. Gabby and James seem to be of a like mind, but hardly represent the typical nudist family's attitude towards sex and erections. I've been a nudist for well over 40 years, raised three children in a nudist home, and have been a member of various nudist forums for many years. These sort of posts are commonplace and usually come from "fantasy" posters. Do boys sometimes get erections? Yes, but it's hardly the sort of thing that a mother fantasizes about. My daughters are both attractive young women now, but seeing them nude only makes me feel proud, not aroused. It's very satisfying for a parent to see their offspring grow up healthy, attractive, and well-adjusted. Sorry, but I have to call BS on these "turn-on" posts.

 

OK, this is like the first reply I made to your earlier post, but when you say you get excited by the sight of your brother's erection, what thoughts do you have, if any, at that time? Are you having thoughts about having sex with your husband, or doing something sexual with your brother? The reason I ask is because like I said in my other post, if I had constantly seen my sisters naked, I woulda been thinking about having sex with them.

As far as thinking your son's and brothers erections are "beautiful," when I see a woman who's beautiful, or a woman with a bodypart, like her ass, that's really beautiful, the thought I usually have is that she or her bodypart is so beautiful that I have thought of kissing and licking the bodypart, getting my lips and tongue all over it. So do you have thoughts like that when you see your son's or brother's erect penis? I'm just trying to better understand, since I've always thought that for women, sexual arousal is more emotional than physical.

 

So you and your family are nudists as well? And how did you feel about seeing your brother masturbate? Did you enjoy seeing him do that, or did that weird you out?

 

Just chiming in again. I can appreciate the accepted "norm" of the nudist lifestyle. Don't seen anything wrong with it and understand where you are coming from. However, it should also be acknowledged that others, not posers or only those with "strange" fantasies, can appreciate the human body and become turned on. I would venture to say that many, if visiting a mall and seeing a gal wearing a knockout short dress, would become aroused while others would just find her mildly interesting. Just saying that what some see as stimulating will not be the same for others. Nothing wrong with it but just is. It is the same for those that practice or entertain a "openly sexual lifestyle". For some it would be out of the question but for others there's nothing wrong with it. Its my understanding that at Cherry Lane, a Nudist Resort, open sex is permitted in some areas. This could be very objectionable for some until, come to find out, it is for adults only and permitted only in selected posted areas. Those that object can take the other path, if you will. After all, isn't being nude the enjoyment of freedom and appreciating the feel of nature upon our skin and sharing this with others. Xiaoyan and Gabby12 are just expressing their views openly and it appears quite truthfully.

 

James, I think your response was an honest one. However, I think Gabby's graphic description of her son's penis was a bit over the top. It read more like erotic literature than an actual event.

 

Thank you (some, at least) for any of your supportive comments. My post was graphic; maybe it didn't need to be so... however I feel honesty and perspective are important when bringing this to light. There is a time and place for everything, and I would never get that detailed in almost any occassion, but this forum gave me that ability. I can agree with many of your posts in some way or another and again, thank you.

Xiaoyan's right when she states that an erection can be exciting and beautiful, regardless of who it may belong to, but there is right and wrong. Controll is necessary. I do appreciate all advice and concern. Even when it comes to naturism/nudism, to deny certain issues can be ridiculous.

 

Oh... and James, I agree! Thank you for the nice post and honesty as well.

 

Thanks for the honest in your post. I am a little confused though, about how you can fantasize about having your son's penis pumping you, and masturbate to that visual, yet not want to have him fuck you, especially since you have had this fantasy repeatedly. Are you saying that if he really wanted to do it and approached you with the idea, you would not be tempted? What about the idea of having a threesome with your husband and son? Has that thougth ever crossed your mind?

 

Actually, no, it has not. See, as you said, its a fantasy (sort of). Being visually turned on by an erection is what I woud consider normal in any case. However, its my son and following completely through with fucking him can not work. Yes, it can be tempting, but more so for the fact that he just happens to visually turn me on. Any man younger or older could walk into my house with the sexual qualities I described my son as having, and it would most likely arouse me.

My son's naked body and even sexier penis are just something I'll have to deal with whenever he's around in that state. Its a matter of how much thought I actually put into him and his cock. Sex with my son, or worse with my husband involved is just wrong. For me its simply understanding that a young man and his gorgeous erection arouse me. A detail or two to boost a fantasy is one thing, to go through with a fantasy of this nature, is a whole other.