After menopause, my wife has no interest in sex any more. For those that say you'd leave your wife if they ever stopped giving you head, I'm sorry that you value that more than a loving and caring relationship. Even without sex, I stick with her because I love her to death!
We see this all the time with practically every man that's over 50 having the same issue. Sex and intimacy just slips away bit by bit...not for lack of trying, she just doesn't want to do it. So because her sex drive has expired, yours is supposed to also evaporate and you just are to give it up. It's simple human nature. If it still works, men need sex and that is a part of a loving and caring relationship. It's about connection. I don't know, maybe some guys just don't miss it but I sure as hell would and it would be a sore spot just eating away at things.... Think about it logically, just how much time and effort does it take? 10 minutes? We had this discussion once - how much time and effort does one spend on herself that only benefits her, like doing her damn makeup, hair, fingernails, manicures, pedicures, choosing what shoes to wear, yada yada yada it goes on and on...hours.... With just that, not mentioning all the other debris, I think one can give the other ten minutes a few times a week to help keep our marriage strong and keep the other off the roof. They turn off the sex, then wonder, why oh why would he ever cheat on me.....it's so very simple, it boggles the mind.
So true! I had someone who ended up being done and over with sex, so doing anything for me was not even an option. Move on. In my times without a FWB I would occasionally see someone who offered services. One of them LOVED giving blowjobs and one day she was talking about how many married and attached men took her services because their partners would NOT take care of their man even for just a few minutes a week for example. She had mixed feelings about it in a way: why didn’t they do anything to keep their men fateful, and on the other hand, she made good money
