No anal a deal breaker now a days?

It must have been hard not going to school and getting a decent education. Just think how easily people would understand you if circumstances had been more favourable?

 

Ha,,, I partied ma ass off in school, jumped ship early after my teacher said I would amount to nothing and have never worked for minimum wage for anyone. I have had two businesses of my own, one currently being operated, worked in a lab, policed the skys for five years for your safety, seen lots of other parts of the world and never hated my job, not even once,,, and am still having the time of my life with hardly a worry and yet I never relied on my parents after the age of 17 or the government for a free dime. Imagine if I had wasted the time in school you did,,, ah hahahahahahaha.
You should see my hand writing tho,,, its even worse but its good enough for government work,,, they have yet to say they cant read my 6 month and yearly reports I give them,,, and They pay me. Just think,,, I love my work, and am ready to retire early as I have planned many years and worked for and I will be rocking in that old rocker on the porch watching you go to work each morning (if you live close enough that is) while sipping my coffee and Baileys and Watching the boats go by. Just think,,, ya I wish I had an edumacashun...

And truth be told, I worked min wage twice for about two weeks each when I was between good jobs I wanted so I wouldnt have to rely on gov cash, and once asked for a crisis cheque when I moved to BC on my own from Ontario not knowing there wasnt much work here, (friend said there was loads of work here because she wanted me to move here, yet best move I ever made) thats when I found my first business, my store shortly after I got that emergency help,,, so ya I do know what its like to be hard up too.

One thing I can tell you is you can have an education and be smart or as stupid as a hammer and nail or you can talk your way into anything you want and do great at it and have a great time enjoying what you want in life. I am a great talker and I know a lot of waitresses and waiters who made it through grade 12, (not that serving is a bad thing) I had employees who made it through grade 12 who stole stuff from my store and I had to fire them, some couldn't do a stock check without help. I had one employee in this business who drank on the side through the day and was loaded by the end of it, 33 year old now not working, grade 12 and collage paid by parents,,, ya I believed in hiring based on level of education,,, Buddy,,, You pick your path and you travel it and no book promises to bring you there, you do.

Must go do a run now because I have hardly done a thing all day sept yak with you and visit with someone over a new possible contract for an hour, looks like its a go said they,,, be back in an hour if you wanna discuss this any further, the rest of my day is free.

 

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Every time someone has a shot at someone and that someone posts up a big speech about how they aren't affected by what was said it's like... It looks like you're upset with the long justification.

 

You probably meant 'takes' a shot at someone, because it doesnt just happen, its not something you have, its something that is done, something you do.
And when anyone wants to discuss my life and its good times or it's bad times I am willing to share it with them, I am such an open type, nothing to hide and a positive one at that. I like to see the sun through the clouds, some days it's hard for any of us to do that but we shouldn't try to knock someone else's life and education down for it.

 

Don't be so discouragingly ignorant, English has never been my first language.
A monkey could have understood what I was trying to say and it wouldn't even of had the audacity to try correct me either.

 

That wasn't a correction, it was conversation, I was going along with what you said and wanted to say he didn't have a shot, he took a shot. English has never been my favorite language so why should I knock your english? I keep saying this thread isn't about us, it's asking a question we are avoiding for some reason.

 

You're right. But I don't blame myself. If I had access to knowledge, I would know that porn isn't education but only entertainment. Thanks to the advent of the internet now and the evolution of forums such as this, my God, do I know a lot now. I wish I could get 10 years of my life back at least. Things would be a lot different

 

YES! I think that it is best when lovers have the same wants and desires. I think it is very frustrating when you are not compatible. If you want anal.then do it! If you don't,' why are you looking at the Oral and Anal sex thread? Do you just like annoy others? Just a thought.

 

It's not a dealbreaker to me personally. It would not really be a big deal to me if my partner didn't want to do anal. In fact, I think anal has become such an overly emphasized thing in the recent years. So much so to the point where I get tired of seeing all these videos with the whole anal theme on porn sites. I mean, I'm open to anal sex but only if, and when, my partner and I can both enjoy it. Otherwise, I say no anal.

One more thing to add: people who aren't into anal still look at the Oral and Anal Sex sub-forum for the oral sex related threads. And in situations where they want to contribute to the anal sex related ones to express their views, then I think that's fine too, as long as they are respectful about it.

Just a thought.

 

I don't believe that anal sex is so common place that it is now expected by all med. There are a lot of men out there who aren't interested in it.The great thing about relationships in our society is you have the right to say NO. you could walk away and find someone who is more in tune with what you want from a sexual relationship. But yes i have noticed that anal sex is defiantly more common. I have helped with a high school sex ed program and a lot of kids thought it was a great alternative to vaginal sex because there isn't the chance of connection. i was very surprised by this, and was glad the information was on a survey because i didn't have the answer on that one other than sex is consensual.

 

We live in such a fucked up society...people will lick an asshole but freak out if someone double dips a chip.

IMO...it's nasty, overly germy, would take too much prep time...and I have a perfectly good vagina.

 

It is certainly for me. Anal is sex for me, and while there are many other things that are important in a partner, sexual compatibility is very important too. I need anal sex to be sexually satisfied.

 

I had each of my last 10 men I had wanting anal. Yes I think it's a must. A good must. I love it

 

As a guy I've never seen the fascination with anal and it's something I have no interest in whatsoever. Why go for the brown when you've got a delicious pink to hit everytime?

I know everyone is different, but just not for me.

I did once ask my wife to penetrate me with her finger and I know she was very inexperienced with such things (her 1st time) it did nothing for me and was uncomfortable and not something I'd look to repeat anytime soon.

 

Being married (and faithful) I obviously don't have a lot of recent dating experience, but my friends sure do. It sure seems that most guys in their 20's and early 30's have pretty high expectations when it comes to both anal and swallowing after a BJ. I have four very, very close friends. Among the five of us, four do anal and all five (including me) say they swallow. Yes, women really do talk about these things! I have no doubt that easy access to free internet porn has dramatically influenced how guys (and some women) look at sex.