long hair, tattoos, facial hair, big biceps, dirty hands, strong arms, deep voice..........mmmmmm love me a rugged man.....and a kinda, but not too, bad boy. Not abusive, but strong. Different animal. JMO
If it helps, just stay indifferent- that should get their attention. for some reason, what I have experienced is that if you stay indifferent to women, that gets their attention toward you. Although this does not apply to everyone , it applies to a good chunk.
I don't know about the trash thing but I think it's more of the appeal of breaking the rules or being a little crazy. My guys are numbskulls but the sweetest dudes I ever met.
I'm just a rascal. For the most part, women do seem to like nice guys.... they just mistake being overly nice as making up for a lack of personality, and don't wanna guy who's just trying to nice his way into their panties. My advice is to chill out on the niceness before you get to know 'em more.
Yep, don't be too nice... it scares people away. Just be yourself and be satisfied with yourself - how you are.