Nice Guys Finish Last?

Nice. I'm glad that you found such a guy.

 

no, Green Day finishes last

 

Definately true! I had a fuck buddy that I recently stopped seeing and boy was he good, he'd go all out to make me cum first just so he could cum, it was like an unwritten rule of his or sumthing, he was a fricken machine, oh and he was a real nice guy too lol.

 

any guy who finishes last is a nice guy *wink*

 

I strongly disagree with the notion that nice guys finish last. The guys who say this are bitter beta males sulking in their loneliness and desperation.

Last year I met a dude at Bonnaroo who was genuinely nice and outgoing. He was not in the best of shape but was tall (at least 6 feet tall) and had a handsome face. He would talk to pretty girls in a fun-loving way and they loved it. They would give strong signals of attraction right back to him. He had charm. In fact I told him if he really wanted he could bag at least one of the chicks at the fest. He told me he was not interested.

Women are attracted to confident guys. Nature works in probabilities. Confident guys are usually confident because they have something going for them. Women are hard-wired to be attracted to them because they increase the chances of healthy offspring due to good genes. Many jerks are confident, which is why some women are attracted to jerks. The underlying element of attraction is thus the confidence and not being a jerk.

Many nice guys finish last because they are nice due to their lack of confidence: if they had confidence perhaps they wouldn't act like the pushovers that they are. Women dislike pushovers. They are not a challenge and lack the manliness that women want.

 

AHAHAHA. yeah, i've noticed that a lot. "i'm a nice guy! how come i didnt get the pussy?" there's been a LOT of times i thought i was nice, too. turns out i wasn't.

 

HAHAHA that is soooo true!

 

Or, sometimes not at all.

 

Wow! And I thought I was one of the nice guys. *scratch that*

 

That works pretty well in the realm of manipulative relationships.

 

Khm
My bf is nice guy. He is not ashamed to tell me that he loves me, he has cryed when Ive hurt his feelings with words... We had sex - yes, but it is not that important and I feel like Ive found the real person to spend my life with him.
I used to date with "bad guys". They were all hot and there were many girls "in love" with them but that was nothing. There wasnt love with them! Only some great time. And nothing like deep feelings.
Girls are looking for love

 

Well I guess I'm what you would call a 'nice guy'. I'm sensitive, I'm not afraid to express my feelings. I want the woman I'm with to be happy, I'm not just concerned about my own happiness. If I'm hurt I cry. Sometimes people tell me, 'you shouldn't be like this', or 'you shouldn't do that', really meaning that I should be Mr. Tuff Guy and pretend that things don't bother me, and not get so emotionally attached to someone that I'm in love with. The problem is, that's me-there's no point in trying to be someone that I'm not. To the question, 'do nice guys finish last?', I would say that I think it's better to have a broken heart than to not have a heart at all.

 

I tend to fall in love with delinquent cowboy poets who ride rodeos all over my soul even if they love me ... but the passion with them is SO much hotter than with the sweethearts I know.

I hate being a stereotype ... <sigh>

 

Absolutely there is nothing wrong with that.

There are people out there who have found out how to have unmanipulative, deeply loving relationships. I can understand though, if you haven't seen it, that it would be very difficult to believe.

 

Girls like the bad boys. I Picked up my girlfriend from her house before we started going out in a stolen car. It really turned her on Oh how i miss the back seet of that van!

 

Yes, it is true. I have learned this over years of experience. I am always pushed aside for assholes....I'll never understand why. It makes no sense to me.

 

yes, pretty much true but there are lots of girls that like nice guys too. this is the guy girls want to marry. i hope you stay nice

 

Yeah. Just stay nice and Im sure youll find great girl!

 

hypotesis:life and being young only happens once.
question:is it worth it waiting for a woman to go past her 25s and realise SHE'll feel better with a nice guy,so she'll marry you?

i think not.

i am very confident and i show it,yet i'm also very nice.i give money to beggars,flowers to strangers,i'm always supportive to someone in need in any way,i'm not a coward,although i'd never be agressive towards an innocent person.in conclusion,i just lost a girl to some homeless oligophren punk* with a yellow mohawk and a chain that he uses on anyone who asks if his mohawk is real and is a stranger to the work "thanks".that after i hid him in my tent to help him escape a gang of neo-nazis chasing him.

*i'm not saying punks are oligophrenes,i have some as friends

guess next time i should fling my "FLOWER POWER the peacemaker" inscripted bat at everyone i set my eyes on.