newly single and wanting to do everyone

Yeah, but see, before my last girlfriend, it had been about a year since I had dated girl. And even longer since I'd been without sex, and I still didn't feel that way. And I don't feel that way now either, even though it's been quite awhile since I've been with anybody. It's just not in me, to be a swinger like that. I want badly to meet someone, and be with them sexually and the whole lot, but I still feel I can wait for the right opportunity.

I mean, if that's the way YOU feel, all the more power to you. I respect your opinion, and your stance on it, but it's just not for me, you know? Each to their own, though.

 

no i agree with you, i'm generally a serious relationship person but with all this anger and frusteration who knows what might go down. after some incident last night i dont think i'll ever see him again and i'm feelign pretty vengeful, which is unlike me. i guess he brings out the worst in me

 

I think u should if you want and never regret any choices you make. I was careful and had free love. condom and all that .. now that im older i want lots of sex but i choose to find someone who is experienced and stick with them just because you never know how FREAKING lousy someone is in bed and unfortunately you have to sleep with them to find out. lol. Know the consequences, be upfront and honest about your desires and stay safe and HAVE FUN you are only young once and sexual exploration is a beautiful part of life

 

OH just read vengence.. not a good idea to have sex for anything but feeling good! and exploring yourself.

 

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I cant believe that. Here you are, the epitome of female sexuallity, and no one is there to worship you for it?

Gruven, I, now more than ever, want to make you my goddess for as long as you want it. I hope one day to start at your ears and end at your toes, with you trembling and exhausted after its all over.

Then we will smoke a j together.

 

Gruvenmama I so know you from somewhere... Where did we talk before or meet? Did you ever do Phish tour, Camp Bisco, Bonnaroo, All Good, Langerado, Vegoose or Waka in the past few years. I could list a ton of shows but looking at your gallery I know that I know you. Like its so weird.

 

Pixel- yea i do want to be careful. and i want to find someone who actually cares for and appreciates me for a change. as my moms ays, i give and give and then just get shit on. i dont wanna do it from vengeance but i have so much anger in me right now.. and sadness.

Heron- i know itsn't that rediculous? we used to all the all the time but he just stopped. there may have been some reasons like pregnancy or past bad relationships i've had or his LSD flashbacks when we did it. who knows. but we went out for 3 yrs, no sex for 2 yrs, no kiss for months now that i've had. i'm a very raw and sexual person like many humans and i have my needs. haven't been with anyone in so long. i know you are good to women and how you would be i'm just so jealous of my friends who are having great sex with other kids and friends from school *sigh*.

Shaman420- i saw the pics in your gallery and i love gabby lala and the disco biscuits ;D met them all before actually. i did all those festies and tours you mentioned and many more. you've prly seen me, i always recognize people. the dreaddie mama "amber" on hipforums was the mama who sold me amazing mango kush at dark star orchestra in philly believe it or not, and i traded her my peyote stitch necklace i made. small world! what shows/fests you gonna be at soon? i just did the NYE bisco run

 

Nice, nice..well not when it comes to not having sex in 2 years but nice when it comes to you going to the Biscuits NYE. I was in ATL at STS9 but I would have loved to catch Allen Aucoin's first NYE show. Did Sammy make any appearances over the weekend? Right now I have a few shows planned.. Michael Franti in AZ, STS9 with Cut Chemist/Digable Planets & Pnuma late-night in CO, Phil Lesh in NYC, and Langerado which will be my first chance to see the "new" disco biscuits. This is bugging me so bad because I look at your pictures it gives me chills how familiar you look. You should PM because I think I may know where your from but its not the kinda thing I like to talk about on a message board. I wanna say I know you from Coventry or a Coventry ticket but I think I may know you from All Good also and maybe Phish on their last Summer tour.. have you ever been to that fest and if so what years?

Also maybe I'll send you a pic and you'll recognize me the only problem is the only pic I have of me on this computer is kinda screwed up cause it was after my first attempt at getting dreddies and I would have met you before that..

Weirdness.. but kinda cool

 

Completely unrelated, but inbloom is adorable. Completely adorable. Adorable enough to make me post in a thread that I have no comment for.

I guess I should come up with one --

Gruven, I think you should do whatever you want. I completely understand your desire for free, unattached sex. I went through a period of enjoying that immensely, but now feel pretty much the same way that inbloom does. If I'm with someone, I'm with them and no one else. And if I'm single, I like to stay that way. Casual sex, while fun, has led to far too many problems in my life to make it worthwhile.

But you, you should do it if you feel that it's the right thing for you at this stage in your life. But do be careful, as everyone has said. There are a lot of diseases out there and no one wants to get one.

 

Polyamory is a viable thrid option folks. Monogamy has a very poor track record from what i have seen, but unemotional sex lacks all the beauty. Love is not a pie to be divided, it can be infinitely shared

Jim

 

Shaman- yea i was all over those festies and stuff, i bet you did see me somewhere, i'm pretty short and petite if that helps. sure you can PM me

revulvar- yea inbloom is a cute pie! hehe. yea i havent come across anyone lately that feels the ssme about me as i do the..or maybe i dont know it. hm.

 

Insightful!!! I agree with your opinion I think that sex can be a good thing and a bad thing, but you never know who's doing it right or who's plain old taking advantage of it....

 

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Why haven't you had sex? Good luck!

 

I'm starting to feel the same way.

For some reason, my sex drive died, but now it's revving back up.

Ugh.

 

Gruven, my advice is to do what you want, but remember this,

Share your body with anyone, but never give it away.

Respect yourself sister, you are a goddess.

 

yes i do respect myself Heron, thanks for the advice. i've been used too many times to let it happen again.

i do have a guy friend that has liked me for a while, he always wanted to have sex w/me etc. he's a virgin and apparently i'm the guy "devirginator" so i
m wonderin if i should go ahead lol? i'm not really attarcted to him, he's a jock kinda and def not at all like me but we've known each other for a while

 

It would make his world if you did. You obviously dont feel obligation, so share away sweet sister, blow his mind, but only if you think you'd enjoy it.

 

hehe man the things i'd do to him...

 

Wow....you are one sexy looking girl hon. Wish you were not so far away. I don;t want to spoil your fun but just keep a head on about STD's etc while you are having fun. and don;t let anyone disrespect you.

By the way.......Ever thought of a MFM threesome?....and with bisexual guys?.....Ah well just a thought.....LOL