i was 34 before i got my first girlfriend. thats no typo, i was 34! i'm not going into the long detals of that here. let me only say, that the problem was never me. i wanted to have a girlfriends, date, party, play, and just be young. the problem was my parents, espeically my "mother." it does not sound like any of you, are going through what i went through. your all going be just fine.
I haven't had a girlfriend either. Don't know how to talk to a lot of people. Seems they have to be the right type. Else it'll just end up with small-talk, which I am extremely bad at. But I'm not exactly Mr. Handsome anyway so... Well, I don't know. :/ I Tell people I'm just waiting for the right girl, but really I don't know if I believe she exists.
I feel for a lot of guys here, I get anxiety attacks when I'm around people girls especially. Which doesn't really make me that appealing to women.