I'm exactly the same as you JustsayNO, but unfortunately I do not have advice, so just be happy that you aren't alone, brother.
nothing to be ashamed about! i got my first kiss at the age of 18! and im glad. I dont like pubers who date everyone... just wait for the right girl, dont have a girlfriend just to have a girlfriend... and just be yourselfe. dont pretend to be someone else, just to get some attention. she must like you just the way you are!
good point... i dont date every girl i see like my freinds like too. ive only had two girl freinds (actually going out form an amount of time) and one somewhat serious one.
Yeah i've always had this problem. I'm just to scared to get things started up so to say. I can't make a move! Right now i'm talking to this girl that i really like. She obviously likes me because she asked for my number. We went on a date last weekend to go see a movie. All i did was put my arm around her. I feel like a dick because i didn't kiss her. I know if i put it off much longer she will move on, but i just don't know if i can get up the balls to do it. I'm an embarrasment.
I didn't have a gf or kiss till I was 19! My first gf and kiss was freshman year of college 2nd semester. two gfs sophmore year. one currently now for 6 and a half months. It will come bro, 16 is young.
Me too. Never had a real girlfriend either. well when I were a lad back in 1995 or 6, I had this girlfriend called Lisa. Spoke to her nearly everyday but then we both agreed to be friends. :$ :anger:
Well...we're nervous too...sometimes...we wait to see what y'all are gonna do...you gotta play it cool, coz if you are nervous, we are nervous...and we are attracted to confidence...good luck
IMO if you want to find a gf, as many said, be yourself. and remember, you are not going to find out much about anyone until you ask them directly.
i wouldn't worry wbout it. I am sure you are great and any girl will love you Just relax and have fun. thats all us girls want is to have fun.
i'm in the same boat... ive gotten really close with some girls, but never into a real relationship. theres one girl im freinds with, and I now am starting to like her. i was smoking a bowl with her today, and really wanted something to happen, though the major issue is that she has a boyfreind, and is a grade higher than me. well at least her boyfreind hooks her up with tons a weed...
Don't stress it. I'm 18 and I don't have a girlfriend. I'm kind of on the shy-side, so that could definitely be why.
That sucks man, but it's not as good as it seems. My girlfriend dumped me last month, and she said it was because I didnt have a heart. And I said what are you talking about I've never said anything bad to you or hurt you. But she said when I was with her I was exciting and charming (lol charming) but she said as soon as another guy was in the picture or somebody I didn't like she said I was mean and too close minded. But all of her friends that were guys were all emo...I really hate those kids but I think emo chicks are hot lol, well not the goth ones. But you get the picture. But anyways her friends knew who I was and they always acted like they were better than me when they were with all of her friends. It's weird because Im like....Well I dont look like some emo kid, like the rest of her friends. I look more like some gangster guy (rap is shit btw) so I was the outcast of her friends. But I never liked it when she would would be with me and my friends because my friends are....well guys and all they do is smoke pot...Well their all coke fiends now. Oh shit, I just realized something. When I started doing coke thats when my girlfriend dumped me...But know I dont do that shit anymore because It's grimey and it turns people into animals. So this is great, I just realized that coke took my girlfried away from me and they turned my friends into addicts. This is why Im going to a different school next semester where nobody will no me, I can restart and make new friends that dont do hard drugs. lol look what you did you made me ramble on!!! :lol: