Need Some Advice; Feel like shit

well i guess so, but there isnt much i can do about it now....

 

he got what was comming to him

 

I've got to be honest with you and say that, had I been in your situation, I would have blown up at my mother for taking away my cell phone, even before I learned about my girlfriend getting raped. I would have deeply resented my mother continuing to treat me -- a 22-year-old MAN -- as though I were still a BOY (Especially if I was living under my own roof).

I also would have blown up at my mother for not responding to my girlfriend's urgent calls because she kept my cell phone locked up in her safe.

As for the bastard who raped my girlfriend, I'd arrange to have HIM raped -- to make him know what it feels like to be violated like that. That, for me, would be the perfect punishment.

-- Skeeter

 

Ok, my mom was with me in Chicago, and my phone was back home in Madison, so there was no one to answer it. And as far as her actually taking it, I kind of understand, since the point of the trip was to be away from distractions of the world and stuff, which my cellphone totally is.

Also, I am only 19, not 22, maybe the age thing is wrong...but this coming year at college, i have my own house with some buddies, so that wont be a problem. Infact, I am moving out in like a month or so, when I find a job up there...

My only problem with all of these things people are saying is that befor i said i beat him up, most people were like "oh, I would have him killed", and now everyone is like "oh, you should go to jail too".....I dont know about you all :/ (well, most people, not everyone)

 

RE: I understand your rager but you should have left this to the cops.

Uh huh. Who would have done what, exactly?

If he complains to the cops about getting beaten up, press rape charges and make sure those in his block knows what happened.

Hell, make sure EVERYONE knows what happened.

 

yes, if he complains to the cops they should press rape charges. and he should press assault charges. and they should all go to jail for being jackasses and having no respect for the law.

and for the record, i don't honestly know what i would have done in your situation. i tell myself that hey, i'm a pacifist, and i have faith in the justice system, so i would do the right thing and bring him up on charges. but i've always had a terrible temper, and might react violently. however, i would never bitch about the repercussions of my actions, because those actions would have been wrong. as are yours.

 

i don't have any faith in the "justice" system.

 

#1. He wont complain to cops if he committed rape, and you know it. Youd have to be an idiot to rape someone, then press assault charges on that person and her bf on beating him for it.

#2.Unless you called the cops right when it happened, I doubt they would do much(in my expierience anyways, mostly involving people attempting to stab me, pull out weapons like swords on me and my friends n stuff...u know, crazy hillbilly edmonton stuff )

I dunno, if someone raped my girl id say fuck cops and get rid of that asshole. He can go to jail for rape, but hell end up comin back out newayz.

 

Sorry you had to go through this Rosesarefree, same thing happened to me a few years ago and if I'd had the chance I would have reacted the same way you did.

Anybody in here who hasn't been through this should shut the hell up about it because YOU-DON'T-KNOW!! (sanctamonious assholes).

I'm glad your girlfriend got a chance to take back some of what this sicko stole from her.

Mine never did. What she did do was get into drugs, start sleeping around with anybody who'd have her, and basically threw what was left of her life away.

What I did was follow her around for months watching all this and feeling like a worthless piece of crap and like I'd failed her because I coldn't save her from what happened or from what she was doing to herself.

Hope everything turns out alright for both of you bro.