I am sure your kids will get a grant, I am getting the TAP thing now as well as FAFSA, ofcourse although for the first 2 years of my college I had to pay everything by myself, there was no help from anybody because I was on a visa and considered "foreign" student, still that wasn't so bad, you get around the money issues somehow.
As a naturist, I have no problem with male or female nudity, and what people do with that nudity is their business. It does sadden me that the nude body (male or female) as become to be associated as a sexual object instead of the complex miracle that it is. The body is not just about sex, and sex is not just about bodies. I love my body, clothed or unclothed. It is not "dirty", it is beautiful. I am not ashamed of it.
to paraphrase what a friend of mine said recently What's wrong with a naked body being sexual, or sexually arousing? (not a direct question to you, but the post that spawned this thought of mine)