On the contrast I've dated women that made me feel like all they cared about was the milk that came out of my penis... hold onto these ones tightly! Lol
I'll always give my guy BJs even when we are old haha. I started off just doing it cuz they liked it. Later I got a kick out of how much they liked it. Now i actually like the feeling of my BFs cock just sliding in and out. The feeling of him touching the back of my throat. And the warm hot sticky feeling of him cumming and pulsing in my mouth haha
I don't think the topic is true for all women. I've been with women who actually couldn't get enough of giving head! They absolutely loved doing it And had no issues whatsoever. Does a lot for morale when you're getting slurped on properly!
It is true for many that after you marry, oral sex stops or slows down. When I first got married, oral sex was a normal part of foreplay. My wife would make me cum that way and then we made out and when I was ready we had intercourse. Now a blow job is a special occasion thing.
My wife didn't like to give bj's for a long time, only because a guy she dated in college forced her to take his cock in her mouth and then filled her mouth with cum. She almost threw up and never went out with the guy again. Thank goodness, one of the "girls" she worked with convinced her that it could be exciting. We started gradually, and now she enjoys giving me a bj. Thanks to her friend and no thanks to the jerk in college.
If the purpose of the BJ is to get the guy off then I'm all in. I'll give him 110% until he explodes. But as foreplay, and I know I have said this before, I get bored really, really quickly...and I know most women do. Five minutes is great! Fifteen minutes is FOREVER! I can't speak for every guy, but every guy that I have been with would rather move onto other things rather than to be sucked on for 15 minutes.