My Wife Masturbates. Does Your?

As I have said before. Masturbation is “healthy” and should not be hidden from each other. It should be encouraged by both. Give each other some space and acceptance.

 

it certainly looks like a lot of women past menopause have issues with this. If they can safely use hormone replacement therapy, I'd suggest it...when I had hot flashes morning noon and night for two years, I was just sick of it and did that. So my vagina seems to work fairly well and I can masturbate. It's slower than it used to be. But these storeis of sexless marriages are terrible. If I had a willing healthy partner, I'd do anything to keep that magic alive. I don't know why these women just drop sex. It's so wonderful to give and receive. And it's not like this stuff costs a fortune if you have any kind of health insurance. About as much as birth control. Also there are some antidepressants that kill sex drivecompletely! Zoloft. I would rather be depressed and have great orgasms. Exercise kills a lot of depression. I stopped taking those fuckers and my sex drive came back and I never looked back on that. Walk and bike and have orgasms!

 

see a doctor and get the help you need. no reason to have sexless marriage...you'll both be happier

 

you gotta talk to her and get her to go.. suffering is ridicuous..

 

We both do sometimes laying next to each other. Then we will make love or make love one round then pay ourselves

 

I have never seen her and based on what she tells me she thinks it's wrong to do it. Kind of strange - she was OK with lots of pre-marriage sex but no masterbation?

 

Yes, she does when we are together and while having sex. She will also do a hand job for me if she is too tired for a penetrative sex. I am not sure whether she masturbates on her own in my absence. Probably she does not indulge, after marriage, because whenever I am around we have regular sex. We never felt that masturbation is wrong at all. It is another way of releasing your sexual tension.

 

people have all kinds of taboos... dunno what you might suggest about this one... counseling from third party about the normalness of it and the non dirtiness of it... this sounds very sad to me... masturbation hurts no one... and is a great pleasure. I'd try to work this out... if possible..

 

I have never understood why there has always been such an issue with masturbation, people don’t have an issue with premarital sex, or having babies by multiple partners, but touching your own genitals is a sin.

 

That is so awesome that you are so open with each other about that. My xwife would never tell me that, she would get all freaked out if I mentioned it.

 

Maybe at some point in your ex wife's life, she was shamed for it, or taught that it's a bad thing, and thus she was embarrassed to share it with you. That could be?

 

I have wondered about that, that could be a real possibility, I would have loved to experiment with her sexually, but it was Piv and oral, she had been married before, had an affair. Had an affair on me. I always felt she was pretending to be something she wasn’t

 

Some people were told as a kid. They would go blind, if they masturbate. But I'm sure many people would not admit to it. But I bet more women do than don't. I know mine does. And when she was younger, she did it 2-3 times a day. Not every day, but after her period ended, she was very horny.

 

Towards the end of our marriage she actually started to masturbate in bed at night, although I never saw her do it, she was careful to make sure I didn’t see her, and she would never say a word about it. Hearing her do that, I did the same thing I was open and obvious in what I was doing so Iam sure she saw me during that time I was masturbating quite a lot as well in bed at night and I would do it in the shower with the door open so she could see. All this took place with in a year before she left. Prior to that she never masturbated in bed next to me. She may have done it if she was home alone but never if I was home

 

Shit I'll risk one eye or stop when I need glasses.

C/S,
Rev J

 

Mine does and sometime sent me the pics too.She was enter into 40 and getting more lighten up than when she was younger age.

 

Mine does, she doesn’t share it with me very often. I can usually tell when her toys are not in the same position as I last seen them.

 

We do it together all the time. The hottest !

 

Yes she does

 

I know mine does ive seen her doing a few times. She doesent know i did though. Plus have seen the porn sites on her phone. Wish she would feel comfortable sharing with me