What makes you think she has some serious issues? So far, all we know about her, is that she's "gothic", depressed sometimes, and *may* harm herself if he breaks up with her. If anyone needs some help it's this "hippie".
soulrebel51 is totally right. You're an ass and you should be slapped the way you slap labels on other people. you didn't know she was like this before you started dating her? can't say I feel sorry for your dumbass.
I re read the post and I have to agree. Did this girl all of a sudden just change on you or......are we just not getting the whole story.
Chuck...i love your outspoken-ness...you are really one of the only ones to give it straight with no BS...
chuckita is the best, isn't he? anyway, loser, get over it. why are you going to break up with her? is it becasue you don't like her or is it because you don't like that she's a goth? if it's the latter, i would think that you don't deserve a girlfriend of any type until you get your head out of your ass. if it's the former, then just do it already. if you think she's unstable enough that she would kill herself over you, then maybe it's one of 2 things: a) you have deluded notions of the depth of your highschool relationship. b) she need the kind of help that you can't give her.
from what I can tell, theres 3 types of gothic people 1. People who just wear black a lot cause they like the color. Id say im in this category. I wear black everyday and have black nails and makeup, but its not like the makeup is over done. Only eyeliner and mascara. 2. Depressed Gothic people. These are the ones I hate. They think being depressed is so fucking cool and actually have it good. Unless theyre actually depressed all the time, they need to shut up. 3. Gothic people who think they are vampires. I know 2 of them. Theyre fucked up. Need to get it through their head that vampires arent real and that if they keep sucking peiopels blood theyll get aids and die. Once again though, its just a bullshit stereotype. Thats like saying all stoners are hippies. Obviously not true.
Speaking as a Goth we are all not depressed or wear all black. Granted I have an interest in some things that may be considered macabre, But that is what it is an interest. Just like I like Goth like music, poetry and art. SOOOOOO don't stereotype. I don't assume all Hippies are pot smoking people who don't bath and only wear tie dyed. I know that's not true!
Stop trying to define yourself through some cliche. I think everything thats needed to be said has been said... Of course, if shes listening to Marilyn Manson, its time to interfere. Stop looking at your girlfriend as a label and try enjoying her company... shes probably going through a phase, and so are you, it doesn't matter. Stop trying to define yourself as a label too. Look at her as an individual, and you'll have a much more fulfilling relationship.
as in only black people are in gangbangs. I dont know, hes just like that and is all, fuck it im gonna be the only one fucking the girl, unless theres another one.
your friend..... how old is he? hmm, he seems a bit on the ignorant side. you should stray away from that quality quick before it becomes you.