My G/f moved in with her F/B

Honestly, I don't see anything wrong with this as long as you are ok with it. Fuck what everybody thinks. I too personally think it is fucking hot to see my girlfriend get fucked by an other guy, in fact I have shared her with my friends before. So whatever, as long as you are cool with it and so is she. I have two questions though. What does the guy she is living with think about this arangement? Also, are you fucking any other girls? If so, then more fucking power to you, you have the best kind of relationship.

 

He thinks we're taking a break for now but he knows she's with me cuz she spent most of the week here with me, slept over the weekend and we're always on the phone. Telling him that we're together when the chance arises.

At the moment I'm not fucking any other girls, Full time college student and full time job + plus part time computer tech kinda get in the way. I'm sure in the near future I will be though, I'm kinda wanting a 3some with my girl and another girl though

So are you still with the girl you have shared with your friends? If so has she read this thread?

 

i cant delete anything, im not a mod, just informing you as to the rules. iirc, the mod for here hasnt been around a ton lately due to personal life issues and cant be here all the time, nor read every post. the report bad post button is for us to help mods, rather than being annoyed by their lack fo presence

 

how long have you been in this relationship?

 

"So are you still with the girl you have shared with your friends? If so has she read this thread?"


Yeah, she is still my girlfriend but no she hasn't read this thread. When she gets home from work I will show her it and let her write a response.

 

Confissledon, im sorry for whoever fucking raised your ass. DAMN, someoen is very resposible for fucking you up cuz damn, your way of thinking is not only fucking stupid, but damn, GOOD LUCK in life man

 

ok dude i had my girl read the thread and this is her response.


What are you getting out of this relationship? Why would you WANT for YOUR girlfriend to do this? Her fucking other guys in front of you is one thing, but her doing it when you are not there is just cheating.
I think, in the future, her relationships will be fucked up because not every guy is going to allow her to do this to them, and she will just think that that is how a relationship should be.
I wouldn't really call her your girlfriend if she lives with another guy. Like so many people said before, it sounds like she is his girlfriend and you are the fuck buddy. But whatever, if your cool with this situation, then that's good. Just do whatever makes you happy.

 

Read post #1, wtf does this have to do with the way I was raised??? Its something the girlfriend and I decided to try for shits and giggles. So my way of thinking is not only stupid but what?

You guys need to understand that this is just some temporary experimenting we're doing. You all act like we are married and this is our PERMANENT state.

I understand its not the usual norm or way of average person's living style. Think this is weird? look at that guy that licked his sisters ass for months and now gets to fuck his sisters ass...now THAT is weird but hey some people like it and will do it, in fact some on here cheered him on, so it all depends on the perspective you're looking you.


Trip, tell your girl that, that's a common mistake people make. Cheating is when it's done behind someones back. If its approve and known by the spouse then its NOT. Otherwise...what she did by fuckin your friends is also cheating. Tell her she cheated too.

 

1st off, thanx for admitting this isnt "the norm." Cuz I would classify it more like "the sick!" Ok, lets go with your story for a second. Your girl is off fucking whoever and you're ok with it. Months go by and then you notice warts all over your dick. Then you look at her pussy and notice warts all over her pussy. Ohh shit, she got herpes. WOULD YOU BLAME HER FOR GIVING YOU HERPES? If you would (and im sure you would) your an idiot! What if you go to the store and this guy behind you in the checkout line is telling his buddy how he fucked this girl and it was good...and it turned out to be your girl. Wouldn't you feel a little shame and pathetic? I would. I would look at that as weak and funny.

 

i don't have any problem with what you and your gf are doing as long as you both really want it that way...and neither of you is pressuring or exploiting the other...EXCEPT the fact that she is apparently not being honest with the other guy about the nature of your relationship. i think people should be honest about these things.

 

Well, dude... We're NOT stupid when it comes to STDs awareness and prevention. She wont go bareback with her guys unless she's knows for a fact he got tested and is recent along with proof which means she went with him to the clinic and both got tested. As for the store example and us running into guys that have had my girlfriend in bed...I dont mind, its happened a few times and I dont mind her (us) going over and talking.

OH and for the record since you seem to be very knowledgeable about STDs, Warts and Herpes are two different things...


Lady of the Freaks, usually her FBs know she's with me in a relationship and KNOW that we're swingers. I'm cool with all her guy friends and talk/chat with them just like normal buddies. Only difference is that I met em through them having my girlfriend. She and I spent the whole weekend together and came to decision that she's gonna tell him everything tomorrow or soon this week. As for the rest, both the girlfriend and I are comfortable with her dating or having FBs, no one feels pushed nor ignored. Its what we both want and we're both happy.

 

Hey guys, I know this was a bit of a crazy thread for most of you but I thought I'd update the thread. I completely forgot I posted this here until I decided to come back and check it out by looking at my posting history.

Alright my girlfriend (or fuck buddy back in 12/2007) dated her boyfriend and lived with him for about 2 months after I posted this thread. What most of you said about her being his girlfriend and not mine was 100% correct, during the time they lived together they were official boyfriend and girlfriend in public and among all of our friends.

They broke up and he moved out but she kept the apartment until this past Spring which is when she moved out. She still tells me she wishes she had her apartment back from time to time. From 12/07 to 04/09 she had lots of fun that she couldn't have at home. She lived alone for most of that period with the exception that one of her friend's/fuckbuddy also moved in with her for a few months until he got his own place.

Having had my girlfriend involved with other men as in dating, living together, and sleeping with them did not [does not] affect our relationship in anyway and in fact it made it stronger by making our bond stronger after her other relationships end her love is always stronger for me. After nearly being together for 8 years, this kind of stuff doesn't hurt our relationship but rather it just makes it stronger thanks to our excellent communication and honesty.

 

This is where you FAIL.

I have fucked my girlfriend EVERYDAY 4 times a day except weekends (moms off from work) for the past 5 YEARS.

 

lol wait what? I failed because I didn't fuck her on the weekends?

 

I think its great that you and your gf have worked this out. Im sure it makes your sex lives very intense. Very scary for most I think. Congrats

 

Thank you sir, however there was nothing to be worked out as it was all planned and there was nothing wrong with the relationship. Her relationship with her F/B only lasted 1-2 months anyway.

 

No, I meant have it worked out in that you both are totally on the same wavelength and have the maturity to really enjoy each others sexuality. I really see it as an evolved type of relationship.

 

You are really deluded if after all that, you still think of her as your "girlfriend". She is not your girlfriend, just a regular old slut. I'm gonna love reading the update when she gets pregnant by one of her many lovers and expects you to support the kid for her.

 

I actually think you're slightly delusional. I sound really rude for saying it, but you don't even have an open relationship. It's beyond that, you're just a fool who's happy to be walked all over. It's not even a polyamorous relationship, you're just hanging on for the sake of being able to call her your "girlfriend". Move on, find a new woman- One that actually respects your relationship and doesn't allow you to think you have one when you don't. It's a pathetic excuse for a relationship. Grow some balls.

 

She still is my girlfriend, after all, I did suggest her doing a lot of what happened, it floats my boat that she does what she does. She's on birth control and doesn't just let any random guy take her to bed, she's not a one night stand type girl, she has to know the guy and be friends with him and has to feel some sort of sexual spark before even considering doing anything. When she does decide to do something she just doesnt go bareback [right away at least] until there's STD/STI testing. We may have a crazy relationship but we're not ignorant.

Perhaps you should read my original thread posted in 2004 when I was still confused why I wanted what I wanted. She has been my girlfriend since we were 15, she lost her virginity to me, I do have some balls, big ones at that. http://www.hipforums.com/newforums/showthread.php?t=36877&f=13

If that's what it looks like, then apparently I very much so enjoy being walked all over. I originally was the one who had a fantasy of [seeing] my girlfriend sleeping with other guys in 2004 when we were both high school seniors at 17..she was hesistant and took her a long time to determine that I was being serious and it was not a test of loyalty. She was opposed to it for a while until she gave it a shot. She doesnt always go out, its something that happens maybe once or twice every 2-3 months or so.

When this thread was originally posted it was because this was a whole new level for us... to take it that far but in no way was it intended for her to leave me [which she didn't], it was just a whole new dimension of allowing her to be with others with more privacy and discretion by her actually living with her lover.

Thanks for your opinions nonetheless