my first time....

Do you all test.shit out in front of each other?

 

lol No. Not anything penetrative, at least.

 

So, some shit you do?

 

They typically sell different kinds of lubes (which people will put on their fingers, or some may be flavored and people will taste them, for example), floggers or whips (some might try light swatting with them), someone might try on a harness (over clothing), and so forth. It's not just vibes and dildos they sell.

 

I think you're lying. Either that, or you sure weren't paying much attention.

Yeah, well, clearly you don't need any help with that. You do quite well on your own.

 

You girls should start filming these things, or setup a web cam. You would make bank.

 

I'd be surprised if there wasn't a video or two on YouTube. At least parts of one. The whole point, though, is to be able to look at, feel, and play with some of the toys in the privacy of someone's home, without the male gaze and others watching. The privacy factor is one of the selling points of the whole deal.

 

I have taken my g.f. in to a couple of adult stores , she does not like to stay long she says they embarse her , make her feel funny .

 

I think that funny feeling is 'arousal'.

But seriously, some adult stores are gross. So depending on which one she has been in it could be understandable.

 

The two I remember were in Phoenix , they were nice , clean stores . To her it was more the idea . Seeing dildos , other toys and lots of dvds , and mag.s The last one had a video showing 2 people using this triangular pillow , they had for sale .

 

i've been to adult stores a few times back in the day. not for sex stuff, but that's where you got whippets.

it's like when guys get together and compare hands.

 

I've been to a couple. Back in college, there was a sex shop called Sex World (I know, it's quite imaginative) that everybody HAD to visit to get a picture of themselves riding the giant dildo. Anyhow, this place was huge. It was fun to giggle about.

I've never been to a passion party, but I did just get invited a bow party, as in girl's hair bows. Whoop whoop.

 

Ohhhh...aaaahhhhhhh....a hair bow party!! You will all have to compare the size and function of your bows....how naughty!!! Hahaha. They certainly throw parties for everything now don't they???

 

At the end of both parties I went to, the rep took her inventory into another room and you could go in one at a time and buy in secret and she'd pack them in brown bags and send you on your way. The first party, we all went in separately. Second party, no one was really shy, so we kind of all piled in together.

And to answer others' questions, vibrators do not wander between the legs at these parties. The lady tells you a little about them and passes them around. They had us touch the tips of our noses to get an idea of how it would feel elsewhere. They have you use one arm to test the stuff that's edible and one arm to test all the lubes and junk that's not edible. The parties are not anything that would entertain a guy. They're just groups of silly giggling adult females passing around fake dicks. The most "trying" of anything that happened was two of the girls took some lip balm that's tingly and stuck their hands down their pants and then spent the rest of the evening squirming. And one of the girls was an ex meth with meth mouth like crazy, so it wasn't really hot.

I had a lot of fun at both of the ones I went to, but you have to have the right types of people around. And alcohol helps, too.

 

You realize those two sentences contradict each other, right?

 

I was thinking the exact same thing. This IS exactly the reason why guys would want to attend (aside from the hope that it will accidentally turn into a full on demonstration)...

 

I went in with a friend once. Man, he was itching for some porn, looking through all these bins for bargain pornography. We've been friends for a long time so there really wasn't a lot for us to say. It's kind of funny to see an old friend like that, where you knew them in high school before they ever had sex.

 

Going to the adult store is no big deal, really. It's entertaining and funny.

However, I did have a strange visit with my husband and next door neighbors. They wanted to go find a "titty cake pan" and other party items for someone's 40th birthday party. Okay, sure we will go and make an outing of it. It'll be fun.

We didn't know the couple well because they had recently moved in but they were a nice couple. She was about 20 years younger than him. She was born in Barbados and he was from South Carolina.

I think we went to eat somewhere before the sex toy store...Anyway, things were going well, we had some laughs between the 4 of us. We split up and let them go looking on their own after she asked us where to find the beastiality videos...Lol, it was awkward. I just told her "I guess they are upstairs with the other videos, y'all go ahead."

 

My last gf and I bought one of those. It was fucking awesome!

 

Same here! we got the one with the remote. The remote can be a little buggy but its awesome anyway.