My best friend ignores me

just look at all of your responses here- they're overly polite, even when people are sarcastic or insulting.

be assertive, or even aggressive sometimes. a fuck off would be good. something. it would help. then look at how you're dealing with this woman who treats you like shit, and think about the words you use. your tone, your willingness to take it, all that

seriously. man up dude

 

I think u like the way she treats u I think u have some kind of fetish for it and u need to just accept that and deal with it.

I think crying in front of people is disguting. I rarely allow myself to cry and if I just can't help myself I do it in privte. It's like taking a shit.

 

^ I think crying in front of people is fine... if someone has died or you're watching a very sad film.

 

Crying can be acceptable, and it's a naturally healthy thing.... it's essentially taking an emotional shit. It relieves emotional pressure and gives you a chance, (wether or not you take it is a different matter) to begin rationally processing an emotional hurt or problem.

But OP did exactly the wrong thing. There where two ways to break, if it was inevitable: one was to give in and beg for that worthless bitch's forgiveness, and the other was to bid her good riddance. Op chose the wrong one.

Not only is she a bad person and not his friend, he's a bad person, for enabling it.

 

Crying is fine if the situation warrants it.

Being a wimp super often is not though.

Dark sugar is wrong in that regard.

But she's onto something about you subconsciously clinging to your situation for comfort, which is what I think you like specifically...the illusion of security, but I disagree that you like your overall situation.

Perhaps you like dominant female partners.

That's cool and all but find another dominant situation that isn't abusive.

I wouldn't say he's a bad person necessarily, but he made a bad choice.

 

Meh it's never ok to cry and given the reasons u guys said then still his crying is unacceptable. It's suger

 

7 pages? You think he'll get the message after another 7?
Lets have a testicle check and see if he's grown any yet.

 

He's about 50, he should have got the fucking message years ago.

Get a hooker, get laid, just do something.
Lick some feet or something, you might like it.
Just do something that isn't anything to do with thinking/talking/paying for some chick that doesn't dig you and never will. It's a harsh truth. You wanted advice, fucking take it. I know you aren't a troll, but god damn, you need to seriously reassess your life and what you want (NOT her) and move on man, you'll be happier for it, you won't be lonely anymore. Go out...

 

how do you know? he did create his account solely for the purpose of making and posting in one single over-the-top thread wherein he basically refuses to take any advice offered to him.

i don't know that he is a troll, but really all signs point to that being the case.

 

Feel bad for the dude but it seems like he needs help beyond a forum... his post sounds like a cry for help to me, mixed with a strange fetish and what is likely some kind of mental health disorder... It was annoying me that he wasnt listening or following good advice so I checked his name in google and the results made me think hes not a troll, he really does need the help...

 

I Googled him to MaMaP. The guys posted the same thing on at least 2 other boards and has Vids posted on You Tube. And mySpace, Facebook and twitter. I think hes shooting for Viral Status.

 

Either way, it's sad.

 

He's got to be taking the piss with that photo!!! I think there's a football inside the shirt

 

Where? Post the videos.. I couldn't find them!

 

Awwww he looks like he has problems with his mind that's why he's so unbearably attached.

 

Hes everywhere under the same name, i would feel too mean to post videos or links, he is human afterall, i just think the poor dude needs some help

 

Whether he's a troll or real, I feel provoked to feel something that he doesn't actually feel himself.

 

Shame?

 

for what it's worth, one google result says he's 53, one says 54.

But seeing them, there doesn't seem to be any clear trolling plan or audience. I'm inclined to think he's real, unfortionatly.

 

aww I was hoping it was gonna be trolling.

OP, you sound very very submissive. Have you considered finding a dominatrix? Maybe a woman who even looks like the girl who always abuses you? Maybe it could help get you off and get your mind away from this girl who is causing you real life problems. Maybe it could take your mind out of a real world sickness and put it into a fantasy?