Men are a waste of time.....

lookin pretty?

 

Yes, among other things....
My second post was a joke actually, but I was completely serious in the first.

 

Alot of women can actually talk common sense when its about what they want from a man.

The problem is that too many ( brainless)women listen to "opinion formers" who are just shaven headed man-haters, poofs or misfits.

Their ideal "man" would be fashion fairy Gok Wan.
(who's name, strangely has a very appropriate anagram).

 

I hate how most guys are smart, competent, charismatic, etc.. but just do nothing with themselves. like the whole 'fuck it' attitude. I keep trying to tell all of my guy friends that they should stay in college so they're not making $8/hour for the rest of their lives... but 'fuck it'. beer, pot, xanax, heroin, call of duty, final fantasy... are all obviously more important than getting an eduation.

 

It's my floor. I can do what I want with it. Mind your own business.

 

It's my life, nagger. Butt off and mind your own business. And no, I haven't nagged a day in my life. I leave people alone, mang! I'm not a judgmental person.

 

better be paying my bills homey.

 

Oh hell no! You'll be living under a bridge in no time. :cheers2:

 

Exactly.I paid for it.If u don't like it, get a divorce:cheers2:

 

If a guy wants his socks picked up and me not to nag, there needs to be a trade off.
I don't get mad when I pick Andy's shit up, because it's better than spending 8 hours in an office. It's a trade off.
Personally, i think men are meant to men and women meant to be women and if things are kept that way fighting and nagging are almost non-existent. Men being the provider and protector takes away my nagging because I feel grateful that I am on the computer drinking a latte while Andy is at work. If I have to put his birkenstocks in his room, who really cares?
I didn't feel this way when I worked full-time and we fought all the time. This works out well for us. i am just saying, men shouldn't expect the best of both worlds. If you want tradition, ice me up baby.

 

I don't nag on anyone and tell them what to do. I just observe their behavior, and then when a tread like this comes up, I have an opinion to share.

 

I don't want my socks picked up, is the thing. MY socks, YOUR socks. There's a difference. Do what you want with YOURS and leave MINE on the floor for when and if I feel like picking them up. Thank you very much.

I HATE women cleaning after me. It's the most claustrophobic/creepy feeling in the world. I can clean for myself. I don't need a stalker.

 

I had women fucking round with cupboards and shit without my permission.
( permission I wouldn't grant em anyway).

 

I like to write all of it down and then recall it in the heat of a fight so I can be right. j/k...but I'd be lying if I said the thought never crossed my mind .

 

Cherea and Resso, have you guys ever been in love, like really deep love where you want to spend the rest of your life with someone and share everything?

 

Our definition of love is already different from the start. To me, if EVERYTHING is shared, it's co-dependency, not love. People need personal space...or at least I do.

And also, love has nothing to do with predicting the future. It's the commitment to NOW.

 

One think I *do* like about women is in an argument.
If I nod my head, agree and give em a thumbs up gesture... they go mad, but don't know what to do, other than maybe laugh.

I remember doing it with the Headteacher in school.She was an utter arsehole, kids were terrified of her.But started crying when I'd smile and "agree"...

 

1st bold bit-definitely, several times.Best times ever by far.

2nd bold - not as a couple ( but certainly as closest friends)unless we cure the horrible disease that is called ageing.

3rd-if they just want 50% of material things then no.Beyond a certain certain level, I don't think material things should be that important.

Sharing everything else?Erm yes.Tho' I think there'd be separate time and stuff.I'm not sure on the question.

PS In case I read that wrong , me and CHerea have never been in love with each other......!!!

 

Sounds like we do have very different definitions.

 

That was clever and hillarious!
I think the reason i am not so big on space, is because we have it. We spend a lot of time apart, have seperate bedrooms and bathrooms and have very sperate hobbies.
Out lifestyle and Andy's job really keeps both of us from feeling crowded so it's never an issue. If we were holed up in an apartment, I think I would have huge personal space issues.