Medics want obesity warnings on clothing...

i never forget when someone is mean to me. i never forget when someone is nice to me. and when i'm back to my healthy weight and freaking gorgeous as hell, guess who i give the time of day to?

 

oooh ooh me! Pick me! Give me the time of day!
Cuz I think you're fucking -gorgeous- no matter what your weight may happen to be.

 

hahaaaa I agree. I was going out with a guy of and on for two years who said 'it bothers me that you are heavy, I feel like you are bigger than me'. I had broken my arm and put on some weight from having to stay inactive and he saw me a month after I got the cast off...of course I was gona be a fat ass.

Anywho when we got back together last spring and i lost a shit load of weight from mono (which has almost all come back now ): ) I kept that comment in the back of my head and treated him like shit because I couldn't let go of it (this was subconcious, I am not that horrible where I would purposefully demean somone to try and get back at them).
But when all is said and done I think an easier solution to deal with his insecurities would be for him to get in some sort of okay shape (he NEVER worked out and it showed) instead of taking out his insecurities on me. He was a fat fattest-which is the worst type of fattest.

 

you're lucky ): My face is the first place I gain weight ): I can't hide it man

 

well, i got fat as a youngster. i caught a lot of hell for it from the boys and girls. especially the boys. round about my senior year in high school, i got my migraines sorted out and fear of men over and done with. i dropped 30 pounds. suddenly i'm popular? i don't fucking think so. boys who used to mock me while secretly trying to grope me were suddenly trying to get into my pants the most obvious way. fuck that shit. i stuck with the poeple who were always good to me. i stayed thin right up until my frist bout of bedrest. i wore this black dress to a banquet with my husband, and guys stopping by my office to see the girl who wore that dress. any time a crew would have to come by my office to pic up supplies, ALL of them would come it. i know what i look like thin. hell, even big i'm still popular and i know it. except with those men who like women rail-thin. that's fine, that's their type. i'm not attracted to absolutely everyone either. but i'm not mean, demeaning or derogatory to anyone.

 

Thought I saw more than your face in your gallery. Anyhow you look great. Not unhealthy looking to me.

 

I was really skinny as a kid and tall and thin as a teenager. I could eat whatever I wanted until I got the depo shot and my body changed when I was about 20. People from high school are suprisingly really nice and don't treat me any different. I've dated most of my boyfriends from high school since I put on weight and they still like me for me.

I only got that one bad reaction from that one bad boyfriend, who I couldn't really be fun or funny with without intimidating him so he didn't know my personality like most people I date do. Everyone else has been so supportive both when I accepted it when I was heavy and when I decided I wanted to lose it.
Right now my goal is to run a 5k in April and a half marathon in August. People have just been so nice and complmentary. I am shocked because as you know there are so many thin and perfect looking girls down here. I always thought before that damn shot that having even a pound of extra weight would be the worst thing in the world, but when I gained 40 pounds in two months and went from a 4 to a 16 (luckily a lot of it came off when the shot wore off) people acted like they didn't notice.
It's annoying now though because I want to lose it and want to do it fast and it's not coming off fast enough for me!

 

man i wish i looked like you...no kidding..i wish my bosy was that pretty...and i would give anyting to be a size 16...not my 22 on a 5 foot tall frame.