Masturbating in bed next to my wife

Wow, sometimes I don’t get hard, my wife puts some coconut oil on my cock and I Jack off a limp cock while she sucks and plays with my nipples .

 

I’ve done it several times, particularly with ex my LT GF and my ex wife..mutual masturbation. More times than not it evolved in to full on sex.
Current wife claims to have NEVER indulged in self gratification, probably due to her religious upbringing, especially her mom. Her dad had a large box full of old Playboys we found when cleaning out their house….go figure. What did she think he used them for…..the articles?
But I digress. A few times when we were first living together/married she would lay next to me for the intention of watching me JO and cum. She seemed to enjoy it. Then no more! A few times in bed she’s asleep and I can’t help myself and started stroking. Inevitably she’d wake up and catch me. At times eons ago she would tell me to stop, and f*ck her. GREAT! Then it was just STOP, without the offer of sex. The most I do any more is just pull and squeeze while she’s asleep….nothing too obvious, Don’t want to wake Captain Evil. Nowadays she views masturbation as a mortal sin. This from a woman whom I considered my sexual soulmate. Kinky and always horny. Now NADA for years. I’m sure she assumes I do it when she’s not around, but we don’t about it. A couple years ago I started sleeping on the couch in my office and I had a small jar of Vaseline and what I thought was an old towel tucked between the cushions. This was my relief when needed. She nosed around there one day and found them, and pitched a holy fit! “I don’t want a towel with your JUNK on it going in with the other towel laundry”! END OF STORY! ;(

 

Did that this morning. Woke up because my dick was nice and hard and I didn't hesitate to strip my underwear off and stroke my dick with her lying next to me until I busted a rather nice nut. And cleanup was easy since I use disposable "towels" that I can toss in my wastepaper basket - then empty into the main trash but I really don't care if she knows that I jerk off and any complaints she might have will fall on deaf ears.

 

Omg this has happened a few times in our house, hubby wakes me up stoking his cock and it always leads to us having really great sex

 

if i knew this was something you did i would find it super hot, if i caught you and you hadnt told me, i think id still like it but not all women would. does your wife know about it?

 

Like most guys, I’ve had thoughts about sex that just wouldn’t allow me to get to sleep. Stroking till I cum is the best sleep aid! And yes, the wife is next to me and has done the same to help w getting to sleep.

A fun variation…
I’m an early riser (pun intended) as opposed to my wife who likes to sleep late. I was feeling the need once while she was sleeping and wanted something different. I stripped done, eased myself on top of the covers and started wanking away while I looked at her face. In a weird way it was fun to cum when she could easily wake and see it.
(Weird in that we have intentionally watched each other masturbate…but somehow this was different)

 

If the moment requires a quick tug then why not. Embarrassingly for me, I was caught out a year or so ago when I woke up during the night and needed relief. I pulled a sock out of my drawer and slipped it over my cock. A few glorious strokes later I was emptying my sacks, and filling the sock. Tossing it to the side of the bed I went back to sleep.

I usually make the bed in our house but on this occasion the wife got there first while I was shaving.

The wife shouted out to me and as I walked into the room, she was standing with an angry face holding the sock up with the tips of her fingers.

“I found your wank sock” She wasn’t best pleased…..‍♂️

I never knew my wife knew the terminology, ‘wank sock’ from her mouth is so erotic ……

 

I masturbate regularly and openly next to my partner. We have a great sex life and sometimes it leads to sex, sometimes we masturbate together, and sometimes I just do my thing while she rests or is sleeping.

A few nights back I had been eating her asshole for a good long while, eventually my neck needed a break, so I switched to fingering her asshole while I stroked my cock. She was like what are you doing over there? I said stroking my cock while I finger your asshole. She just moaned and wiggled her butt a bit as I carried on.

 

My wife was asleep beside me wearing black lace lingerie and panties this morning. I masterbate to her often, she encourages me by spreading her legs and showing panties. I love fantasizing about her masterbating in shower before work or imagine her daughter in shower. Her daughter is my go to fantasy girl.
Anyway I txt wife at work and tell her I'm still stroking looking at video of her and sniffing her panties she took off this morning.
I fantasize about her coming in and catching me masterbating to her.
I'm about to cum so I'm going to stroke with both hands

 

I do this fairly often! And she knows it. Not sure why, but it makes for some powerful gasms! We have different schedules. I stay up late. She gets up early. So not uncommon for me to get in bed when she is already sound asleep. If I am REALLY horny and my hand just won't cut it, I'll gently wake her up by rubbing her butt or her boobs. Sometimes she'll respond by waking up and we get busy. Sometimes she just says "have some fun by yourself, but I'm too tired" and then she's back asleep in a heartbeat. But a lot of times, I'll just lay next to her and stroke myself to orgasm without waking her. They are always sweet and long lasting and a different kind of deep-soft. Hard to explain, but I do love it!

 

I'm glad that she sleeps like a rock.

 

I've done this many times. It's funny. When we were young and if I was stroking off beside her and she woke up, she would help me take care of it. Mouth, pussy...whatever. As we aged, if she woke up she would watch or tell me to take it to the bathroom. Whe we got even older, I just used the bathroom because she would get mad. Now, she could catch me just thinking about it and still get mad. Fortunately, I have friends who don't quite feel the same and friends here who help with pics!

 

That, I will never understand. We're supposed to be celibate since they have lost their sex drives. Then they'll lament, "oh why oh why would he ever cheat on me...."

 

Masturbated quite often next to my ex-husband, he never mentioned if he knew.

 

You are so lucky guy!

 

What about him? Did he masturbate next to you?

 

I do it nightly next to my husband

 

sadly I doubt it

 

:-(

 

Jacking is always better whilst being held in another's arms.

 

It's been a long lonely dead marriage. Our first step was to agree to both be nude and we would both masturbate. WE set the scene with light porn, heavy stuff turns her off. I masturbated and loved the openness. She did nothing but lie there and watch the screen. We plan to do it some more. Beats the heck out of trying to sneak one off occasionally. It just isn't too fulfilling to me any more. If she's OK with it but never progresses to giving me a hand with it, or a mouth, well, I'm sticking with it. This is the first baby steps toward my being open with my sexuality and that feels damn good. Creepy, someone said? Hell no.
Sometimes it will be candles and mood music but if she lays there like a dead fish, what the hell, I've got to do something.