You may find that once in that situation, the interpersonal and societal aspects can get in the way of the imagined vision. Not to say that you couldn't manage your way through that awkward point and resolve the anxiety. If so, since you own one of those yourself, take your time and remember it's attached to a real person. Basically, your real-life happening may not match your imagination. For some, it works out ok (as others here have noted), but be realistic about expectations.
Very true. Many times I've found that my fantasy of sucking a cock falls short when I meet the person it's attached to.
Smooth, clean and up for it. Sounds like the sort of cock I would like to suck. Haven't had my first but been looking and like looking at cock pics too. I would care if you are a sissy or feminine, I'm more interested in cocks than guys attached to them
A guy who visits for blow jobs has yet to reciprocate, which is fine with me. He was desperate for a blow job, had never let a guy take care of him that way. He pulled his cock out and was surprised when I stripped completely naked. I didn't want semen on my clothes. I tried to take my time but he came pretty fast. I gave him a paper towel and told him to keep his cock out awhile so his pants don't get wet. We sat for several minutes, he watched curious as I stroked myself, still naked of course. He watched me cum all over my chest and belly. He was hard again, ready for round two. I'm curious to see how things develop
Every situation is different. Some guys want to just receive and others just want to give. Some want to make out, have heavy body contact, maybe some ass play and mutually suck. It’s all over the board. Definitely an adventure.
Man these posts have me extremely turned on. I'm in Branson. Been looking for another married guy that likes sucking as much as I do.
This is so true. As a bisexual guy myself, I'm kinda baffled that so many guys would gladly suck dick (or get their dick suck, or bottom (or maybe they're a top), but are totally repulsed by the idea of kissing, making out with, or showing any other kind of real intimacy with another guy. I realize it's usually bi guys who are repulsed by intimacy with another guy, and that most gay guys don't have that "issue" but it's something I guess I'll never understand
It's the intimacy issue. Some consider kissing much more intimate than sexual. I have long wondered why I am able to "make out" with a total stranger only after meeting him minutes before. I have considered this to be an "odd" part of who I am, that I am able to engage in such a personal way. I am an affectionate person by nature, I guess. But... the depth of connecting this way is still superficial, limited and fleeting... this kind of connection with a stranger is not the same as knowing someone, loving them and sharing a meaningful connection with them... I don't have that kind of connection right now and it is a huge hole in my life and in my heart. Meeting someone, having sex with them - whether it is only sucking a dick or kissing them, touching them, full on - does not replace what I need with a "life" partner.
Well said. I agree 100%. The intimacy from my life partner is what I miss and crave. The sex is temporary and then I feel hollow after.
sounds scary to me. You could have masturbated and had a better, or Safer encounter Is this part of the excitement for you?
It was the craving for lust that did it. When it's a female who's hot for it, I've been up her so hard. Now the lust turned out to be only understood and shared by a select few bi curious males and I. We really got into each other's cocks and the headspin of lust was beautiful. I came hard time after time which surprised me. I was surprised at how much I loved having a cock in my mouth as I was being sucked off.
AT 72, it is getting harder and harder to find someone. I guess if I would retire, I would have more free time to play.
I'm afraid if I retire I will find it more difficult to find someone... I have recently experienced that awful feeling of knowing I am older than the rest of the guys in the room and, as a result, I am dismissed or invisible. I think I am in pretty good shape and not bad looking at 67... at least I try to tell myself that to keep my confidence level up, but I see it and hear it repeatedly. Everyone wants the younger guy, and at my age that includes just about everyone.
I’m 73 and retired. There are plenty of guys out there. The hard part is finding guys who can host. I hooked up with a 21 year old a few weeks ago. I was surprised that such a hot young guy would be interested in me but it turned out great.
Wow! That’s quite a journey. I am old now but I wish I had paid more attention to the subtleties going on around me and engaged more fully in a wider range of experiences. Now, there is no intimacy in my life and there hasn’t been since 1992. At the age of 77 I am trying to make up for it and experience a few last minute adventures of things not done. Presently I feel a strong need to be with another man. It is a compulsion that seems to grow in me. I have met a gentleman online using squirt.org and perhaps in the next week or rwo I will have a coffee with a seemingly nice fellow and if things go well for us I may find myself on my knees. Of note here - in the last 30 years of life I have started to feel very inclined (bi?) towards men and when those behaviours were noted by my wife, the fit hit the shan. I abstained to keep peace under our roof but now I want to experience giving pleasure to another man.
Topper and LowHangers, thank you for your stories. I smile and feel vicarious excitement while sitting on the edge of your good fortune and happiness
It’s amazing in my reading how often I hear see this sentiment expressed. There seems much less “maintenance” in a M/M relationship and much more pleasure and enjoyment.
Wait till your 72... haha ahaha ahahah. I did find myself the other day at a video arcade. I sure was trying to be selective... Don't know why. Maybe it was just a vibe... I left after a few minutes. But, I've kind of noticed other guys the same way, as you start toward the door, they start to close... Guess everyone has a fantasy going on in their head. Still can't figure out why I was trying to be selective. Guess, I was in search of someone around my age group. I'm at a loss
"Historically," sex with men has been less complicated than having sex with women. When I had a boyfriend, sex with him was off the rails and it was never a matter of someone not feeling like it or putting it off until later or one of us getting pissy and asking what am I getting out of it - and other things that women are known to do. And we would suck each other with great glee; it wasn't that my wife wouldn't suck me or she wasn't good at it but my boyfriend would suck me off... just for the fun of it where my wife only did it once in a blue moon. When I sucked him, I loved hearing him moaning and begging for mercy and whenever I wanted to suck him, he never said no. I'd guess that, these days, guys are still easier than women are but, perhaps, too selective about who they want to suck or who they want sucking them.