Married men who suck dick...

Married guy here. Been sucking cock every time an opportunity presents itself for the last 10/11 years.
Been with 5 different guys as one time things, usually when I'm away from home for work or meetings. There's one guy that I've seen sort of regularly for years, but it's really only once every 6 months or so.
Wife doesn't have steady work, so she's pretty much always around. We do have a good sex life and , so that's not what got me into this. I have no intention of ever telling her, she would not approve, and not so much about the cheating aspect as how much less of a man she'd see me as.
There's only been a few times in our 20+year long relationship with each other that I've showed weakness/vulnerability, and she does not treat me well. Happy marriage otherwise.
So, I will keep carefully planning my encounters. I really do dream of the day I find a friend who is in a similar situation to me and we can help each other out. I'm sure there's lots of guys out there, I just don't really know how to find them discretely. Currently use double list, but it doesn't yield much success.
Thanks for reading.

 

Silverdaddies is another popular site. I think these things vary a lot by location. Here, Doublelist is really active. Keywords clean and discrete are magnets for married men needing a hot cum injection.

 

What so many married women fail to understand is that their man is wanting to be sexually active long after they have lost the desire be so. An occasional hand-job or blowjob would keep him satisfied and does not require a hell of a lot of effort yet once they lose the desire it is gone forever. This leads their man into encounters that he's OK with, but she would disapprove of. I'm talking about allowing another man to suck his cock which most times leads to him sucking his cock as well. They provided each other what they were needing and wanting. They still love their wives, but they found an alternative and are totally OK with it.

 

They do understand; some are too much into their own head about losing their desire for sex to be worried about us; when they stop caring about sex, you're supposed to stop caring about sex; a lot of women are not of a mind to perform a sexual act that's not going to do anything for them, i.e., give us a blowjob. And most are sticklers for obeying the "no cheating" rules and even more so when some women feel that just because she doesn't want sex, no one should want sex so there's no reason for hubby to go looking elsewhere.

If hubby hooks up with a guy to get sucked off - and maybe do some sucking - then he's the wrongest motherfucker who ever lived for cheating on her and not telling her that he's really gay; some wives get slammed by menopause and they don't really give a fuck if hubby is having sex with someone else as long as he's (1) still taking care of his responsibilities at home and (2) he's not going to even ask her about having sex. And then, there's the rare wife who understands that just because her desire for sex has now gone by the wayside, that doesn't mean that his desire has gone anywhere and she's going to be okay with whatever way he chooses to take care of this need... and be okay with whoever he does it with.

 

Facing some facts: A lot of married men, when their wives hit menopause and give up on sex, take this "opportunity" to either get back to or take that first step having some kind of sex with a man. I can't tell you how many married men I gave blowjobs to or creamed my butt (and before I was a married man myself) but I can tell you that because those married men wanted sex with me (or any other guy they could convince), that had me wondering why when other married men cheated with another woman.

One woman I knew found out that her husband was sleeping with a guy and she was having a major hissy fit; she had asked me why motherfucking men gotta cheat and hide the fact that they were gay all along and I asked her, "If you're not going to have sex with your husband, who's supposed to?" and her answer was, "Nobody!" I pointed out to her that if she wasn't going to fuck him, why be pissed off because someone else wanted to fuck him and even if it was another man. Her problem was that she couldn't see past "the way it's supposed to be" and planned on making his life a living hell and for a lot of married dudes I personally knew and who were, at the least, sucking cock, this seemed to be endemic to being married and I would come to better understand that when you leave a man to his own devices, there's no telling what he might do... or who he's going to do it with.

You don't want your husband fucking around on you and turning into a cocksucker? Don't stop having sex with him because if/when you do, someone else very well may be having sex with him and gladly so.

 

…and gladly so.” This is key. Many of us just want someone who enjoys it as much as we do. Enthusiasm is key. I enjoy sucking a man’s cock and I really enjoy a man sucking mine, and that is made better by him enjoying what he is doing for me. It’s not enough for me when it done out of duty or turned into a chore.

 

I don't recall any married man sucking me off and it felt like a chore. No, these men sucked me off and as if their life depended on it and I learned to value enthusiasm over experience because such men sucked cock for the sheer, "nasty," and hedonic pleasure. Besides, you get enough of "chore sucking" from a wife that's only doing it just to get you off her ass about giving you some head... and even if you know she's not going to get you off like that and you'd better not have an "accident."

This isn't to give women a black eye; this is just stating some facts of life that our prudish society doesn't want to admit exists. I knew more men who were "happy" to cheat on their wife with another man than to do it with a woman so it's not to say that we don't value them and what they've meant to us and the relationship but... baby, when I need to suck cock, you don't have one and you probably have no idea how powerful that need is and can be.

 

I’m 64 and married at about age 60 my wife stop having sex she wasn’t interested anymore. I started watching a lot of porn and realized I really got off watching men sucking each other off. I got on a site and found a gay man that helped me find out how wonderful sucking cock is now I love sucking cock and the tast of warm cum.

 

Welcome to the club!

 

Thanks I never thought I would enjoy man play but I do. And I was lucky enough to find a gay friend that we share wonderful sex with definitely has opened my sexual experience.

 

Most guys think that they wouldn't enjoy it... until they try it and then, um, fuck - how come I didn't do this before now?

 

Yes it’s a journey in life that’s for sure

 

I agree, all it takes is a chance to enjoy a nice hard cock once and we are hooked…

 

Sounds very similar to my situation as well.

 

Hi y’all. Newbie here. Wow! Such great stories and experiences. I have minimal cock sucking experience but have enjoyed it a couple times. I’m hoping to do it again soon. My wife knows of my bi side and is ok with it although she chooses not to talk about it much. My last time was about a month ago. My buddy came into town for a conference. I met him at his hotel. We drank beers and caught up then both got naked from the waist down. We took turns sucking each other then came in each other’s mouths. It was an awesome time. I so love the aroma of cum. It’s damn near intoxicating.

 

At least she is ok with you indulging yourself in cock from time to time. She should be commended for allowing you to do so as mine does as well. My present wife was told early on in our relationship, she witnessed and shared within many times but has recently lost interest but does not deny me the opportunity to do so with my 3-4 friends from time to time. She knows I love to suck cock and am very good at it as are the other guys I frequent with. We provide each other what she is no longer wanting to provide and is OK with us doing so for each other. She knows I still love her and will always be there for her.

 

I am 72 and started sucking cock when I was 50. When I think back I believe that I have always been bi curious but didn’t even realize that I was. I want to start this self exploration by saying that I was married to a very adventurous woman who passed early in life from cancer (30s). She was bi, sexy as hell and loved to tease and fuck my friends when I asked. We had a sitting area in our bedroom that we would gather with a friend or two to smoke some weed behind closed doors (young kids). She would often be dressed to fuck under her silk robe and let the robe part slightly to reveal the stockings, garter, half cup bra that she loved to wear. Class A cock teaser to say the least.

Lucky friends were teased unmercifully until they ended up in our bed. This is why I believe that I have always been bi: My favorite part of this was watching her suck cock as well as when she spread her legs and guided another cock inside of her. I was never jealous and would get hard as steel watching another cock penetrate her as she moaned and talked dirty to her latest conquest.

I kick myself when I think of the opportunities that I missed to share a cock with her. I know without a doubt that she would have encouraged me to help her with some of those beautiful cocks that she licked and sucked. She was always up for anything sexual. In fact one time she took our gay friend to bed and he had a hard time performing. She did manage to get him to dump a load in her pussy, but all I did was watch his beautiful cock penetrate her. I truly thought that was my only job. I should have been helping out and kick myself now for not sucking him too.

Many years later I jumped on a chat room, started talking with a guy and decided to meet. I was nervous as hell a few days later when we met at a hotel, but by now I had been very curious for about three years. I figured it was now or never. It took a bit of porn and a while for our nervousness to subside, but soon I was stroking his cock through his jeans before we stripped and began some frot, mutual masturbation, etc. I knew that I would have to go first or I would lose my desire to suck him off. I enjoyed every minute of our afternoon once I got past my nerves. I often think of how much my 1st wife (I married again, but to someone not so open minded) could have enjoyed another aspect of sexuality if only I had recognized my bi side way back then.

Sorry for the long winded response. I can never be brief.

 

Anyone on here from Ga??

 

For a while, I was able to suck my own cock. I honestly thought that I was better at it then a majority of the women that I had been with. I had thought about it for over 40yrs before I had the opportunity , right opportunity, to try my so called cock sucking skill on a friend. When I did, my wife was present, so I had to show off and left them both unexpectedly thrilled. It was like I just climbed Everest. I was thrilled that I made it, suckcessfully and like the old lays potato chip commercial, "You Just Cant Eat One"
I was able to have a couple of other married guys feel the same way. Straight, married life until retirement. Its all good at that point.

 

My wife was the one who proposed the idea of doing with our old friend. He was older, gay and after his partner was gone,he was all for the idea . It was a while before I finally caved to my desires for a good bj. Im sorry I put it off for so long.