Married men who suck dick...

Its the Way to start your Day It gets you going, gives you a better attitude and tastes good too.

 

Things get to a point where you need to take action. Cheating was out but wife even said I should try the Bi option. Who cares anymore. This was a No harm, no foul scenario, so I accepted my fate. It was one of the best choices available.. You scratch my back and I'll scratch yours. After the first time, there was no turning back.

 

@topper - you're right when you say that things get to a point where you need to take action and for a lot guys, it's take action and by any means necessary and the sooner, the better. There are a lot of possibilities as well as a lot of "ifs" from trying to find guys to do this with and up to and including trying to get a wife or girlfriend to give them permission or join them in having sex with other guys/people. Not everyone gets lucky in these things and it can make a guy take the path of least resistance and risk trashing their relationship (if they're in one) because the urge to do something about this is very and stupidly powerful and not every guy is able to resist the urge and temptation.

Married men sucking other married men is "simply" about understanding something about being married; there's a brotherhood or sorts that guys who aren't married may not understand and guys who used to be married, well, they can be considered to still be a part of the brotherhood if need be. What we learn is that needs... always must. If we don't do anything about it, it may not do any physical harm to us but mentally/emotionally?

 

My desire to suck was not related to lack of sex. I found I was enamored by the sight a dick by the time I was 12. Had an encounter with a couple of them a few years later, but it was just masturbating two others. Always wanting to do more, but that inner voice kept telling me I would then be gay if I sucked off a man. All the while, I am still having an amazing and varied sexual relationship with my wife. No matter how much we got it on, I still had that feeling for sucking a dick. A set of circumstances led to my having that first time, and it has continued for many years. I have had no regrets nor self recriminations for meeting that strong need to suck a man and swallow his cum.

 

Not all guys who have the desire to suck cock do it because of a lack of sex; something just goes on with them that makes them want to suck cock and they won't be happy until they do!

 

Exactly!! That is what happened in my case. I knew it was the correct choice for me right after that first unexpected encounter.

 

You are so right. During my first marriage my wife would hold back on sex with me for months at a time which led me to allowing other guys suck my dick to get the satisfaction I was needing. It was better than jerking off all the time. When I finally gave in to the urge to suck another man's cock (I had been wanting to do so for quite some time) I found it to be more enjoyable than I expected. My wife and I were in our early 40's when once again she was wanting sex again and it was great, but I continued to want to suck dick and was doing so regularly. Hell, many afternoons I sucked off two or three guys before she arrived home to have great sex with her that evening. I was having great sex with my wife but still had a craving for a man's cock and his load of cum and doing so regularly behind her back. I needed and wanted cock as much as I needed and wanted her pussy.

 

I totally agree with you "KDaddy. Masturbation feels good and is my solution when a man or a woman is not available to get me off. I first started jerking off at age 12 and now at age 61 still do so from time to time.

 

I've said it before. It was the lessor of the evils and more of a logical and acceptable choice. With my wife being totally on board with this, I met with our old friend who gave me a great bj. It excited him so much, he came in his pants and I didn't do anything to him at that time. My wife said I should make it up to him and even invited him over to our house. She watched as I sucked his cock. I was more nervous of her reaction at first, but her enthusiasm calmed my fears. She still watches , if I do it with my friend on the boat.
Regardless of getting pegged or getting fucked or sucked by my friend or my wife, I'll still jerk off daily, before I get out of bed . With friend being rare and my wife becoming just as rare, I get crazy. I'll cum on my face and let it dry, as I have my coffee , morning constitutional and then shower
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Cocks are irresistible and doubly so when horny. I've been the first time for a handful of guys, and most of them sucked me off without giving any consideration first. I've only been with two guys who had no interest in reciprocating, all the others saw the light.

 

My wife was the one who encouraged me to suck my first cock. Once when she was giving me a blow job she started rubbing my asshole with her fingers. It really turned me on. Over the next several months it went from that to her inserting a finger or two, to using a small dildo to using a full sized dildo. Sometimes we would use a double ended dildo on us at the same time. She mentioned that while the dildo felt good for her, the real thing was even better. After much discussion and a lot of thought about it I decided to try having a guy fuck me. I met several men and finally decided one one. He was about my age and also married. My wife wasn't at home so we went there. As soon as we were both naked, we were both hard.

With some lube and a few minutes of him slowly going in, he was finally all the way in. He got into a good rythm coming most of the way out and then all the way back in. My wife was so right. It felt way better than a dildo. He fucked me for about 5 minutes when he said he was about to cum. I told him to cum in me and he did. I had been stroking myself and I came shortly after he did. I came harder than I had in a long time.

After we cleaned up we talked about it for awhile. I told him it was great and would love to do it again. We started getting together at least once a week.

When my wife got home she knew immediately what had happened. I had a big smile on my face and was acting just like she had used a dildo on me. We talked about it and she asked if I had sucked him, maybe to get him hard. When I replied that I hadn't she said I really needed to, that I would probably enjoy it just as much, especially if he came in my mouth and I swallowed.

The next time I got together with him, I did suck him until he came and then I swallowed his load. The taste wasn't bad and I did enjoy it. I've been sucking cock and getting fucked ever since. My wife and I still have sex a couple of times a week, but it is slowing down as she loses her desire for sex. My boyfriend and I usually have sex once a week, but may start doing it more as the wife slows down. She doesn't mind that I have sex with my boyfriend, but she has no desire to be around when we do, though we sometimes talk about it.

 

I am surprised your wife doesn’t want to be around since it appears she was the one who planted the seed in your mind to try it

 

That's not unusual at all; a lot of wives tell their hubby to go ahead and have sex with a man... and they don't want to see it and most don't even want to hear anything about it so when you consider this, he's lucky that she wants to hear him talk about it.

 

Growing up bi, I knew that I had three options for getting off: Masturbation, sex with a girl, sex with a guy and not particularly in any order but, yeah, sure - if I couldn't have sex with a person, I could always get myself off and, more often than not, getting myself off just because I could. I was a cocksucker before I got married and after I got married, I never stopped being one. Um, quite a few married guys have sucked my dick, and, in turn, I've sucked them and the fact that they were married was, at best, a curiosity when stacked up against having yet another opportunity to suck dick.

And I got to hear so many stories that explained why they were married and sucking dick.

 

Your wife has a great attitude and appreciation of your needs

 

So, did you get a guesstimate as to how many on this site, are married and enjoy a hard cock on the side....or with their SO?

 

If you are a regular visitor here, you are probably at least Curious. More guys probably would, if the right situation availed itself. If it was a consideration, they would all do it.

 

I agree 100% curious, but in my imagination for the first time would be in a MMF and my wife encouraging me

 

Seriously, what constitutes "the right situation" these days?