Hello all. I’m a married guy from South New Jersey. I’ve been straight as an arrow all my life, not once ever thinking about being with another guy. A few years back the internet opened up another world for me. For the first time I experienced (gay porn). I was totally surprised that it turned me on. I visited bisexual chat rooms, and one thing led to another I met a patient gay fellow that took his time and let me experience oral sex with another guy. I put it out of my head after that, thinking it would be a one time thing. Years later, I can’t get it out of my mind. As a happily married man with a family, it’s very frustrating when the desire becomes so strong at times. Is there anyone else in the same boat?
I've been married since early last year, but we've been together almost a decade. If she knew I was bi, forget about divorce. She'd probably kill me. I've never done anything with a guy, but really want to experience anal sex (receiving). Sadly, no options for making that happen.
absolutely! I thought the same thing, it would be a one time thing. You know, get it out of my system. Boy that was a slippery slope! Lol. I wound up meeting with a guy simi regularly for a while. But it didn’t work out, so now it’s been over a year since I’ve been with a guy and the urge is as strong as ever. I’ve been chatting with another guy and have tentative plans to meet him this week.
My wife would react the same. I actually have experienced bottoming. I started with toys, which hurt very much at first and I slowly got used to it. It doesn’t happen very often. Maybe four times. It can be pretty intense, but I prefer oral.
You're not wrong. I do enjoy bottoming for our man but in all honesty my true passion is sucking cock which I can/have done so for hours at a time with guys. Our mans cock to me is just as beautiful as our wives breasts, vagina, and asses. I enjoy being with all three of them.
I’m right there with you. I’ve had gay fantasies as long as I could remember. I was always into women and got a lot of pussy back in the day. The feelings got stronger as I got older and I fell into a great situation with a neighbor. I love sucking his cock.
I totally understand what you’re saying. When I was younger I was very curious and constantly found myself on no chat rooms talking to other guys. When I was in college an old high school friend of mine are out and I talked to him about it a lot. Eventually we hooked up and it was an awesome experience. I thought that one time would be enough. When my wife and I were first dating I actually told her about it (which was huge for me) but it was obvious she wasn’t in to it. I back peddled a little and was reminded why I kept it to myself. I still think about that experience a lot. I still think about being with other guys. I love my wife and family, and even if I weren’t going to be with other guys I wish she accepted all of me and I didn’t have to hide it so much.
When my wife and I were first living together we had the "come to Jesus" confessions and fantasies. My confession about having a suck buddy in HS-college initially put her off, but eventually shed ask more questions and want details. It started turning her on. She confessed that she had FF fantasies and MFM desires. We started watching MM FF MFM and MMF porn. Hot times. We eventually had several MFMs with a friend, she had a one nighter with another bi woman, started pegging, and she thought we should find a bi guy for MMF threesome. I was all for it, but finding a bi guy to share was damn difficult. Never found a guy. All these years later our once hot and open minded sex life is gone. If she knew now that I wanted sex with a guy, she'd probably leave me. Is lack of sex fueling my bi desires? Who knows.......its just there more and more. I don't really want a "relationship" so to speak.......just a good buddy to hang with and get each other off. Living in a smallish town with friends and family makes me step back from actively looking for a "friend"! Just because she doesn't want sex any longer, why should I have to go without?
Hello there guys, I guess I was just lucky enough to have dated a real cool woman who was pretty open in the bedroom .. When I first wanted to try anal sex with her, she had told me that if she had to be fucked then I was going to get fucked by one of the toys we bought..Although she never wanted to have a three sum (which I would have loved.) I've been wearing women's dresses and panties since I was very young, my little sister caught me stealing a pair of her panties and it was all down hill from there. So I finally got my girlfriend to let me penetrate her ass only first letting her have her way with mine.. This was the first time I have ever been played with by a woman and I kinda want to try it again..But for me, it'll never be as good as being topped by a man...
As a top, I can attest to the pleasure men get from having a real cock in their ass as opposed to any strap on. And to feel my balls against his is an inspiration.
Yeah man, you already know what it does to your bottom.. It's damn near an addiction that must be resolved by a real cock.. I don't want to kiss or cuddle with you or anything that involves feelings, it's just a sexual encounter between two men. I hate the way it is so misunderstood and frowned upon like it is..
That's been my approach since I mutually sucked dick with a guy the first time. Some 2,000 blowjobs later I finally had the urge to take it up the ass...I LOVE IT! It's one thing sucking on that cock but when you feel it's warmth and hardness stretching for anus open and then he injects his hot load of cum inside you...OMG, gimme more!
I love hearing balls slapping my ass or my low hangers. There's just nothing that compares to the feel of a real cock in my ass. I've been putting things in my ass since I was a young kid.