Making the effort to talk to girls

you may try to not change, but you still change. everything changes over time, whether you want to or not, you will change. either make the effort to change and do something good for yourself, or forever complain about how shitty your life is and how much worse it will get by doing nothing

 

Well I went over to the Sports centre yesterday, but none of the activities there interested me.

 

You're seventeen years old, you have A LOT of time to change.

 

Well i've have to wait until next year now, and i've thought about future courses that i'd be interested in, and I do wonder what course most of the pretty girls at college do.

I mean i've thought about courses that i'd like to do, that i'd be good at, and some of the pretty girls might do Media studies and that involves doing some photography work. Also, when it comes to future progression, I don't want to go to university because i'd hate to stuck in some dormatory and i'd feel homesick.

I'd have to share a dormatory with all the other people, and i'd hate to do that.

 

why would yo uhate the dorms? you'll have a roomate and then you'll have a great chance to make some friends. i love dorm life - in general, not so much at this school anymore, but in general i do. you meet so many people. you're forced to interact. for you, i think university would be a great thing

 

You don't have personal grudges "yet"? That "yet" makes it seem as thuogh you are planning to develop some.

 

Well it may sound that way, but anything could happen. By the way, i'm NOT planning to develop some grudges, and I could have an argument with someone anyday at college and be involved in a grudge/feud.

I didn't make any enemies at college last year, and I won't make any this year either.

If M says anything to me or starts, then i'll let him know what I really think of him.

 

That's good that you are not planning on developing any grudges.

 

Why do you keep putting the smile emoticon at the end of your posts?

 

Because I like the smile.

 

You're not gay are you? - I mean with you being a lad and smiling at me (a lad) that was what made me wonder.

 

Yeah i did it, i was the one that told the teachers to be mean to you and chris, im the one that bullied you and chris but here's the topper, im the voice in your head that tells you that your not good enough, that these girls will never like you because they're better then you could ever hope to be... yeah right


I wasnt always good at talking with girls myself, but i asked my self why that was, why could i be sociable otherwise? because i put girls i was attracted to on a pedestal just like you and chris and i couldnt relate to them as people, if i challenge his perspective it's only because im trying to help open his eyes.

I think if chris was truely honest with himself i bet he'd realise that he has trouble with these girls because he wants to fuck them. Now after this realization he could open up to them as people and hopefully get all that good stuff later.

But now for you 'gEo' you don't know me, you don't know where i've been, what i've done, what i know or what i've seen but to accuse me of being the 'type of person that holds people like you and chris back' is just a really nice "truth" for you to hold on, becuase lets face it it's easier to blame other people for your problems, especially strangers.

So maybe you might want to work on changing YOUR problems first before you become a pillar of judgement.

 

who gives a flying fuck wheter he's gay or not

 

Your a homophobe, the winky face was suggesting a bit of humour suggesting that if you were the type to hold grudges that it is possible for us to view you holding one against one of the forum members.


at least thats what i assumed.

 

No, I'm not gay. I'm an equal-oppurunity smiler. I just put the smile there because I felt like it.

 

On my posts I put a ying and a yang on it. Who is a ying here and who is a yang? What are you, chris?

 

I'm NOT a ying or a yang, and neither is anyone else, so why ask such a stupid, pointless and immature question?

 

Well you're wrong, and i've got NO grudge again the forum member, but he ought to cut out the humour because there's nothing to laugh about, and I feel like people are winding me up and making fun of me.