Lucifer Sam's Lonely Hearts Club Thread

This is a long ass thread.... someone should tell me what it's about
Please?

 

lonely hearts...

 

well, i guess it doesnt matter what i was sad about now...he broke up with me. yes everyone, the person who was not lonely and just here to cheer everyone up and was everyones friend now is a lonely heart as well.
my eyes havent hurt this much in forever...do u think its dangerous that they hurt from crying so much ?
i just wansnt ready for him too...i didnt see it coming, i loved him. hes just been so depressed lately about stuff and wont open up to me about anything...and then he breakes up with me cus hes "too depressed to have a gf..." I COULD HELP, but he wont let me. so instead im stuck here wishing to b his friends still like he wants and knowing i cant and thinking about all the cute times...like when he stuck his head in the bowl of ramon noodles...god i miss him already.
cani have a hug?

 

*gives madbeast a big enormous hug*

Yea... i've had relationships where i've been too depressed to not be in a relationship anymore, in my cases it was for the better becuase when i get depressed i stay away from everyone, and dont talk to anyone, and trust me madbeast, it would be way more hurtful on you to have someone that wont talk or wanna be around people becuase hes depressed, it'll make you think that you've done something wrong when you've done everything right. Just give it time, maybe he'll return

 

My problem - people my own age think I take relationships too seriously.

 

Well how old are you, and shouldn't they be taken serriously.

 

Three weeks to fifteen, and I do take them seriously. Isn't that kinda the point in it... If I didn't take them seriously, I wouldn't see a point in having relationships to begin with.

 

Exactly, all those people that say you take them to serriously, how successful are they in relationships.

 

come on guys, lets date as many rmadom people as possible to show how cool and popular we are...

 

Not at all successful, but I'm also saying since a lot of people view it this way my age, it's somewhat difficult to be in my position as well...

 

yeah, but i think it's kinda funny george when people our age say shit like "omg i'm sooo in love lookey here i even have an engagement ring blah blah blah"... yeah right. i'm sure people our age are mature and experienced enough fer shit like that. whatever

 

I'm sorry hon, you surely can have a hug. Just give it time, (and baths ) and it won't hurt as much.

 

Well since you live on the other end of town, I'll just have to give you a virtual hug cus. :hugs:

 

Oh my god, I'm so sorry. I know it doesn't help at all to hear people say it, but its the best I can do from a distance. I'm really sorry to hear about that, I can understand how hard it must be to cope. All I can do is give you 1,000 cyber-hugs, and hope that it helps! I really hope all turns out okay...I wish you the best!

 

aww, madbeat, I feel for you. I'll add another cyber hug to your pile - another one can't hurt.

I hope things get better too - you seem so lovely i'm sure that in some karmaesque way they will.

 

I know...

I just wished they took things of this nature more seriously. Unfortunately, pretty much all of them don't, so it leaves you there stuck in a difficult position. They view it as fun, I view it as fulfillingness...

People are strange.

 

well if they did, there'd be even more of this melodramatic bullshit... but whatever...

when yer a stranger...

 

that is EXACTLY what was happening too...he wouldnt talk to me, wouldnt open up, but not just to me, but to anyone...and then cus of it i thought it was me, had this stupid idea that hed cheat on me, vented to his cousin about it who went and said something to my bf who in turn blew up (his depression made him think it was worse then it was i think) at his cus and me, wouldnt talk to me for a few days, treated me like shit at a consert we went to and all because he was mad i didnt "trust" him that he wouldnt, when really i did, jsut worried u no? and then he just goes and breaks up wit me... and for a reason besides the fight....idk, it confused me, but i really do thin kit was him being upset...

and a HUGE thanks to FrozenMoonbeam,lover/young_peace,Butters,TheMadcapSyd,jo_k_er_man and anyone else if i forgot to mention u lol who gave me hugs, u have no idea how much i needed those...hugs from good friends really helps...

 

I ...uhm...well...uh..

Ha...I'm too shy to post in Derek's thread.

 

Hahaha, what the Hell is that supposed to mean?