3 years with a dumbass....damn girl lol We dated for a month and I'm pretty positive he cheated on me and broke up with me on AIM....I wasn't really that upset about it though.It just makes me laugh so much.He was such a loser.Even his ex was trying to warm me and my best friend(they went to the same high school)that he cheated on her u I just thought she was a crazy ex girlfriend or something.haha
Shit, now I feel like 1 1/2 years with my ex is nothing.I just lost all interest in him and the break up was waaaaay over due because I cared more about hurting him.I felt so good once it was over and done with.It's funny because my dad was upset over it hahaha.
Real love has nothing to do with romance. It's something much deeper. I always thought of real love as joy/peace of mind. There's been many times when I'm joyful yet unhappy. That feeling of peace is love. It cannot be taken away, we only forget the fact that it's always there staring us in the face as we choose to only focus on what we don't have. Being "in love"/romance is a passion. And like all passions it can inspire happiness, pride, anger, jealousy, and sadness. When we fall in love it's because a person makes us feel a certain way. But that is something that can be taken away and quite easily if we're not careful. This is why relationships are filled with so much conflict. Everyone wants attention and no one wants to see someone else getting more than they are. I'm not trying to bash romantic relationships but the problems that occur are not because of love but quite opposite, because of fear. Real love is everything that isn't afraid. I think real love is reached at transcendence. Jesus and Buddha reached theses states of mind. Study what they teach, it's amazing.
I agree with this. If you're so comfortable with someone, telling them how you feel and being open with them and love their thoughts and feelings about it. thats happiness. also if you can have teamwork with that person...then you could get through those cnflicts teamwork and compromise can help a lot with avoiding major conflicts imo. but it also depends on the person with explaining or showing how they love you. Sooo many different ways. they just have to find the right partner to understand..' YOu say romance has nothing to do with real love. I agree cause when Im IN love with you, my romantic/passionate side comes out and shows you..in a sexual way. I express my love...making love...if that makes sense...I bring you to romantic places and peaceful settings to make love. Yes Im a gift giver lol but I dont think gifts top off sex >_>
Sex is the greatest gift ever... a mingling of the soul But since love is present all the time, everywhere, when you fall in love and your heart is open to real love you get some really intense feelings. That's when sex is the best, IMO. Not to say casual sex is bad but in my opinion it's a little empty. Like a waffle without syrup, ya know?
sex is a level of closeness to me if, like you said, you have love for another, then the rest is history yes i know. i like my spaghetti to have sauce on it too!
thats interesting. i love ritz crackers with milk over it. i eat it like cereal. but i dont love it. and the salty milk left at the end makes me sick if i drink it. learned that the hard way.
