Long time married, how do you cope with your urges

Talk to her about it, she just might surprise you...

 

I watch gay porn when I am home alone and come to online forums like Hip. I also have online friends who are married and bi who I chat with. Like a lot of guys here I have never cheated on my wife with a guy or girl. My wife doesn't know I'm bi and it is probably better that way.

 

With so many of us in the same boat….let’s hope it stays afloat. Meeting a nice guy on Wednesday for 1st time adventure for both of us……a little nervous!✌️

 

Sounds like a good time. Good luck to you.

 

I’ll let you know! Pretty large dick for my first time.The mushroom head is a mouthful itself from the picture sent to me.

 

sounds hot as hell

 

Fortunately for me my wife understands and is supportive. She knows that I get together with my friend several times a month. We've been married for 21 years.

 

Well? How was it? *eagerly waiting*

 

It's great when they're supportive of your alternate urges. As long as the love is still there. Congrats on 21 years.

 

FAIL….. the guy’s picture was 15 years old. What a gnome he turned out to be! Dishonest representation. Walked away from meet in a heartbeat!! Learned a good lesson.✌️

 

Wow. Sorry to hear that! I guess he thought you would still go through with it despite the old picture. I guess he learned a lesson.

 

Exactly….he said “ Well, we’re already here …let’s do it.” I just laughed and told him to take a hike and be honest in the future.✌️

 

I am lucky - so to speak - that my wife knows I am bi and is very supportive. As long as I don’t rub my bi activity into her face and keep it online, she is fine with it. She would prefer if I were not bisexual but she realizes that I am who I am. It is not a choice but something you are born with.
Anyway, I cope by watching and jo to gay porn. I am also lucky to gave a chat buddy who I can confide to. Talking about our situation helps a lot.

 

Too bad, there are a lot of honest guys out there too.

 

Coping head on by telling her I no longer will pretend, or sit on the shelf, and that I want dick and am going for it, and will stop saying no to her for sex, take it or leave it, it is what it is. Told her we need to stop the hurting and start the healing.