money comes & goes man... i have almost an identical situation to the one the original poster just said. one of my men is a shit kickin cowboy, works on a ranch. but he is a whole lotta man. known him for days, theres always been a special place for him & all. but recently i became involved with another man, has a better payin job & all that. for a long time i was torn, they both loved me so much & all that good shit. but i made my descision...i'll go with my shit kickin, truck drivin, pitbull havin country folk any day god he is the sweetest man.
I've personally never been in love with two men at once. I suppose it would be possible, but I've never experienced it, myself.
I have told him I can't be bought and that he cannot buy a marriage like he can his prsche. If the poorer guy was a philanthopist and the rich guy a corperate private exec but gave I good portion of his earnings to charitable oragnizations and they were both equally fun, kind, the same build and height and I liked both the same I of course would chose the guy with more money. With that being said I am currently dating a first-grade teacher, a semi-pro baseball player, a chief financial officer for a large non-profit and a real estate tycoon. I like the real estate guy the least and think that even though he makes more in a year than I will in a life time that he has tacky taste and is not the least bit cultured and is a club med kinda guy, where i'm a camping kinda girl. I like the teacher and the semi-pro basebal player the best, even though they make the same amount I do. But you can bet your ass that if Mr developer was on the board of a non-profit and had better tastein food and art I would be willing to have a monogamous relationship wiht him. I was raised by my grandparents who have dissaporoved of anyone I have dated who does not spoil the hell out of me in every way and always told me growing up 'It is just as easy to fall in love with a rich man as it is a poor one'. When I date people my own age they don't expect them to be six figure earners though, just to have the potential and education to be a good provider in the future. I am not going to lie, money is important to me, but even more important is empathy with the community.
