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Judging attractiveness

Discussion in 'Random Thoughts' started by DancerAnnie, Mar 31, 2006.

  1. madcrappie

    madcrappie crazy fish

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    I think it all has to do with the way you were nurtured when you were young. it was all inbred into your pscyche...... and Im sure DNA has a few things to do with it as well.

    it is said that men usually look for a woman that reminds them of their mother, and women usually look for a man that reminds them of their father.
     
  2. nimh

    nimh ~foodie~

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    we're attracted to our imago~it's a compilation of traits from both of our parental units. harville talks about it.
     
  3. Dizzy Man

    Dizzy Man Member

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    Could you explain what an imago is, please?

    I Googled it but I only got hits about marriage counselling, nothing about attraction or parentel traits.
     
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