I've lost all respect for my family.

The next time your brother comes home, give him a swift kick in the balls.

 

I've been caught a few times and I think my mom knows I smoke right now. The last time I got caught she tried to tell me that Marijuana is a depressant and I was like mom you drink wine every night... GUESS WHAT ALCOHOL IS!

I'll stop smoking when she stops drinking, but there's no reason for any of that to stop because neither of us have a problem.

Where in Indiana do you live? I'm thinking of going to IU (I graduate in 06) to be pre-med. We could chill

 

I'm in fort wayne right now.

And yeah, I'm 18, but my parents use that "while you're living under our roof" shit.

 

my fammily is like on top of me all the time

 

Dood thats the same shit my dad told me "this is my house" one time when I was 15 he took me in the backyard and told me I was "mad dogging" him and said "You think your bad ass, go ahead throw a punch ill beat the shit out of you, ill go to jail sure, but ill get out".. fucking wacko. Thats when I knew I had to tread lightly.

No one can know that you smoke pot man, Im sure you can keep smoking, Just score a sac, and smoke at school/ on your way home, smoke somewhere, they cant make you stop completely.

Dont worry about what your parents/brother/ everyone thinks, they can go fuck themselves, remember that. Your you, you control your own actions, if you wanna keep smoking, keep smoking, they dont have as much control over you as you think. Step OUT of the BOX. lol.... mm pot

 

yer man why dont you pay your bro back? its his fault that your parents are on you remember.

in the end though, my mum smokin isnt an excuse for me to smoke. as she tells me, she has a job and runs a family and brought a child up, and i cant even get to school on time.

as said though, your 18. 18 year olds are not allowed under any cicrumstance to complain about their parents, because its their own choice to stay at home.

 

Man that sucks. You definitely need to make it down here to IU. Im a sophomore here now.

My dad gave me the same crap, however i respect it. They dont mind that I smoke at all as long as i don't bring it in the house, my car, or drive when im stoned.

tell your parents this...my dad (from Muncie) was a huge pothead in high school and college. He left Ball State early after 3 years and got accepted to IU's dental school and graduated from dental school #2 in his class......all while being a pothead. My dad is living proof that being a habitual user only fucks you up in the longrun if you let it or youre stupid and irresponsible about it.

by the way, my mom is from Fort Wayne and graduated from Homestead High School.

 

Dude that sucks i would beat the fuck out of him my mom tried to pull that bullshit when i was 15 and 16 so i started smoking at home just to piss her off so now i smoke everynight in my room and will untill i move out this coming year its a great feeling to spark up then lay down and go into a different reality

 

yer but the difference is, you are a delinquent

 

what are you complaining about? Get smart and don't smoke under their roof, or get one of your own. What's so hard not smoking at home until you go off to college? Sure, your parents are close-minded assholes but what are you going to do about it? Will they change? If not, get your wits about you, go out often, lay down a few fair rules of your own (such as curfew) and go out and get as stoned as you want until you come home. It's that simple. And in a few months, you'll be free to do whatever the fuck you want. Maybe you get get a job and a small apartment until you start college. Find some friends who you can be roommates with.

There's a number of things you can do, but bitching doesn't solve anything. Sorry.

 

one of my friends isnt allowed to hang out with me because he told his mom i smoke pot.


his mom's called my house 2 times, and i GUESS i forced him to take a caffine pill (i offered it and he took it), and that i took an antidepressant pill (big fuckin deal, it wasnt an SSRI, and it was only once), and also that i said that i "would do anything!!1!1one!1".

fuckin pisses me off. so yeah, his mom is worried about me, when her son is goin down on his girlfriend, and vice versa.

he's allowed to go to his dad's house, where his dad is asleep 95% of the time, and he can mac on his girlfriend however he wants, but he wasnt allowed to a friend's birthday party beacuse his mom somehow found out i was there.

AAAAND THEN, AFTER HE TELLS HIS MOM ALL THIS SHIT, HE BITCHES ABOUT HER NOT LETTING HIM COME TO MY HOUSE!!!!

fuckin, kid pisses me off. most of my friends suck really bad. i need to get away.

 

Hey now, bitching is good for something. I had to share this, to get it off my mind. Who was I supposed to talk to, my parents?

Anyway, it's not about smoking at home, it's smoking period. My parents are crazy nazis and must know everywhere that I go. I can't just stay out until a curfew; I have to tell them every time I get into the car and go to a new place exactly where I'm going and when I'll be done there. They also payed for the car, so they have the right to take it away from me at their whim.

Now, you'll probalby say that I should just lie to them. . . Well, once again, they're fucking insane and check to make sure that I'm where I claim I am from time to time, and there have been problems with this before, as lying about what I was doing was the only way I could smoke. I'm on such thin ice now that I really can't afford to do that anymore, at least for now.

How about moving out? Well fuck, I make about $80-$100 a week. Considering the fact that my parents wouldn't allow me to move out if they could help it, they probably wouldn't let me keep the car if I did so (not to mention they probably wouldn't pay to send me to IU). So, I'd have to buy a new car on top of paying for rent and basic needs. There is no way in hell I could afford that with my current job, and any work that would bring in enough money would probably drug test.

So, in short, I'm fucked. All I can do is quit, at least until my parents forget about this. And they probably will quicker than they would like to - I got caught drinking their wine a few months ago, they soiled themselves over that and said there would be major consequences, then within about 2 weeks everything was back to normal. Then again, this seems different; my parents hold that same assumption most people do: "weed must be much more dangerous than alcohol because it is illegal."

I think I'm going to quit until the bastards cool off and begin to believe that I don't smoke anymore. I absolutely must not get caught though. They already suspect addiction, and I honestly don't think they would be above "getting help" for my phantom marijuana addiction. I'm thinking of writing a letter explaining my views on everything. I'm tired of submitting to them every time they catch me doing something they don't approve of. The letter would explain why I smoke, why I'm not addicted, and how horrible I think it is that they ditched their friends only because they smoked weed.

 

how can they check to see if your REALLY at that picnic in the park thats during their work hours?

 

Anyone can make it on their own if they try hard enough. If your freedom isn't worth a lot of hard work, then what are you really complaining about?

And if your parents are THAT bad, you really think some letter from a stoner is going to make them change them thier mind?

Just chill out and stop smoking and be a good little boy if you aren't willing to take another path. That's ok. You have every right to want to give yourself the best opportunities in life. It's whatever it's worth to you. the smoking weed is one thing, but it sounds like your parents have you by the damn neck hairs. I don't understand because I couldn't live like that.

Good luck to you.

 

I know the letter won't change their minds about weed. It WILL show them that I'm pretty much the antithesis of what they want me to be, and that communication between my parents and I has ceased over the years because they are everything I don't want to be. I've pretended to be the obedient little wanker they've expected me to be for so long, pretended to see things from their twisted point of view any time I got in trouble. Though I have to thank my parents for what they've done for me, I can't help but despise them for their ignorance and willingness to jump on the bandwagon rather than thinking for themselves. I want them to know this. It'll be like a giant fucking orgasm releasing all this shit I've held in for so long, and now that I'm already in trouble, I've got nothing to lose.

 

Maybe you have lost all respect for your family because they have lost all respect for you. I know it seems like they shouldnt give a fuck but they do. You did bring this on yourself....

 

I'm not telling you not to write the letter, just think about it a lot before you go through with it. You sound like you have a lot more beef with your parents than I do with mine, but when I got caught I tried to talk to them maturely about it and they wouldn't have it for shit. I regret what I tried and instead should've lied and played it off. I wanted to have an honest relationship with them though, but they wouldn't really have it. but, you did say you've been holding this stuff in for a long time so maybe it will be good for you. Just be careful with what ya do cuz friends have done the same thing as I did and they got in trouble for it..

 

heres watcha do, lay low for a week and make the parents happy, and rather than lie and go someplace else, go to the right house just take some time getting there! So basicly get 90% of the way to given destination, find a nice park or woods, toke it up, drive rest of way to friends house. Stay at friends house till sober, drive home several hours later! Was that so bad?