i was in denver and it was CRAZY and this dude (drunk, like everyone else) dressed up as a bear kept running around screaming "SHE-BEAR!!!!!! SHE-BEAR I NEEEED YOU!!" cause he thought i was a bear LOL
It used to bother me when one of my woman friends would pull the "did you ever think about us?" bit. Hasn't happened in awhile though. And that REALLY fucks with my head!
i hate it when that happens annie, i moved on to gay guy friends.... lol. it's worked to some extent. i also get afraid that some guys will think i like them too... that's awkward as well. i hate it.
lol! "hey, would you and your girlfriends like to make a little video for us and earn a little extra cash for your vacation??"
Come to think of it, tigerlily, I have a guy friend at the University who I am 97.5% sure is gay and he hasn't had those feelings...I think my 97.5% just turned into a 100%.... LOL...I need gay guy friends....that's most definitely my solution...
I've had that happen more often that not too, Annie. I tend to get along better with men, probably because I've been burnt so many times with my female friendships. However... I have lost many what I "thought" were really wonderful friendships with males because they began giving me "love" confessions. Then I ended up feeling horrible because I saw them only as a friend, a brother, and had to tell them that although I loved them in a platonic way, it was nothing more. And that was the end of those friendships, because once that was out in the open, they would no longer want to be around me, accept my phone calls. But I was always blind I suppose, I couldn't see the signs that they saw me as more than a friend, I just figured we had a good, solid friendship.
Hey ladies, you can always trust me around you. You KNOW where my mind is so there is no need to wonder and we can be friends!
I have the problem where me and the guy both know we are friends and ONLY friends but everyone else wants to spread the rumor around 'oh her and so and so are screwing'..l it happened at work recently