is this stupid?

Sorry, too many alarm bells. You mentioned school, so I'm guessing 17/18 or early college.

At that age he should be spending most of his time chasing guys, or know not to just stick to one female friend, or if the neurotic type no where near girls

By faking it, I dont mean completely, just not exactly how you see the situation

And of course doesnt mean your sister is, sounds like she has a little crush, off to a wedding drunk and horny, doesnt mean he cant be her stuffed toy for the night.

If they are as you say ALWAYS together, doesnt make sense, and why is she getting territorial?

 

hes definitely not faking it, and they would definitely never hook up. yeah, i really do know this. one time we were playing spin the bottle with a bunch of friends and me/him making out was super awkward, just as it was with her and him. it was seriously like making out with a sibling youre blood related to.

he does attempt to chase guys, theyre just really close, i dunno its weird.

i really do think shes got some feelings for him which he definitely doesnt feel in return. i'll cuddle with him occasionally, we've shared a bed a bunch of times, hes seen me naked (in a i dont care about changing in front of him way) but we would never ever do anything beyond any of that. its the same way with him and my sister.
except i dont act like im dating him haha i dont even like dudes.

 

Just When We Thought This Drama Couldn't Possibly Get More Complicated...........

.........GUESS WHAT, It Just Did...

Popcorn Anyone...:lurk5:.....?



Cheers Glen.

 

uh not really?

 

wait 30 minutes after the weddin, call the dude be like 'whats up?' - if it's open bar he'll be drunk and you'll be invited.


that's the only reason you wannna be there right? ahah open barr!!!

 

Your reactions and tone sort of give it away.

Why exactly are you so adamant he is a 100 percenter? Why is it important to you that he is? You sound more protective of him than your sister.

And again, when talking about hooking up, I dont mean in the conventional way.

And the changing in front of him thing is a big red flag, you might be comfortable with that, but he shouldnt be. Either he's sweet and sensitive and going to worry you'll get insecure if he pulls the wrong face, or on the campy side and run and hide in the wardrobe.

As for your sister, why does she cut you off?, does she consider you the prettier one, or the cooler one? Most likely, otherwise as twins you should be doing everything together. You might think she's the prettier one, but its near impossible to rank yourself you've spent to much time looking at your face.

Characters in TV and the Movies, such as Will and Grace, you just dont get in real life, such characters are designed to keep the heteros happy.

Of course there is an easy way to test it, next time you two are alone just ask him to help you rub one out, if he doesnt freak out he aint all that gay. Now, I'm not being terribly serious here, you dont have to risk the friendship by doing that..........because, well you already know what the answer is going to be, dont you?


17/18, around that age, I had a couple menfriends on the go, had mostly female friends, but didnt even like holding their hands (all clammy) let alone cuddling them, had to keep them at arms length in case the puppy dog eyes started to flow. GlenGlen was probably running around with a crucifix in case any girls talked to him

 

I'm Buggered If I Know What You Mean By This, But Here's My Reply...............

From About The Age Of 10 Till 18 I Was Totally 100% Gay, Then Till About

Mid Twenties I Was "Bi", Then From That Point On I Have Been 100% GAY..:2thumbsup:

I Have Never, Nor Will I Ever, Own A Crucifix.



Cheers Glen.

 

so he's definitely gay because you didn't like kissing him?

 

Maybe he feels sorry for her and has decided to give her more attention.

 

maybe he wants to take her away and kill her so he doesn't have to deal with her clingy ass anymore.