Is the number of sexual partners your lover has had important to you?

not a big enough sample to be at all conclusive.

situations, not numbers people. damn it.

 

I prefer a woman who's fucked a fair amount and no I wouldn't care, fuck you if you do internet people,

 

I never said I'd hold it against them, my last boyfriend had been with a couple of hookers and a transvestite.
Did it make me love him less? No
Did it bother me? No
Do I care if anyone does? No
I just said not for my kindred because otherwise, well, we wouldn't be kindred.
We all want different things from a partner which is good otherwise the world would be a very boring place.
And yes holding things against people is very pointless.

 

preferable eh?

guess you bounced yourself out of your own standards in less than a year.


Yep, sex is so much better when you're high on heroin with one of your partners, whom you solicited opinions on here about whether or not you should fuck him while your boyfriends grandfather was dying and then another one was obviously more special that time you were cheating on your boyfriend

I'm sure it meant more to them and you. I'm sure it was oh so special


you must really love that glass house you live in lynsey


its a very moral place

 

eh, my hubby was a complete tramp, and our first time together WAS just another fling

he always tells me that sex with me is better than any he's ever had though. i'm not jealous of other women he's been with, cuz he's with ME now. bein an ex-tramp is just part of what makes him who he is. and sometimes it's just hysterical some of the shit he tells me about. i guess i'm just very self-assured about the strength of our relationship.

 

I don't have any room to thrrow stones, so I don't care. I do like to know, but that's just my curiosity.

 

That would all depend on what we BOTH agreed on for OUR relationship. If it were open or closed.
If it were not open LOL yeah I would talk to her about it.

 

LOL LOL LOL I love you Trish.

 

i dont really plan to ask, but if my lover were to tell me it wouldn't bother me because there are more important things to know then how many people they've been sleeping with.

 

I was a virgin before I slept with my current GF, Im turning 20soon.

She first lost her virginity at age 14... she was a bit slutty in school

it makes my skin absolutely crawl when i think about her in her younger years... it's hard to think of her in any other way than slutty/easy.

 

Ok so it sounds like most people don't mind how many partners your lover has had but what if you and your lover takes a break in your relationship and then they have sex a few other ppl during that break would you mind then?

 

I must be weird, because I think I might get turned on seeing my gf making out with another guy in front of me. I never ever thought I would feel this way, but one day I woke up and changed my view.

This is really really weird. Anyone feel this way?

 

That would have to be a negatory for me my friend.. But hey, if that's what you like, then there's no shame in that..


And no, it would not matter to me how many partners my "lover" has had... I wouldn't even ask a question like that nor care...

 

People do care about how many parnters there parnter have been with. Just remember you will always think if you are the best they have had. They may tell you, you are the best. but in your mind you will always be thinking am I the best she/he had. Is she/he just telling you that.

 

The number of previous sexual partners my fiancee has had doesn't really matter to me. Of course I'd like to think that I'm the best lover she's ever had and there are times when I wonder how good the previous men were. But as far as I'm concerned, I'm her lover NOW, and I'm going to be her lover for the rest of our lives so in terms of sexual performance I have the time and willingness to become the best - if I'm not already that. Besides, sex may be important but it's not the only important thing for us.

 

my condolences to you...

I don't really care if I am their best or not, the only thing I care about is that I am their partner now, and that's all that matters... Why talk about past crap, that's ridiculous...

 

I don't really care. I know he's been with his share of women, and I'm good friends with 3 of them, but I've also been with my share of men, that he is ironically friends with most of them but he most likely met them while I was going out with them or after. We're with each other now and thats all that matters.

 

my last two boyfriends told me that they've been with a LOT of girls...
they told me they lost count..... =\

doesn't really bother me, what they did in their past is their own business. i have nothing to do with that.. same goes for me though...

just as long as i'm not just another number to them....

 

It's funny how quite a bit of people said they'd want to know just for the fact of STD's and all...STD's can be acquired from one fuck, so in reality how many people someones been with is irrelevant to them having STD's, yes the more you sleep around the more your chances are increased of getting them but still it only takes ONE sexual experience to get that STD. So anyone knowing that their partner has slept with someone 15 different times is not going to tell you if they have an STD, all that tells you is 15 different times they could have possibly gotten an STD, not 1 out of those 15 times they did. So really if you're concern is with knowing if they have an STD, the only question you'd have to ask is, "Have you slept with anybody?" knowing how many doesn't matter, it's the fact of doing it once, that's all it takes one time.

Personal opinion doesn't really matter how many people my partners been with before. Way i look at it is trial and error, you sleep with somebody, it's not that great, move on to the next, till you just find that loving that you drives you crazy, and you can't be without.