is she attractive?

And I don't xD
I've never been in a position to loathe someone like that so I can't judge.

p.s. When're you taking over the world and why was I not invited?

 

the necklace, eyes, face(kinda), hair are kinda cute in that yes, maybe she`d be "fun". but really i think she`s only cute superficially. i`m sure there would be guys who go for it solely for the fun & promise of untangled sex. like was said here, i don`t lose my standards for sex. i couldn`t tell her height w/ this pic. i tend to be attracted to taller women. i`m sure once she opened her mouth i`d be instantly unattracted.

 

lol whatever, fine....i have a big head

 

and nice boobs.

 

Well then if you see it that way, of course it isn't vindictive.

However she has no choice as far as your course of action. She wasn't able to choose to have her picture posted and opinions given on it.

I'd feel pretty pissed with her too then if she was aware of your relationship. However, it is not always the looks that people are attracted to...so what she looks like shouldn't bother you so much. You could choose to be happy to have the man who would hurt you like this out of your life I know its hard. When I seperated John, he was fucking someone within weeks. Someone who was a complete douchebag too.

You are a hottie. Fuck him and fuck her. It takes a while to get over it all...esp when there are kids involved. I know this from experience. Those first couple years were hard, esp around holidays. But time makes it better and perspective helps too. You are free to be independent and you are free to find someone who wouldn't decieve you like he did. FUCK HIM, don't give him anymore of your time. (at least the best you can)

 

there`s mention of your pics mary. where?

 

nm, i found your pic. awesome. i wish i could get mine up, oops, haha

 

2/10

 

it could be seen as vindictive...matter of perspective I guesss...


im angry today marie i dont feel like being positive....i know what youre sayin though... thanks i appreciate where youre comin from

 

thanks

 

Yep, thats what I was saying. If you don't see it that way, then the action isn't vindictive. I was just wondering about the motives. But who doesn't like to have a good "oh my god, can you believe he actually picked that over me" session

Have ya gone running today?

 

i`m thinking about putting pics of my ex & the first & second guy she left me for on here. it would be fairly safe in that she doesn`t like hippies.

 

oddly enough when I read your last post I thought to myself, why the fuck am i sitting here dwelling on such negativity? I should go work out and get it outta my system in a productive way...

see! I need you around to slap some sense into me....what would I do without you?!:cheers2:

 

aren't we a smartass....


if it makes you feel better, I'll link her here and give her the opportunity to defend herself....

I'd actually enjoy seeing her on here

 

It's easier to point out to someone then it is to do. When I am down or depressed, I lay in bed and stare at the walls. Not even tv...just the walls. When I am pissed, I throw stuff and bitch and complain...looking for people to be on my side as well. It's natural. We are human We are emotional. There are ups and downs.

But then there is a place where you have to be realistic too. He doesn't need your energy and the only person you are hurting is yourself. It really isn't a matter of being positive or negative but rather getting rid of the toxic energy so you can be there for yourself and your kids.

You are a smart woman And you are doing fine. Again, you will ebb and flow like a mother fucker through this. I have been there. Even as much as you hate the bastard, you will still miss him. Until you don't For me, it was when I stopped being mad that I was able to get my freedom back again. took me two years though.

 

:lurk5: NOW THAT WOULD BE FUN TIMES! Forwarn me so I can carve out some time to watch the sparks fly

 

it would probably get a bit rough & nasty.

 

she looks just fine...and obviously has a sense of humor to take a pic like that

 

:boxing_smiley:

 

I do miss him a lot and when I catch myself feeling that way I get so angry at myself and lash out in ways like this thread to try and make myself feel better....

I feel like I might never be okay again, like maybe I won't ever love again, or be able to open myself up to it....

blech- sorry for getting all emotional


I'm just tired of struggling and feeling this way, I can't seem to break the thought patterns....whenever I'm close, I notice that I"m close and fall back to where I started....

old habits die hard I guess