Is Romantic Love Dead?

our ideas of love could not be more different

 

It's love.

 

You don't want to ever feel that comfortable with someone. Where nothing embarrasses you because you know they accept you for who you are? That's how I view her pooping in front of each other comment.

 

She calls it poop!!! LOL!!!

 

Love is a personal thing like seamonster said. I get fired up because I think how many people won't compromise, talk to each other, come to the realization that if they want the marriage or relationship to last they need to put some effort into it.


Bill won't let me poop in front of him and I haven't been there while he does. We keep that to ourselves however I do pee in front of him but he doesn't really like that so I try to keep my peeing to a minimum.

See...it's all about compromise. :hat:

 

no i really don't
the rest of your post yes, but there is no need to poop in front of other people, I don't want the image of that in my head

In fact, that is something that could kill love...getting too lazy to even poop in private

 

nah...there's some things i just do not need to see. i want a guy who closes the bathroom door and gets the hell away from me if he has to fart.

 

Hahah...exactly..

I meant like if one of us were on the jon doing whatever and the other one can be in the bathroom if they have too...

sometimes when one of is in the bathroom brushing our teeth or shaving while the other is on the toilet...

sure it's a bit awkward but it's not horrible or disgusting to either one of us, we laugh...

 

I was talking about having the closeness, as well as the tingly lovey dovey feelings....

 

but you also like gross things

 

okay, whatever...

 

It's nice when you're trying to get to work, having to wait on people in the bathroom is annoying. When I think of it, there's a lot of (mostly female) cousins and etc. that it really doesn't bother me either.... heh.

 

I do have my moments.

 

i'm not comfortable pooping around dave, i'm not comfortable with him doing it, either, when i can see. but sometimes it happens.

 

Matthew has seen me go through hell with my female problems, I was passed out in the bathroom laying in a pool of blood from my problems that I have had, and he put me in the tub and help me wash myself off because I was in agony and couldn't move.. So he doesn't really care about anything...I'm not saying that I enjoy going to the bathroom in front of him, just because I talk of gross things doesn't mean I love shitting in front of my boyfriend...But he has seen a lot because of my problems that I have, he had to clean my surgery wound that you could see my insides, he did it because he loves me and knows I couldn't do it myself...that's all I was really saying, and that tree phrased for me...

 

Sounds like you have a keeper.

 

i'm romantically in love. met her yesterday. i'm so happy

 

We didn't meet yesterday.

 

Love exists... but it seems we often overlook and undervalue the ones who really truely love us...