Is My Boyfriend A Sociopath?

Yeah, I know. I avoid them....

 

or just close the door to it....as hard is that is to do sometimes....

 

Bingo! and Bingo!

The low-functioning psychopaths are likely incarcerated, whereas the high-functioning psychopaths are the heads of big businesses/governments etc.

Yes, that second paragraph is what I meant when I told OP that he'd tell her he loved her and anything else she wanted to hear.

 

Met people like that....that will tell you anything.....they think you want to hear....
which is different than just being kind.

 

"! I am very inquisitive so I like to have deep chats often. He always replies, but it's usually pretty blunt and not too involved. All I know is, I'm his first proper girlfriend and he is quite insecure about his outward appearance and appeal to the opposite sex. "

Your placing ur self up here











and him down here.... I dont think there is room in your world for him to be who u want him to be. its too crowded up there with... well , you.

 

And as for you, lets examine these points that make him a sociopath

1. Basically because you dont fight enough, there is not enough drama, there must be something wrong with him

2. He doesnt cry enough

3. He doesnt have much ambitition, about surprise surprise earning a whole bunch of money in the future - triple roll eyes

4. He has a big extended family, but he doesnt see them much, probably cos they are a bunch of self involved turds


Most of your posts seems to be about what you want in the future

 

this was my initial thought.

 

To say she is obsessive for asking the questions she did seems jumping to conclusions to me... and to conclude she is a bitch because of it too.

 

i was using the urban slang form of bitch. you know, the bitch from "bitches be crazy," not the bitch from "fuck you, you skank bitch!"

 

I just realized I used to know a sociopath. Tried to save his girlfriend actually... who my brother ended up... ahh, long story. It was weird and wasn't gone about the right way if you ask me. But a hand was offerred and she was too attached to invisible hope. Come to find out, they had a kid together. He then got her all pissed off and out of control, called the cops while she wasn't looking and made her look like she was unstable. He now has full custody. What a shame...

I'm not sure what's worse. Stupid people or people that are smart, but use their intelligence for all the wrong reasons. My vote goes to the latter. I'm not easily annoyed, so I can put up with stupid people. The smart ones are the people that really get under your skin. And 9 times out of 10, they take a little piece of you with them. Sorry, rambling off topic kind of. Guess I've known a few sociopaths come to think of it... Unless I have them confused with psychopaths, which could also be possible. Oh yep, rambling again.

 

i think the worst one's are stupid people that also show psychopathic/sociopathic behavior. they tend to be dangerous and unpredictable or go on with strange schemes that aren't the brightest in the world but no less involved.

 

They've encountered enough nutcases to know its a safe bet

 

with people who are off.....sociopath...psychopaths...just plain nuts.....etc.....

with the dumb ones, they at least fumble, so they are easy to recognize.....the smart ones....are the ones to watch out for......they can always be one step ahead in their clever manipulations...

I have dealt with the smart type once and whew, would not want to wish those ones an anybody......
for awhile I was fooled, too....but my instincts jumped in and saved me.

 

moonglow.....stop with he putting down of people with mental health issues

just plain nuts?.....that's a shitty thing to say about someone struggling through life.....you are blessed so why talk shit

they are the ones to watch out for?

holy fu ckin fuck

 

stay away from topics you know fuck all aboutr

 

look up ''stigma''

 

I did not meanit in the way you think.....so stop over analyzing what i say as something negative there, chief....
You have not been through thngs where people intentionally tried to hurt me...which I will put down.

 

who are you?...anyway? my boss?

 

if I was you'd be so fired

I know for a fact.....many of the people you chat here with are on meds for various mental health issues....or their spouses or children...some you might even call nuts....you would call them that....not us....

.....I don't care what you meant...the words you use suck.....calling mentally ill people nuts sucks......specialy in a thread where the op is also struggling to figure out if the dude she loves is ill or otherwise........there is a time and a place for the lighthearted guesses and moronic replies and this IS NOT THAT TIME

 

the reason....the whole entire reason the mental health system situation in north America sucks so badly is

people are afraid to get help because others will call them nuts

the help is there but so is the stigma