Is it unreasonable?

Sorry this is happening to you Annie. believe me, I'm trying to lighten the mood. Sounds like you know what you want to do but can't bring yourself to pull the trigger

 

i believe ill ignite a spliff device rite now ....

 

well you could either accept that it will take time for him to feel closer and more serious with you, or you can just assume that it won't work out.

i don't know the guy, maybe he is just being cautious, and eventually when he feels it, you two will have a serious relationship..but if you are sure thats not going to happen, then there is no need to even ask this question

you shouldn't be so desperate to create something when you think its nothing

 

Thanks for the kind words IronGoth (admittedly, I never thought I'd say those words...). I guess what's keeping me from doing it is that I actually do have feelings for him...and I want to see where those feelings go, but I don't know if I can handle the pain that could potentially occur if he never actually DOES reciprocate the feelings.

 

RE: (admittedly, I never thought I'd say those words...)

Nobody ever does.

 

theres plenty of potential somthings out there ....ive never ran off with someone and was in love for real , after a protracted period of time ... usualy if things click its quick .after about a week or so your either bout it or flounder endlessly , by my experience

 

Blah...this is ridiculous...

*sigh*

It's over, Im sure.

 

I say walk away , No one that you just met should be putting you through that kind of pain , ALREADY ! Ya know ? I'm sure there are tons of great guys that you would click with that would have the same wants as you . Move On Girly !

 

Yeah thanks for the advice everyone. It's pretty obvious I just need to move on...

I just thought we had something really good...but he totally threw me for a loop. Surprises me, actually. Unforunately, for the moment, I can't watch a Johnny Depp film or listen to moe. without totally wanting to break down...

GRRRRRR